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Veterans Board
27-07-2007, 11:33 PM
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Help please, I don't know what to do *LONG saga*
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511
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HappyFeet
I've heard you say a lot about how he needs you,...
I've heard you say a lot about how he needs you, but not a whole not of how you need him. You've said there are situations he puts you in that make you uncomfortable, but you don't say anything. ...
Forum:
Veterans Board
14-07-2007, 07:19 AM
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13
Hi Guys...Update On Me...1 Month Free *possible trigger*
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672
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HappyFeet
I'm so proud of you! And don't you dare beat...
I'm so proud of you! And don't you dare beat yourself up for crying. Yay 1 month free:D
Forum:
Veterans Board
29-06-2007, 06:56 PM
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26
No More Ryl For Me..............
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1,481
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HappyFeet
I'm just going to add my two cents worth here. ...
I'm just going to add my two cents worth here. If you're an alcoholic, you don't go into a pub, but you can go to AA. Yeah, here everybody self harms, but I have yet to run into a post that says...
Forum:
Veterans Board
27-06-2007, 12:13 AM
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14
Triggering (SI/OD) - Time To Get Honest....
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886
Posted By
HappyFeet
It's funny (only not), when you realize SI...
It's funny (only not), when you realize SI doesn't help. It's incredibly frustrating, and you need to find another way to deal with the emotions. Rather than finding another (temporary) way to...
Forum:
Veterans Board
21-06-2007, 04:07 AM
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13
Friend rant
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1,336
Posted By
HappyFeet
Um...he can't help it if his grandma is sick...
Um...he can't help it if his grandma is sick (which I doubt), but a workout? How lame is that? He can wait an hour or two to start that because he said he'd spend time with you. It sounds like...
Forum:
Veterans Board
21-06-2007, 03:56 AM
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12
Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - I cant do this. /suicide
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1,245
Posted By
HappyFeet
You know it's almost funny how we fight ourselves...
You know it's almost funny how we fight ourselves to convince ourselves we have control over what happens to us. In my case, I got angry with myself because if I got mad, that meant I could control...
Forum:
Veterans Board
17-06-2007, 04:19 AM
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12
Triggering (SI) - Can somebody just remind me...
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1,586
Posted By
HappyFeet
I've found that when I cut, it only makes the...
I've found that when I cut, it only makes the urges worse. I mean, it helps for a little bit but then it's really awful and I have to go through way worse urges before I get back to where I was...
Forum:
Veterans Board
17-06-2007, 04:15 AM
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5
Triggering (Abuse) - Is there life beyond abuse?
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1,162
Posted By
HappyFeet
I wish I knew what to say to help. I've found it...
I wish I knew what to say to help. I've found it helps to freeze (so your body can slowly learn it's not about to be hit) or notice you're having the reaction, then try to change it (slowly). I...
Forum:
Veterans Board
14-06-2007, 06:15 AM
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4
Triggering (SI/Sexual Abuse) - ok...so ive lost my effing mind!!!!!
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1,097
Posted By
HappyFeet
In March, I forgot about my doctor's appointment....
In March, I forgot about my doctor's appointment. I didn't remember until I got an official letter saying that I'd missed an appointment. I was having a similar reaction and someone said, "it...
Forum:
Veterans Board
14-06-2007, 06:08 AM
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8
Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - he was there
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1,233
Posted By
HappyFeet
I'm sorry. I've never been in that situation...
I'm sorry. I've never been in that situation (though touching random people has made me feel dirty). Is there anything you could do that would make you feel like you took back control? Wish I...
Forum:
Veterans Board
12-06-2007, 06:24 AM
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7
PANIC....
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1,278
Posted By
HappyFeet
Oh dear. Matt's right. Start with a list, then...
Oh dear. Matt's right. Start with a list, then do things one at a time (most important ones first).
Forum:
Veterans Board
12-06-2007, 06:15 AM
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1
Finally, the good side to things *trigger for people that dont wanna hear about happy people*
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1,053
Posted By
HappyFeet
Yay!!
Yay!!
Forum:
Veterans Board
12-06-2007, 06:13 AM
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19
Adult - Am I strange
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1,459
Posted By
HappyFeet
When I was 17, I decided I was sick of not...
When I was 17, I decided I was sick of not knowing whether I was a virgin (not sure whether I've repressed memories, but my hymen broke when I was 12). So, I had sex with a random guy. Should've...
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Veterans Board
12-06-2007, 06:07 AM
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8
I couldn't tell you what this is triggering for, but mentions self-harm and suicide.
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1,085
Posted By
HappyFeet
Well first, you're not wasting anyone's time by...
Well first, you're not wasting anyone's time by posting. We read this because we care and we choose to. I'm so proud of you for working and taking courses. I know it probably doesn't mean much,...
Forum:
Veterans Board
12-06-2007, 05:57 AM
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4
Triggering (SI) - I can't admit this to anyone..... but
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1,033
Posted By
HappyFeet
It's totally normal to be afraid of stopping. ...
It's totally normal to be afraid of stopping. I'd be shocked to find someone who had trouble stopping where that didn't come into it somewhere. What helped me was when I found things to replace it...
Forum:
Veterans Board
07-06-2007, 04:35 AM
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7
I crossed over
Views:
1,224
Posted By
HappyFeet
Woohoo!
Woohoo!
Forum:
Veterans Board
07-06-2007, 04:30 AM
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18
Adult - he said all im good for is sex...
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5,466
Posted By
HappyFeet
I'm sorry you were in that position. Saying...
I'm sorry you were in that position. Saying something like that about you and your father can only be meant to hurt in the most vicious way possible. It was sick and degrading, and no wonder you...
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