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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 23-08-2023, 01:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,360
Posted By finding.my.wings
grief and CPTSD

Honestly cannot recall where to post, its been so long.

But 3 weeks ago, the women who gave birth to me died. She didnt really raise me, i was taken form her care when i was 9 year old. she was...
Forum: General Chat 24-01-2023, 12:01 PM
Replies: 150
Views: 46,777
Posted By finding.my.wings
Hello, I don’t think im an original...

Hello, I don’t think im an original original member but I joined around 2007/2008 and oddly come back to visit every now and again.
Forum: General Chat 24-01-2023, 11:59 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 4,718
Posted By finding.my.wings
I’m in New Zealand and have popped in and...

I’m in New Zealand and have popped in and out over the years. It’s definitely quieter… but maybe I’ll come back more often now that I have more time available.
Forum: General Support and Advice 28-01-2018, 03:44 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 930
Posted By finding.my.wings
hey, just wanted to pop in and say im around. and...

hey, just wanted to pop in and say im around. and you can pm me
Forum: Veterans Board 04-09-2017, 02:24 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,816
Posted By finding.my.wings
Hey people, some names are familiar in this...

Hey people, some names are familiar in this thread :)
feel free to message me as i dont often come on here these days.

I also still am struggling/working though issues from 10 years ago but im in...
Forum: Veterans Board 04-09-2017, 02:19 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,764
Posted By finding.my.wings
Opps was a few days late in my random logging on

Opps was a few days late in my random logging on
Forum: General Chat 19-04-2016, 07:52 AM
Replies: 59
Views: 9,430
Posted By finding.my.wings
over a month late, but sending love to everyone....

over a month late, but sending love to everyone. I knew a bit of Katie, i saw here posts on here through the years. I hope now she is happy and that those left on earth dont feel like they are...
Forum: General Chat 19-04-2016, 07:42 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 3,144
Posted By finding.my.wings
Laptop because ive found that chat doesnt work...

Laptop because ive found that chat doesnt work with my phone (well any phone ive had) and also the site remains a full website rather then a mobile site.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2016, 07:39 AM
Replies: 236
Views: 53,850
Posted By finding.my.wings
Hi, this is amazing. You're amazing. Plus its now...

Hi, this is amazing. You're amazing. Plus its now been over a year free plus the other 4 months.. so its been 16 months.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2016, 07:34 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 995
Posted By finding.my.wings
Hey Sophie thanks, up until october last year i...

Hey Sophie thanks, up until october last year i hand had any specific behavioural treatment. but then i started with a therapist for other reasons and she said that we needed to work on my self harm...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2016, 07:26 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 834
Posted By finding.my.wings
I have used ice and found it useful to a degree,...

I have used ice and found it useful to a degree, its hard as it melts and water drops everywhere which can be annoying.

Maybe trying talking about all the things (big and small) that are triggering...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2016, 07:20 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,030
Posted By finding.my.wings
id definetly reccomend a tubi-grip. Just make...

id definetly reccomend a tubi-grip. Just make sure the wound isnt open or weeping pus so as not to moisten the already scabbed over areas.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 09-04-2016, 04:55 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 995
Posted By finding.my.wings
15 years

is way too long :/
the longest ive gone without slef harming is only 3ish months.
recently ive been wondering if im a chronic self hamrer? and if my mh team are simply just helping to make sure...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 09-04-2016, 04:42 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,917
Posted By finding.my.wings
*jumps in* i dont think theres an age limit...

*jumps in* i dont think theres an age limit either; yes many people would expect an adult (25+ years) to know how to cope better then someone younger. however, everyone is different, and learns...
Forum: General Chat 21-02-2016, 04:28 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,075
Posted By finding.my.wings
Wow no, i never did see this article. thanks for...

Wow no, i never did see this article. thanks for that--- glad to see Harley is real. Does he still float around this site these days?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-02-2016, 04:22 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 728
Posted By finding.my.wings
sorry for taking so long to reply to you Auror,...

sorry for taking so long to reply to you Auror, you are correct in my first post i was indeed referring to going down to hospital and access the crisis team that way.

since you posted things have...
Forum: General Support and Advice 21-02-2016, 03:30 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 576
Posted By finding.my.wings
wow small light that sounds really cool. ive...

wow small light that sounds really cool. ive heard of the idea but havent really looked into it much but maybe i will do a bit of research and see where it takes me. I do like art in general so could...
Forum: General Chat 21-02-2016, 02:36 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,075
Posted By finding.my.wings
Serious Question....who and where is Harley?

Back in 08 when i first found this site, Harley and Harley's Dad both existed and posted every now and again.... 8 years on and im still around and pop back every now and again.... and being in NZ...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 17-02-2016, 12:18 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,855
Posted By finding.my.wings
Thank you both, i do have a couple of close...

Thank you both, i do have a couple of close friends and i am seeing a therapist specifically trained in this area. I do trust all three of them but i dont really trust myself (as to how id cope after...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 17-02-2016, 12:02 AM
Replies: 41,517
Views: 1,154,169
Posted By finding.my.wings
hey guys sorry ive not been around much. i do pop...

hey guys sorry ive not been around much. i do pop in and read though.

just a question: what are your thoughts on antidepressants verse mood stabilizers?

currently on two anti depressant (one...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 15-02-2016, 01:23 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 728
Posted By finding.my.wings
Unfortually Auror if i make cocntact with crisis...

Unfortually Auror if i make cocntact with crisis team that only options they can offer is continue with distraction and to call beack if i need to later. However, this past weekend they have been...
Forum: General Chat 15-02-2016, 01:17 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,948
Posted By finding.my.wings
Thank you :)

Thank you :)
Forum: Eating Issues Support 14-02-2016, 12:32 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,125
Posted By finding.my.wings
Thanks tiptoes..... not all forms of exercise are...

Thanks tiptoes..... not all forms of exercise are put. i go for walks and swimming and do pilates at home. its not much and i feel like i should be doing more but its all i can manage atm. I would...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 14-02-2016, 12:27 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,118
Posted By finding.my.wings
Do you have anyone around you that you can keep...

Do you have anyone around you that you can keep accountable with regarding eating and stuff? i know that has helped me in the past.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-02-2016, 12:21 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 728
Posted By finding.my.wings
i fear that they will simply turn me away and say...

i fear that they will simply turn me away and say they cannot help.
(it has happens lots before- so experience fuels my fear).
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