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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 04-12-2019, 07:58 PM
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Posted By Auror.
So good to hear from you and hear about your new...

So good to hear from you and hear about your new flat. It sounds really good. <333
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 04-12-2019, 03:11 AM
Replies: 1,904
Views: 104,507
Posted By Auror.
I don't know if you have heard of something...

I don't know if you have heard of something called the stages of change - but it's something that an old therapist human told me about and I've found helpful. It's a bit similar to the stages of...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-12-2019, 10:51 PM
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Views: 104,507
Posted By Auror.
I'm sorry you're so upset. Validation is...

I'm sorry you're so upset. Validation is important, and I hope you can explain that to your support worker. What type of support can we offer to you on here? It's hard to know what to reply sometimes.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-12-2019, 10:39 PM
Replies: 1,316
Views: 48,523
Posted By Auror.
You're allowed to be upset. You don't have to try...

You're allowed to be upset. You don't have to try to be happy if you're not.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-12-2019, 09:13 PM
Replies: 1,316
Views: 48,523
Posted By Auror.
I get not wanting to talk about what's going on....

I get not wanting to talk about what's going on. It can be really hard when you feel so overwhelmed. Do you think even though you don't want to talk about it, you'll at least try to?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-12-2019, 08:14 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
Focusing on what you're not getting and what you...

Focusing on what you're not getting and what you don't have doesn't seem to be helping you move forward. It seems to be keeping you stuck.

What steps can you take to work on moving forward, instead...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-12-2019, 06:48 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
I'm just wondering, do you have any sort of...

I'm just wondering, do you have any sort of learning disability or developmental disability that can make it difficult for you to process information? I don't mean this negatively - it's just it...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 02-12-2019, 03:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 173
Posted By Auror.
I don't have DID, but I definitely get this after...

I don't have DID, but I definitely get this after both therapy and sessions with my case manager, or even just after really stressful events. It's really energy draining physically and mentally to...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-11-2019, 08:27 PM
Replies: 1,904
Views: 104,507
Posted By Auror.
It's okay if you aren't in a space to take on...

It's okay if you aren't in a space to take on advice, I think just acknowledging that can be a really great step. I'm just personally not so great at knowing what to reply or say otherwise to offer...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-11-2019, 08:14 PM
Replies: 1,904
Views: 104,507
Posted By Auror.
I'm not really sure what to say. I get the sense...

I'm not really sure what to say. I get the sense you don't generally want suggestions or advice. But I have read, I am thinking of you, and I hope you were able to stay safe. It can be really hard to...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-11-2019, 08:12 PM
Replies: 1,316
Views: 48,523
Posted By Auror.
I can really relate to your struggles both with...

I can really relate to your struggles both with your mother and with money.

I know things are hard, and I'm sorry I don't have better words. But I have read and I care.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-11-2019, 11:13 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
Also, I notice you didn't answer this question...

Also, I notice you didn't answer this question yet:

Do you want to be responsible for yourself and your actions, and able to have autonomy to make your own decisions and choices?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-11-2019, 11:06 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
Joanna, I'm really confused why you think there...

Joanna, I'm really confused why you think there was any judgement in my response.

You asked for an explanation of what the point of a section was. I explained.

As far as I'm aware and what I've...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-11-2019, 08:18 PM
Replies: 1,316
Views: 48,523
Posted By Auror.
What can you do right now to try to stay calm and...

What can you do right now to try to stay calm and safe? What's Bertie up to?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-11-2019, 08:05 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
So for example from your review, you can say,...

So for example from your review, you can say, "they want me to take responsiblity and i think they were being harsh and i don't trust them"

or you can say something like,

"they want me to take...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-11-2019, 08:03 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
The point of being sectioned is for them to help...

The point of being sectioned is for them to help work with you to keep safe while you do the mental work necessary to get to a place that you can make decisions for yourself and be responsible. It's...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-11-2019, 06:59 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
Do you want to be responsible for yourself and...

Do you want to be responsible for yourself and your actions, and able to have autonomy to make your own decisions and choices?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-11-2019, 06:20 PM
Replies: 1,316
Views: 48,523
Posted By Auror.
Sometimes harm management/reduction is a really...

Sometimes harm management/reduction is a really important tool. If that's what it took to not od, then it sounds like that was right for you in the moment.

I hear you about lactating, that does...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 27-11-2019, 03:31 PM
Replies: 1,904
Views: 104,507
Posted By Auror.
I think it's okay if a walking group isn't for...

I think it's okay if a walking group isn't for you at the moment. Especially given you are trying other things. I hope your CPN is understanding.

I had a thought re going out and speaking to people....
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 26-11-2019, 08:43 PM
Replies: 1,316
Views: 48,523
Posted By Auror.
I'm really glad you have each other. <3

I'm really glad you have each other. <3
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 26-11-2019, 08:30 PM
Replies: 1,316
Views: 48,523
Posted By Auror.
I'm sure with plenty of love from you and time to...

I'm sure with plenty of love from you and time to recover Bertie will be all right. I'm glad he's at least okay physically from the sound of it?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 26-11-2019, 08:23 PM
Replies: 1,904
Views: 104,507
Posted By Auror.
That does sound confusing and stressful. I hope...

That does sound confusing and stressful. I hope you can find a way to calm down and get some rest tonight.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 26-11-2019, 08:22 PM
Replies: 1,316
Views: 48,523
Posted By Auror.
Did Bertie end up all right? I hope you got...

Did Bertie end up all right? I hope you got through the day. <3
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 26-11-2019, 05:34 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
Also, you're right services are stretched and...

Also, you're right services are stretched and they can't always make as much time for you as you would like. So in that instance, it is up to you to take responsibility for your actions and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 26-11-2019, 05:32 PM
Replies: 1,542
Views: 49,138
Posted By Auror.
I wasn't accusing you of wanting attention and...

I wasn't accusing you of wanting attention and wanting to be rewarded. Nowhere did I say that in what I wrote. I said often that's how it's seen to professionals and that is part of their mentality...
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