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Forum: Veterans Board 28-08-2018, 10:11 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 6,766
Posted By irkeninvader
Thank you. I am trying to preserve with hobbies...

Thank you. I am trying to preserve with hobbies and socialising, so we'll see how it goes.

I've not tried talking therapy - I don't feel like I have much to talk about. I'm just seeing my GP at the...
Forum: Veterans Board 18-08-2018, 12:15 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 6,766
Posted By irkeninvader
Important Meds/Depression/SI *triggers - probably*

I don't remember ever being emotionally stable. Even when I was too young to know what SI was, I would do things like bite myself when I was upset. I took prozac for a month at 19. Had some amazing...
Forum: Veterans Board 19-01-2018, 11:56 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,644
Posted By irkeninvader
Important Random Triggering - Question (SI)

How do you deal when you are randomly and unexpectedly triggered?

For example... Part of my job involves subtitling films. Out of the blue, this one scene in a movie just showed a teenage girl get...
Forum: Veterans Board 03-01-2018, 06:29 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,598
Posted By irkeninvader
There seem to be a few people coming back at the...

There seem to be a few people coming back at the moment, you're not alone!
Forum: Veterans Board 03-01-2018, 06:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 5,758
Posted By irkeninvader
I hope you're doing a bit better now. I don't...

I hope you're doing a bit better now. I don't have anything useful to add but wanted to send my thoughts x
Forum: Veterans Board 15-12-2017, 03:47 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
Thank you both. I'm actually en route to my...

Thank you both. I'm actually en route to my appointment right now and logged on to try to distract myself, and your replies have made me feel a bit better. Still terrified of actually speaking to...
Forum: Veterans Board 15-12-2017, 03:40 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 2,498
Posted By irkeninvader
It is helpful to know that you're not alone. I...

It is helpful to know that you're not alone. I hope you're doing okay. Feel free to talk here x
Forum: Veterans Board 12-12-2017, 12:49 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
Soooo like 3 days after I sumbitted my doctor's...

Soooo like 3 days after I sumbitted my doctor's form, my husband decides to tell me that he's depressed and is thinking about going to the doctor. So I kinda had to tell him... I guess it's good that...
Forum: Veterans Board 06-12-2017, 01:11 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
****. I did it. I sent the online form to the...

****. I did it. I sent the online form to the doctor and told them exactly how I feel. **** **** ****.
Forum: Veterans Board 01-12-2017, 01:30 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
This one was the first one This one had a...

This one was the first one
This one had a vice
This one here I like to rub on dark and stormy nights
This one was the last one,
I don't remember how
But I remember blood and rain
AND I NEVER SAW IT...
Forum: Veterans Board 17-11-2017, 09:02 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,825
Posted By irkeninvader
I completely get this. If I lived alone I would...

I completely get this. If I lived alone I would give in and do it in a heartbeat. But we sleep naked, so there's no way I could do it without my husband seeing and I couldn't bear the look in his...
Forum: Veterans Board 17-11-2017, 08:55 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
So I finally found some time to myself to full...

So I finally found some time to myself to full out this online doctors form. But if I'm honest with my answers and tick yes to the question about whether I'm having thoughts of suicide/self harm, it...
Forum: Veterans Board 09-11-2017, 05:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,825
Posted By irkeninvader
I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling. Feel...

I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling. Feel free to talk here, we'll listen xx
Forum: Veterans Board 30-10-2017, 09:35 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 4,437
Posted By irkeninvader
I think a lot of us here have felt that time....

I think a lot of us here have felt that time. Hopefully it will pass. I'm happy to listen (if somewhat sporadically depending on when I can log in), if that helps. Feel free to vent x
Forum: Veterans Board 30-10-2017, 09:32 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
Thank you for your reply. It seems silly but it...

Thank you for your reply. It seems silly but it really helps to know that there are people who understand! And I'm sure my husband would understand (at least partly) if I could bring myself to talk...
Forum: Veterans Board 23-10-2017, 04:30 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
Thank you xx

Thank you xx
Forum: Veterans Board 19-10-2017, 02:17 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
I bought a pack of razor blades. Must be the...

I bought a pack of razor blades. Must be the first time in 9 years. Sometimes I stand in the shop and look at them. Not sure what possessed me to buy them today, it's not like I'm planning on using...
Forum: Veterans Board 11-10-2017, 04:26 PM
Replies: 85
Views: 135,804
Posted By irkeninvader
@visibleMemories I don't think I knew you way...

@visibleMemories I don't think I knew you way back when but I can offer a virtual hug! I hope you are safe and well, and that things are looking better than they were. (I'm a bit late with this reply...
Forum: Veterans Board 11-10-2017, 04:21 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,541
Posted By irkeninvader
Continuing my thread here because it feels more...

Continuing my thread here because it feels more like home than the ranting/venting forum, so here we go.

I last saw my father when I as 21 (I'm now 32). Other than birthday/xmas cards (sometimes)...
Forum: Veterans Board 11-10-2017, 04:03 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,931
Posted By irkeninvader
I'm late to the party but I hope you are safe and...

I'm late to the party but I hope you are safe and well. As others have said, you have a huge achievement there! I think there are a few of us here in our 30s and feeling this way, so you're not...
Forum: Veterans Board 11-10-2017, 04:00 PM
Replies: 163
Views: 26,603
Posted By irkeninvader
Reducing your days sounds like a step in the...

Reducing your days sounds like a step in the right direction - at least it leaves you free to do things you want to do for a little while. Could you use that half day as a self-care day, and focus on...
Forum: Veterans Board 03-09-2017, 08:16 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,444
Posted By irkeninvader
Aw hun, I hope your referrals help. Can you let...

Aw hun, I hope your referrals help. Can you let your boss know that you're in a bad place? I know its not always practical but might help them understand if you have off days at work
Forum: Veterans Board 01-09-2017, 08:46 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,444
Posted By irkeninvader
Can you speak to someone? A doctor, therapist,...

Can you speak to someone? A doctor, therapist, etc? (Easier said than done, I know.) It sounds like you want to stay safe, so if you reach out there should be help there for you. Can you talk to your...
Forum: Veterans Board 01-09-2017, 08:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,775
Posted By irkeninvader
Logged on randomly today and saw this....

Logged on randomly today and saw this. Coincidence!
Forum: Veterans Board 24-08-2017, 04:35 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,521
Posted By irkeninvader
I don't have much to offer except for virtual...

I don't have much to offer except for virtual hugs. Seeing a few familiar names coming back (I came back recently too). Look after yourself x
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