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ThePhoenixFallacy
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Abuse and Bullying Support
26-10-2018, 01:17 AM
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Contains sexual abuse - Looking for triggers
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9,699
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ThePhoenixFallacy
I also do this, for much the same reasons as you...
I also do this, for much the same reasons as you do, OP. You're not alone.
Forum:
General Support and Advice
22-03-2018, 04:03 PM
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College & Uni support thread.
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21,287
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
I'm really stuck with an essay but I've already...
I'm really stuck with an essay but I've already almost used up my provision for extra time on assignments. Without really good reason and possibly added proof I can't get more time. I'm panicking. If...
Forum:
General Support and Advice
14-03-2018, 12:46 AM
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169
College & Uni support thread.
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21,287
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Those days I wake up feeling heavy and slow, and...
Those days I wake up feeling heavy and slow, and I dread interacting with people, I dread leaving my flat, I dread having to cope with a day when I don't have the reserves to do it on my own without...
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General Support and Advice
13-03-2018, 10:57 PM
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169
College & Uni support thread.
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21,287
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Every time I wake up to a day like this, the days...
Every time I wake up to a day like this, the days where I wake up dreading the day... I tell myself that I'll wake up tomorrow and it's going to be different. Usually it is but I think, if I let...
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General Support and Advice
13-03-2018, 08:02 PM
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169
College & Uni support thread.
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21,287
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Work is stressful. I tend to have a couple of...
Work is stressful. I tend to have a couple of weeks where I have assignments from everywhere already and tutors love setting new homework in that time frame and I don't know what I'm doing any more...
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General Support and Advice
25-02-2018, 04:23 PM
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169
College & Uni support thread.
Views:
21,287
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
I've written it out in my journal. By "just...
I've written it out in my journal. By "just about", I mean that I've looked at what's due and written a list of what's most urgent by week. So this/next week, it's preparing for a presentation and...
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General Support and Advice
21-02-2018, 10:23 PM
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169
College & Uni support thread.
Views:
21,287
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
First, Hi, I never introduced myself here. I'm...
First, Hi, I never introduced myself here. I'm Ash.
I'm ok. I'm quite proud of myself for planning out the deadlines I need to focus on over the next few weeks. I'm... managing. Just about.
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
29-07-2017, 10:47 PM
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1
Finding a purpose.
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1,294
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Hello, and welcome to RYL! I hope you do find...
Hello, and welcome to RYL!
I hope you do find what you're looking for. And feel supported here.
I figured this sounded like a hello post so a welcome was in order.
I feel sometimes like I have...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
28-07-2017, 05:08 PM
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6
Contains abuse - Sexual again
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1,449
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
I mainly just wanted to say that you're not alone...
I mainly just wanted to say that you're not alone in this.
That's exactly what it was like with my ex, once things started getting more sexual. At the time I was ok with it, but afterwards I'd panic.
Forum:
Introductions
27-07-2017, 03:29 PM
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5
Hello hello
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917
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Hi, Welcome to RYL! It is tough. I hope this...
Hi,
Welcome to RYL!
It is tough. I hope this place can be supportive for you and that you manage to find a friend!
Forum:
Mental Health Discussion and Support
30-12-2016, 02:04 PM
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3
I don't know what to do
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1,606
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
No. I want to talk to my T first and she is on...
No. I want to talk to my T first and she is on sick leave until next month.
Ok. That makes sense, it's like CAMHS.
Ash x
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Mental Health Discussion and Support
08-12-2016, 07:30 PM
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3
I don't know what to do
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1,606
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Hi, Thanks for your support :) No, the therapy...
Hi,
Thanks for your support :)
No, the therapy is through CAMHS. I recently turned 18, so I have to move on from there.
I've never thought that I'm sick enough, even when I quite clearly was/am. I...
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Mental Health Discussion and Support
08-12-2016, 04:01 PM
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3
I don't know what to do
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1,606
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
I don't know what to do
I've been seeing a therapist since May, and next week is our last appointment.
Everyone around me that I've spoken to has been saying (adamantly in some cases) that I need to really find out about...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
22-08-2016, 08:12 PM
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3
Positive recovery post - 1 month!
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1,031
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
1 month!
Hi,
I just wanted to say that I am a month free! Which, for me, is massive, and certainly gives me a little bit of hope for the future!
:wow:
Ash x
Forum:
Introductions
22-08-2016, 08:02 PM
Replies:
1
Hey everyone.
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541
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Hi I hope you settle in well. I've seen you...
Hi
I hope you settle in well. I've seen you around already in another thread and I think you are a nice person from what I've seen.
I hope you are settling in well.
Ash
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
22-08-2016, 07:49 PM
Replies:
24
Contains sexual abuse - Memories resurfacing
Views:
3,692
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
I used to think I was an unsolvable puzzle. But I...
I used to think I was an unsolvable puzzle. But I wasn't. There is a really, really high chance that you're not either. I no longer think anyone is beyond help.
If that helps.
Ash x
Forum:
Introductions
29-07-2016, 08:04 PM
Replies:
1
Hi I'm new
Views:
778
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Welcome to RYL! Sorry for the late reply... You...
Welcome to RYL! Sorry for the late reply...
You might find some support with this on the eating disorders forum. I'm not on there much, but I know that other people will be. There are also pages on...
Forum:
Introductions
29-07-2016, 07:56 PM
Replies:
1
Lost, seeking support
Views:
707
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Firstly, welcome to RYL! In reality, no-ones...
Firstly, welcome to RYL!
In reality, no-ones issues are minuscule. Everything is relative to what a person has experienced.
There's nothing wrong with asking for support with your issues. You...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
29-07-2016, 07:51 PM
Replies:
2
9 years*may trigger*
Views:
781
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
It sounds like you are proud of yourself for...
It sounds like you are proud of yourself for going 3 months once! Well done for that, whenever it was, it counts and it's awesome.
It's hard when family say unkind things. Is there any way you could...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
29-07-2016, 07:40 PM
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4
Positive recovery post - 5 years
Views:
862
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
That's awesome! Well done! <3
That's awesome! Well done! <3
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
29-07-2016, 07:39 PM
Replies:
5
Positive recovery post - Can i do this....
Views:
852
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
I found that even over a few months, my reasons...
I found that even over a few months, my reasons have changed since the last time I tried to stop, or at least, the list of reasons has grown. Is there anything on the original list you'd add or...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
28-07-2016, 09:30 PM
Replies:
5
Positive recovery post - Can i do this....
Views:
852
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
You could always think of a list of reasons...
You could always think of a list of reasons why/why not? And trying to work out what course of action is right for you.
Perhaps, if you wanted to stop carrying your tools everywhere with you, you...
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
27-07-2016, 08:52 PM
Replies:
1
Contains bullying - Facing Bullying 14 Years Later
Views:
1,547
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
I haven't experienced this at all, but it sounds...
I haven't experienced this at all, but it sounds like what I saw in the group that my ex was friends with for all of secondary school. They would ridicule him, and seemed from my outside view to feel...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
26-07-2016, 08:43 PM
Replies:
1
old scars, treatment?
Views:
787
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
I haven't ever tired to get my scars treated. It...
I haven't ever tired to get my scars treated.
It sounds uncomfortable for you. Long sleeves in summer is a pain!
You could try becoming more comfortable with your scars? I have achieved some degree...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
23-07-2016, 09:52 PM
Replies:
7
Mixed about throwing away SI tools
Views:
895
Posted By
ThePhoenixFallacy
Aww... Thanks for the encouragement and advice...
Aww... Thanks for the encouragement and advice Amaryllis and not_so_insig, it means a lot to me! <3
With the idea of wrapping them up, I could, but it would be hard... I'm so easily triggered at the...
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