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Forum: Veterans Board 21-07-2017, 09:55 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,082
Posted By EMH
I dont know how open you are with family and how...

I dont know how open you are with family and how much kids understand etc, but could you maybe try and explain it to them? that its not you just going on at them all the time but its because you have...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 19-07-2017, 09:36 PM
Replies: 4,138
Views: 383,522
Posted By EMH
yeah, hospital is so different and its a shame...

yeah, hospital is so different and its a shame there isnt a part way between the low expectations and high support of hospital setting and being at home with all the memories and associations to...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 19-07-2017, 08:02 PM
Replies: 4,138
Views: 383,522
Posted By EMH
ive just read through your thread. im sorry...

ive just read through your thread. im sorry things have been rough recently. completely agree how hard it is with BPD and getting people to understand just how hard it is. I stopped seeing a...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 06-07-2017, 09:02 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,823
Posted By EMH
Hi. sorry youre going through a rough time, can...

Hi. sorry youre going through a rough time, can definitely relate. Im always about to chat to, I dont really have anyone in my life I can talk to about stuff either.
Feel free to pm anytime if you...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 02-07-2017, 10:37 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,271
Posted By EMH
hi, im sorry youre struggling again. well done...

hi, im sorry youre struggling again. well done for going so long without needing to sh. do you know what enabled you to resist the urges then?
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 20-06-2017, 08:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,038
Posted By EMH
does it help by doing things that your body can...

does it help by doing things that your body can feel, like taking a shower or standing outside on a windy day? sometimes that can help to ground us/connect body to mind. how about trying to think of...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-06-2017, 12:29 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,509
Posted By EMH
Do you have any professional support atm? *hugs*

Do you have any professional support atm?
*hugs*
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 06-06-2017, 07:53 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,509
Posted By EMH
im so sorry that things are bad for you right...

im so sorry that things are bad for you right now.
the same thing has happened to me recently job wise. he would have fired me if i hadnt 'resigned'.
do you have things to fill your time with...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 02-06-2017, 10:16 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,233
Posted By EMH
hi and welcome fighting urges is always so hard...

hi and welcome
fighting urges is always so hard when it feels we have tried all we can and just dont have the energy to fight anymore. youve been so strong to fight away the urges.
do you have a...
Forum: General Support and Advice 02-06-2017, 10:12 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,054
Posted By EMH
okay i just remembered what day it is. maybe...

okay i just remembered what day it is. maybe theyre closed. but on monday?
in the meantime, maybe try and reduce the physical pain which makes the mental stuff a little more bearable. does having a...
Forum: General Support and Advice 02-06-2017, 10:10 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,054
Posted By EMH
that sounds really hard to deal with, everything...

that sounds really hard to deal with, everything all at once
I think you should go to the GP tomorrow morning for one of their emergency slots, if thats possible?
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 02-06-2017, 05:19 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,852
Posted By EMH
yeah exactly. I seldom say anything extra from my...

yeah exactly. I seldom say anything extra from my head unless they specifically ask a question directly related to that.

It was just the way he waved me off, you know like when you cant be arsed...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 02-06-2017, 05:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,530
Posted By EMH
ah okay. maybe just text and say that theres an...

ah okay. maybe just text and say that theres an area they havent seen yet and it has some scars so just for pre warning?
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 02-06-2017, 11:26 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,852
Posted By EMH
"she doesn't 'look' psychotic"

can you 'look' psychotic?? If someone is just sitting there not saying anything, can you even tell?

I was at A&E a few days ago. There was a young doctor there and then the senior one came in to do...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-06-2017, 12:17 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,530
Posted By EMH
theyve been your friend for a long time, and...

theyve been your friend for a long time, and since they know about the self harm in general, it makes me think they will accept you no matter what, or however severe the parts of your body they...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-06-2017, 12:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,448
Posted By EMH
i think you should try and be as honest as you...

i think you should try and be as honest as you can with him. otherwise nothing will change, and you deserve change to happen so you can start feeling better.

regarding talking to your friend, does...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-06-2017, 12:01 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,447
Posted By EMH
6 years! Go you :) really, thats amazing. i know...

6 years! Go you :) really, thats amazing. i know that right now maybe that doesnt feel the most important thing, but know that im proud of you.

and dreams can really ****ing hurt. they are so real...
Forum: Veterans Board 31-05-2017, 09:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,623
Posted By EMH
in the past ive just tried to prepare as much as...

in the past ive just tried to prepare as much as i could thinking of the general type of questions they ask, so you can go in with a bit in your head.
i dont know if it would be appropriate, but you...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 31-05-2017, 08:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,448
Posted By EMH
how did the doctors go? were they the first meds...

how did the doctors go?
were they the first meds youve tried? maybe it is worth considering something else, there are different classes of drugs so if one doesnt help you another might. sometimes...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 30-05-2017, 08:16 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,448
Posted By EMH
a bath and film sounds like a really good idea,...

a bath and film sounds like a really good idea, let us know how it goes and if it helps
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 30-05-2017, 08:14 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 972
Posted By EMH
are you getting any professional help? could you...

are you getting any professional help? could you perhaps go to the GP and tell them what you have written here?
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 30-05-2017, 01:38 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,873
Posted By EMH
People 'knowing' stuff in my head without me saying anything

Started having this feeling that people, mainly medical professionals, just are able to know what's in my head, stuff I've thought to myself or stuff ive planned.
I'm wondering if others have had...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 30-05-2017, 01:14 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,448
Posted By EMH
Hi, how are you feeling now? Did you manage to...

Hi, how are you feeling now?
Did you manage to get some sleep/rest?
It's a horrible feeling knowing nothing will really help. I wish I had a magic answer for you. The best I've got is the usual...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 23-05-2017, 06:12 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 978
Posted By EMH
that all sounds really scary and hard to deal...

that all sounds really scary and hard to deal with

do you know what caused you to leave the hospital without getting treatment?

your CPN sounds the complete opposite of helpful. Is he the only...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 22-05-2017, 08:46 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,136
Posted By EMH
could you think of what you would have wanted...

could you think of what you would have wanted someone to tell you, when you first started self harming?
and if theres nothing to 'say', maybe you could just 'do'. print off the big distraction list...
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