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Serious Discussion and Advice
22-09-2016, 06:33 AM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks Carmen. S had her case meeting today and...
Thanks Carmen. S had her case meeting today and by all sounds she is pretty much saying the same to them as she is to me- that she will not talk about things when she is upset; she does not want...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
20-09-2016, 03:22 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Every day is still an exhausting war through so...
Every day is still an exhausting war through so many little battles with S. What she will have for breakfast; she doesn't want to do the correspondence schoolwork- then does it later when she gets...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
20-09-2016, 03:15 PM
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Talk of residential. Freaking out.
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LittleCloud
Carmen, I'm sorry I've not replied before....
Carmen, I'm sorry I've not replied before. Sometimes I can't find words but I am reading and thinking of you. It sounds terrifying, IP but I believe in you :Smile:. Over the past few years you have...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
19-09-2016, 11:56 AM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks Carmen. I have a lot of friends helping...
Thanks Carmen. I have a lot of friends helping and an appointment with the doctor to get a referral to a psychologist. S has been really happy and chilled today. My dad asked about S and self-harm....
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Serious Discussion and Advice
18-09-2016, 02:10 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks Jenna- that's a good suggestion. I try to...
Thanks Jenna- that's a good suggestion. I try to just keep it light and say little things like that. We are working on reviewing the safety plan for mental health I think this week. Often S says she...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
18-09-2016, 12:51 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks Irene. I think life can be a bit bumpy. If...
Thanks Irene. I think life can be a bit bumpy. If that's the way with S so be it- I'll ride it with her. Tonight she cooked a lovely dinner- she wanted to- and things are going well but I'm well...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
18-09-2016, 07:43 AM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks Irene and Jenna. Irene- I agree...
Thanks Irene and Jenna.
Irene- I agree completely. I think she feels pretty safe here and that means also a safe place if she is angry because she knows I will forgive. I am just trying to be patient...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
14-09-2016, 01:44 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks Carmen. I do try to have a few things we...
Thanks Carmen. I do try to have a few things we do together or to spend time in the lounge so I am there if she wants to talk. Today started disastrously.
I get that she now says she hates being...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
13-09-2016, 02:23 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks. Still no word of what will happen. S's...
Thanks. Still no word of what will happen. S's moods range from quite happy and settled to anxious, angry and it's hard to get her to try any new activity. I wonder if it's sitting at the bottom of...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
11-09-2016, 03:03 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Foster care: Just surviving and terrified
Hey, sorry. I'm putting a new thread back in here because I don't know how to move my original one. I know I made the original one sound pretty positive and in lots of ways we are doing really well...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
11-09-2016, 12:56 AM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
I don't know how to post report. So many days...
I don't know how to post report. So many days even in those earlier posts have been impossibly hard. I keep positive in how I say things- it's how I cope and always have coped.
They sent her home...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
10-09-2016, 01:57 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
It's been a bit scary and exhausting Jenna. Sorry...
It's been a bit scary and exhausting Jenna. Sorry for the late reply. I've been struggling to know where to write because a lot of the stuff going on has been pretty serious- not really general...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
19-08-2016, 03:50 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks so much Jenna. We are working on it- I...
Thanks so much Jenna. We are working on it- I think that's the main thing. Recently something bought up a whole lot of feelings and I'm finding eating and anxiety a lot more of a struggle, but I'm...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
18-08-2016, 02:47 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thank you. I hope that my experiences can go to...
Thank you. I hope that my experiences can go to some good. I know I try my best with the guys I support at work too. I still feel so lost and waiting for something to go drastically wrong but it...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
17-08-2016, 02:05 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Thanks so much. That's what I've been doing- I do...
Thanks so much. That's what I've been doing- I do it with my guys at work too as I'm a disability support worker. Usually I'll have a joke with them but in the end it's about what needs to be done...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
15-08-2016, 03:18 PM
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Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
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LittleCloud
Starting as a foster carer- terrified but maybe making it... :)
Just under three weeks ago I was called by a local non-gov organisation I underwent training to become a foster carer with... I made it! On Wednesday it will be two weeks since a fourteen year old...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
10-05-2016, 10:24 AM
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Contains abuse - Feeling like my memories are incomplete
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LittleCloud
Feeling like my memories are incomplete
I am in the process of training to become a foster carer. A part of that was to write out a timeline of my life. I feel like there are a lot of missing pieces and a lot of the behaviours I was often...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
20-02-2016, 12:59 PM
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Getting back up again- could use a few kind words
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LittleCloud
Two new housemates in a week and all the stuff...
Two new housemates in a week and all the stuff with work. Anxiety has been up again. I'm doing well but there is just so much happening. I'm exhausted and it feels like I'll never catch up
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Serious Discussion and Advice
18-02-2016, 06:16 AM
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Confused
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LittleCloud
*gentle hugs* could anything make the...
*gentle hugs* could anything make the shower/getting dressed easier? Sometimes just setting up a cup of tea/coffee helps me because it will be the perfect temperature to drink when I get out of the...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
17-02-2016, 12:17 PM
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Getting back up again- could use a few kind words
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1,150
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LittleCloud
Thanks for replying Carmen. I know now is...
Thanks for replying Carmen. I know now is struggle for you too.
I am kind of getting things done. Traditionally I'm not good at lists- but I really should try as they get me to stay on tasks. Today I...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
16-02-2016, 12:59 PM
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Getting back up again- could use a few kind words
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LittleCloud
Feel exhausted. So many changes. Got chemicals in...
Feel exhausted. So many changes. Got chemicals in my eye (I was adjusting my contact lense and didn't know I still had residue on my hands) and ended up being pulled off shift by the ambulance I...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
15-02-2016, 02:19 PM
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Confused
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6,317
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LittleCloud
Hope you're ok a admen. I'm glad you could get...
Hope you're ok a admen. I'm glad you could get your dog. I understand well how much that can help. I hope you can stay safe
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Serious Discussion and Advice
14-02-2016, 11:25 AM
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Getting back up again- could use a few kind words
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1,150
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LittleCloud
Thanks so much ladies. I think I manage ok...
Thanks so much ladies. I think I manage ok without the routine normally- this has been my life for more than the past 3 years now. It does get hard at times like this when things get so hard. I try...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
13-02-2016, 01:53 PM
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Getting back up again- could use a few kind words
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1,150
Posted By
LittleCloud
Not much of a routine at all due to shift work...
Not much of a routine at all due to shift work and night duties on and off for weeks. I try to sleep as much as I can. I just feel so confused about everything at the moment. I'm just so confused at...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
12-02-2016, 01:50 PM
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Getting back up again- could use a few kind words
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1,150
Posted By
LittleCloud
I'm trying. I'm just so exhausted. Physically I...
I'm trying. I'm just so exhausted. Physically I need more sleep but mentally more and more just keeps coming and it's all pretty uncertain right now. I'm struggling with that uncertainty though where...
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