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Forum: General Support and Advice 16-04-2024, 11:22 PM
Replies: 7
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Posted By Iamcatbug
I never shower when I wake up to be honest. I...

I never shower when I wake up to be honest. I usually wash at night before bed.

Why are you asking? Has someone told you that it is not acceptable?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-02-2024, 07:07 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
Remember how a few weeks ago you were desperate...

Remember how a few weeks ago you were desperate to fight against people who abuse others?

Mrs T has been abusing you, others have seen it and reported it and you have now been able to give a voice...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 01-02-2024, 01:45 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
As someone who works in care with vulnerable...

As someone who works in care with vulnerable people i can honestly say that you do need to have the mental capacity to be able to separate your own thoughts and feelings from the stressful, and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-01-2024, 08:55 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
We cannot condone this behaviour here at all:...

We cannot condone this behaviour here at all: what you want to do is not only dangerous but illegal.

You follow through with this YOU are going to end up in a lot of trouble. With a lot less...
Forum: General Support and Advice 01-01-2024, 02:36 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 756
Posted By Iamcatbug
I'm sorry, but it feels like there are some holes...

I'm sorry, but it feels like there are some holes in this story. If there is no communication between yourself and your daughter how do you know how your grandaughter is doing?

I appreciate that you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 17-12-2023, 04:12 PM
Replies: 1,299
Views: 70,934
Posted By Iamcatbug
Instead of focusing on the ED, would maybe...

Instead of focusing on the ED, would maybe looking at ways to help you with the whole exercise thing maybe be a way to move forward?

I might be talking nonsense here, but I wonder if maybe focusing...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-12-2023, 08:59 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 937
Posted By Iamcatbug
Grief is not something that gets easier with time...

Grief is not something that gets easier with time and it is something that will sit with you forever. It is something we never get over. Death of others can leave us with a lot of questions and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-12-2023, 12:20 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
Zurg has a good point. Everytime something...

Zurg has a good point.

Everytime something doesn't seem to go your way, there seems to be this very extreme reaction from you. You make these announcements that you must end friendships, stop...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-11-2023, 01:48 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
All that is going to happen is that you are going...

All that is going to happen is that you are going to end up in trouble with the law if you do this. Or seriously injured. Two wrongs do not make a right.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-11-2023, 08:36 AM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
What is a vitum? Do you mean...

What is a vitum? Do you mean victim?

Unfortunately the world is full of bad people and you are not going to defeat them all by becoming a vigilante.

Don’t get me wrong, I understand why you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 06-11-2023, 09:11 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
I really don’t think that is a good idea....

I really don’t think that is a good idea. You need to concentrate on supporting yourself.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 05-11-2023, 06:42 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
Can you email them to yourself or something to...

Can you email them to yourself or something to bring up with your therapist or another trusted adult m?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-11-2023, 05:36 PM
Replies: 1,299
Views: 70,934
Posted By Iamcatbug
Normally I wouldn't suggest something like this,...

Normally I wouldn't suggest something like this, and if anyone thinks it is inappropriate feel free to report it or let me know and I'll remove it.

But Beckie. Could you maybe let L know when you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 25-10-2023, 03:51 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
Unfortunately getting better needs to come from...

Unfortunately getting better needs to come from you. Which means hard work and effort. I appreciate that can be difficult to do, but unless you are willing to do anything about it, you are going to...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-09-2023, 12:10 AM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
Sounds positive. Hope that you use the support...

Sounds positive. Hope that you use the support wisely.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-09-2023, 12:09 AM
Replies: 1,299
Views: 70,934
Posted By Iamcatbug
I don't think it is blackmail for you to express...

I don't think it is blackmail for you to express your concerns about how a stay in psych could impact your ED recovery. If anything, I think it shows insight into what is going to help you.

Is there...
Forum: General Chat 19-08-2023, 09:48 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 3,273
Posted By Iamcatbug
What if, we are keeping the lesbians away by...

What if, we are keeping the lesbians away by constantly voting for more?????
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 17-08-2023, 05:11 PM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
Going to be blunt, I apologise now. I...

Going to be blunt, I apologise now.

I appreciate you want to support your friend, but you are not there to help her, you are there for you, the staff are there to help you both separately.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 04-08-2023, 08:30 AM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
It is impossible to be awake all the time....

It is impossible to be awake all the time. Everyone needs sleep. Going to sleep does not mean letting your guard down at all. I'm sorry you feel that way.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-08-2023, 11:10 AM
Replies: 1,366
Views: 169,521
Posted By Iamcatbug
Being asleep does not make it your fault. What...

Being asleep does not make it your fault. What happened to you was horrific and, like others have said, I do think that you need to try and talk about it with your therapist. Does your support worker...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 19-07-2023, 11:05 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,262
Posted By Iamcatbug
Question- have they recently made certain...

Question- have they recently made certain elements of your record suddenly available on the app? The reason I ask is that my surgery just opened up the GP notes to me on there and there are things...
Forum: General Support and Advice 08-05-2023, 12:07 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,837
Posted By Iamcatbug
Thanks Camden, that has given me a lot to think...

Thanks Camden, that has given me a lot to think about.
Forum: General Support and Advice 07-05-2023, 04:47 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,837
Posted By Iamcatbug
Tidying after a depressive episode

So the TLDR version of this is, how do I go about tidy a room that is an absolute mess after a depressive episode?

The long version- I've just come out of another depressive episode and my bedroom...
Forum: Forum and Community Questions 12-03-2023, 09:45 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,312
Posted By Iamcatbug
Tbh most are 3-4 so not exactly scrolling past...

Tbh most are 3-4 so not exactly scrolling past hundreds to get down to threads.
Forum: General Support and Advice 29-10-2022, 06:54 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,907
Posted By Iamcatbug
I was in almost the exact situation 10 years ago...

I was in almost the exact situation 10 years ago when my paternal grandma died.

She hadn’t been in our lives since I was very young and I felt exactly the same as you are describing now.

I...
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