do not blame yourself. for one, self harming is a choice (i know it doesn't feel that way, but it is) and no one forces anyone to do it. secondly, what makes you think that he got the idea from you, not someone else, or even that he got the idea from someone at all?
maybe you could direct him here somehow... so that you wouldn't have to be the one doing all the talking with him and he can go at his own pace.
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