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Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-06-2009, 05:05 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 407
Posted By fallen_guardian
I've been here and I know how hard it is to deal...

I've been here and I know how hard it is to deal with the guilt (not quite the word I'm looking for...) on top of everything else. The writing a letter suggestion is a good one, explain that your...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2009, 05:42 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 860
Posted By fallen_guardian
I know it's cliched, but I want them to ask...

I know it's cliched, but I want them to ask what's wrong when I look down and when I say 'nothing', pull me aside and say 'no you're not, what's wrong?' then actually listen.

I want them to push me...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 22-04-2008, 04:33 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,006
Posted By fallen_guardian
At first I told a lot of people because, like the...

At first I told a lot of people because, like the person above, I told one person and then they told someone and so on; so out of fear of people finding out not from me, and then judging me I told...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 04-04-2008, 04:08 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 803
Posted By fallen_guardian
Hey, just wanted you to know you're definitely...

Hey, just wanted you to know you're definitely not the only one. I've actually gotten to the point that I dread having a good day, god forbid a good week, because I usually end up worse than before....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-03-2008, 07:31 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 582
Posted By fallen_guardian
^I agree, that line just seems to tempt people to...

^I agree, that line just seems to tempt people to go to the bottom before reading everything, in my opinion.

That's a great letter, it seemed to express your feelings very well. I've recently...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 28-02-2008, 05:40 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 349
Posted By fallen_guardian
I feel the same way, but for me it was more, if I...

I feel the same way, but for me it was more, if I tell people then they can't hear it from other people and not have the truth. I regret telling a lot of the people I told out of fear but it let me...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-02-2008, 09:54 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 1,470
Posted By fallen_guardian
1. why do you self-injure- to relieve stress,...

1. why do you self-injure- to relieve stress, because I hate myself, in general because I'm a f**k up.
2. have you ever been hospitalized for self injury- no
3. what are some reactions you get from...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 24-02-2008, 11:35 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 336
Posted By fallen_guardian
Nope, this would be the right place, welcome! I...

Nope, this would be the right place, welcome!

I get really stressed at college, it gets over whelming when you realize what you've gotten yourself into. Other than SI, I usually try watching TV/a...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 24-02-2008, 11:25 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 40,377
Posted By fallen_guardian
"I want to kill myself, but I don't want to...

"I want to kill myself, but I don't want to die, does that make sense?" not sure where I found it, but I thought it was a good one.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-02-2008, 07:55 PM
Replies: 132
Views: 5,042
Posted By fallen_guardian
I agree. The few times there have been jokes...

I agree. The few times there have been jokes they were generally not directed at me so I just laughed it off. One of my friends, who didn't know I cut, would make jokes about me cutting myself if...
Forum: Veterans Board 17-02-2008, 02:16 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 490
Posted By fallen_guardian
It's ok to feel needy, we all do sometimes. You...

It's ok to feel needy, we all do sometimes. You help so much here, especially when I've posted, that you deserve the same, so don't feel bad about posting.

It's hard seeing your friends have...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 16-02-2008, 07:13 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,677
Posted By fallen_guardian
Like others, I'm torn. I see how people could...

Like others, I'm torn. I see how people could think that learning about it could cause people to turn to it to help them.

The argument not to talk about it sounds more like the argument against...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-02-2008, 03:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 474
Posted By fallen_guardian
I know listening helps, I've been listening; it...

I know listening helps, I've been listening; it sounds so self absorbed but I wish someone would listen and actually hear ME.
There's nothing she needs done, its nothing serious (I hope...).
But it's...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 12-02-2008, 05:34 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 365
Posted By fallen_guardian
I find that if you're really good friends with...

I find that if you're really good friends with someone, they prefer to be told face to face, or at least have it explained face to face. She may become upset, but that's most peoples response when...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 12-02-2008, 06:59 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 474
Posted By fallen_guardian
And the hits just keep coming. I'm moments away...

And the hits just keep coming.
I'm moments away from quitting.
My friend is going through a really hard time, has something and it could be serious.
I can't take this much pain, no one should have...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-02-2008, 11:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 474
Posted By fallen_guardian
I just can't stand life, it just seems that I'm...

I just can't stand life, it just seems that I'm still around to make other people happy and for once I would like to be happy. Seeing my dog more is out of the option because I live so far away plus...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-02-2008, 06:20 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 474
Posted By fallen_guardian
confused and alone

I'm not sure why, but my friend invited me to a group on Facebook and it triggered me. Granted I haven't been in the best mental state for a few weeks but, an invite to a cause that deals with...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 11-02-2008, 01:33 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,062
Posted By fallen_guardian
Yes, but only recently have I started, I've found...

Yes, but only recently have I started, I've found I don't have to go as deep to get relief when I do words. Words like "ugly" "fail" "help" and "hell".
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 05-02-2008, 01:12 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 450
Posted By fallen_guardian
I'm sorry, that must have been really hard. ...

I'm sorry, that must have been really hard. Please try and stay strong, keep talking to us here. I wish I could say more but I really am not sure what to say, just stay safe.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 03-02-2008, 04:32 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 442
Posted By fallen_guardian
First, welcome to RYL and congrats on going 2...

First, welcome to RYL and congrats on going 2 years!
And I agree with everyone else, being with them is not helping you and you need to worry about yourself first if you're going to be there for...
Forum: Veterans Board 31-01-2008, 06:28 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 522
Posted By fallen_guardian
update (trig. suicide, maybe, and SI)

Things just keep getting worse, I've tried to not let it get to me but life just keeps throwing punches. School is getting so stressful, I just found out that I'm probably very close, if not at, the...
Forum: Veterans Board 29-01-2008, 12:08 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 522
Posted By fallen_guardian
It's not that I can't talk to my friends, it's...

It's not that I can't talk to my friends, it's that I can't bring myself to go to them with the same old problems, they have better things to do with their time. I think though that it will come...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-01-2008, 07:29 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 452
Posted By fallen_guardian
I don't really know you but I've read what...

I don't really know you but I've read what happened and I'm so sorry that you feel that way. Please get help: call someone even if it's just a friend to say hi because sometimes even that can help,...
Forum: Veterans Board 28-01-2008, 07:33 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 522
Posted By fallen_guardian
support? (update, maybe trig. for suicide)

I know I haven't been around much, school and work have gotten in the way. But I'm just looking for...support, I think. Ever since Christmas break I've been very stressed for no apparent reason,...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 16-01-2008, 06:12 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 733
Posted By fallen_guardian
I've told people and have found that them knowing...

I've told people and have found that them knowing is actually a kind of release for me, I no longer have to lie straight to my friends faces; I would much rather have to deal with people who are...
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