I wouldn't go anyways if she's refusing visitors. It's clear she's setting some boundaries (for whatever reason) that you are violating. I understand if she is still living at home that you may have some concerns, and if she has expressed that she might try to hurt herself when she comes home, about all you can do is share that with her treatment team, and share your concerns with your daughter. But I think you really need to respect her wishes and boundaries.
Chances are when they're ready to let her come home they'll do some talking to whomever she lives with to make sure they feel comfortable having her leave, and you can bring up concerns then also. But until then, give her space, and let them assess her and decide what needs forced. You're not a professional, whatever has been going on at home is obviously not working, and interfering by violating boundaries is not going to help anything.
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