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Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 28-03-2023, 04:53 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,761
Posted By DontLookUp
Thank you both so much!! Sending love <3

Thank you both so much!! Sending love <3
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-03-2023, 07:31 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,761
Posted By DontLookUp
Heart 5 years free

I could never have imagined getting to 5 years free when I was in the depths of everything, I didn't imagine I'd even still be alive. I have so much healing ahead of me still that it's overwhelming,...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-03-2021, 11:44 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,584
Posted By DontLookUp
3 years free

On the 7th of March 2010 I made my first post on RYL after I began to struggle with self harm and had nowhere and no one to turn to. My life has gone through so many ups and down and everyday I am...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 24-07-2018, 10:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,469
Posted By DontLookUp
Yes this helps thanks so much. Ughh its expensive...

Yes this helps thanks so much. Ughh its expensive but I really just do want them to look any better then they can, it will make such a difference to me mentally xxx
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 15-07-2018, 04:26 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,469
Posted By DontLookUp
Silicone Gels - which are best

Hey, was just searching through posts about silicone gels and wondering which brand people used and specifically found helpful (or not helpful) and I have older scars as well wondering if they worked...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 13-03-2016, 09:55 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,247
Posted By DontLookUp
thats incredible, super proud of you <3

thats incredible, super proud of you <3
Forum: Eating Issues Support 29-06-2015, 08:49 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 920
Posted By DontLookUp
i am horrible

BIG FAT TW

i am a horrible person.
i never had an eating disorder even.
i dont have one.
i am just fat fat fat fat fat.
i had to go to hospital so that they could make me fat and greedy.
all they...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 22-04-2015, 12:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 807
Posted By DontLookUp
im not sure about the nausea around some foods,...

im not sure about the nausea around some foods, have you ever spoken about that with a dr or therapist? they could help you get to the bottom of it.

Also lets say you were doing it for attention...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 22-04-2015, 12:18 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 815
Posted By DontLookUp
you may be a healthy weight but are you a healthy...

you may be a healthy weight but are you a healthy weight for you?
from what it sounds like to me is that actually your body is still undernourished for you and that you are overworking yourself...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 19-04-2015, 06:08 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 913
Posted By DontLookUp
<3 keep going, relapse will NEVER make...

<3 keep going, relapse will NEVER make anything better. you can fight this.
Forum: Eating Issues Support 19-04-2015, 06:07 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,008
Posted By DontLookUp
im so sorry you feel this :( i dont have any...

im so sorry you feel this :(
i dont have any advice im sorry, just that i relate so much to this & you arent on your own xxx
Forum: Eating Issues Support 19-04-2015, 06:05 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,444
Posted By DontLookUp
you've got to try and let someone know. sometimes...

you've got to try and let someone know. sometimes these groups can be so so triggering. can you try writing it down and letting your team know that way or speaking to someone one on one about...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2015, 06:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 593
Posted By DontLookUp
im sorry youre finding things so hard. well done...

im sorry youre finding things so hard. well done firstly for going a year, that shows incredible strength and bravery and shows that you have the ability to fight this.
have you ever spoken to anyone...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2015, 05:58 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 792
Posted By DontLookUp
it may or may not be a part of recovery. for some...

it may or may not be a part of recovery. for some people it can show them that still things need to be dealt with or how they are susceptible to relapse. i do agree though, relapse can take you...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2015, 05:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 544
Posted By DontLookUp
can you speak to somebody about it? there are...

can you speak to somebody about it?
there are alternate things you can try do to distract yourself if you have the urge to self harm The big distraction page...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2015, 05:51 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 548
Posted By DontLookUp
im not sure when something crosses the line to...

im not sure when something crosses the line to become addicted or whatever.
but i do know that the sooner you get help for it, the 'easier' it will be to recover xxx
Forum: Eating Issues Support 16-04-2015, 07:58 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 913
Posted By DontLookUp
Speak out and try to figure out if anything...

Speak out and try to figure out if anything specific has triggered these thoughts. let people know you are having these thoughts, challenge yourself so if you find thoughts sneaking in that you deep...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 16-04-2015, 07:50 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,060
Posted By DontLookUp
thank you so so so much for being so...

thank you so so so much for being so understanding <3
its literally like that, getting to a healthy weight has made room for all the other stuff to come up, and i just feel like i have no clutch....
Forum: Eating Issues Support 06-04-2015, 08:40 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,060
Posted By DontLookUp
relapse thoughts

im sorry i just really need to get this out because i cannot explain this to anyone else.

Can't cope being weight restored.
Can't cope having messed up thoughts in a normal weight body.
Wanna...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 13-10-2014, 07:55 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 634
Posted By DontLookUp
Im sorry your struggling, you are in no way super...

Im sorry your struggling, you are in no way super fat and you are not eating enough.

Your metabolism is probably suppressed and the only thing that can change that is by eating more and consistently...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 21-05-2014, 09:38 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 655
Posted By DontLookUp
Just wondering about this *SA*

Can someone really repress a memory or memories? I looked it up and most of it seems to say that you can't completely forget and then remember.

Are body memories an actual thing?

Can you just...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 30-12-2013, 07:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,000
Posted By DontLookUp
Thank you marimar <3 Yeah thats pretty similar...

Thank you marimar <3 Yeah thats pretty similar to how i feel, its so conflicting, its honestly the most frustrating thing ever. Even the dr was talking about how one side of me knows that im not well...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 27-12-2013, 12:38 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,000
Posted By DontLookUp
Thanks for your response and for giving me a...

Thanks for your response and for giving me a general idea of what its like, i really appreciate it.

I've only agreed to go because they essentially said they would section me if i refuse and it...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 26-12-2013, 06:29 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,000
Posted By DontLookUp
Adult inpatient?

I have to go inpatient and they aren't even giving me a choice.
What the heck is going to happen to me there? What are they going to do?
What are my days going to be like? What do i need to take? and...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 02-12-2013, 12:54 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,187
Posted By DontLookUp
I have my assessment in 2 weeks, does anyone know...

I have my assessment in 2 weeks, does anyone know what an initial assessment is like or what to expect? I'm feeling pretty anxious about it :S
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