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Forum: Veterans Board 04-06-2019, 08:30 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 10,117
Posted By bitomato
So, my internship is ending in a few weeks. I am...

So, my internship is ending in a few weeks. I am still overwhelmed due to the stress of looking for jobs and worrying about having to move back home.
Forum: General Support and Advice 04-06-2019, 08:15 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,506
Posted By bitomato
Hi, I would think that the earlier you book your...

Hi,
I would think that the earlier you book your ticket, the cheaper it would be.
Are US visas issued by an embassy in the UK? I have never heard of ESTA, but my advice would be to contact an embassy...
Forum: Veterans Board 23-01-2019, 09:45 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 10,117
Posted By bitomato
Update

Just to say that I managed to clean my bedroom and communal bathroom on Sunday night- FINALLY! No vacuuming, but at least it warranted approval by my landlord and housemate following a spot...
Forum: Veterans Board 28-12-2018, 08:35 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 10,117
Posted By bitomato
I am overwhelmed with adulting. Adult thoughts,...

I am overwhelmed with adulting. Adult thoughts, adult problems, and the total lack of adult solutions. I feel really overlooked and isolated. I am struggling to do simple things like bathe everyday...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-12-2018, 04:35 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,317
Posted By bitomato
First off hugs. It sounds like you were not...

First off hugs. It sounds like you were not feeling supported by your family and it was a struggle to cope with what they were telling you. I don't think that your actions were unforgiveable, and I...
Forum: General Support and Advice 21-12-2018, 04:26 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,214
Posted By bitomato
Hey, I am not going to lecture you about 24 not...

Hey, I am not going to lecture you about 24 not being old....but I do think that there are a few options for you. Family expectations are a serious pressure, and from my experience I've had to wait...
Forum: General Chat 21-12-2018, 04:17 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,219
Posted By bitomato
What is your degree in? I chose my thesis/...

What is your degree in? I chose my thesis/ dissertation based on what I could find documentation on and what my options were. All of your subject suggestions seem really personal, and I am not clear...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 17-12-2018, 08:26 AM
Replies: 6,161
Views: 214,355
Posted By bitomato
I can wiggle my ears.

I can wiggle my ears.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-11-2018, 08:57 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,508
Posted By bitomato
I agree about trying to write things down before...

I agree about trying to write things down before going to an appointment. It may help you focus on what is said and remember what you want to talk about in appointment.
Don't give up, whatever you...
Forum: Veterans Board 20-11-2018, 08:58 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 10,117
Posted By bitomato
I know when I post really long threads it is hard...

I know when I post really long threads it is hard to expect a response, but I still do. I only posted this this morning and my mind is going a mile a minute. Thanks for reading even if you aren't...
Forum: Forum and Community Questions 20-11-2018, 08:31 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 9,590
Posted By bitomato
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Forum: Veterans Board 18-11-2018, 07:39 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 10,117
Posted By bitomato
What will happen in the future?

Right now, I am trying to trust that everything will be okay. I am a vet- I joined RYL in 2005 while going to Uni in the UK. Currently I am in the US- going to Uni. I don't know any identity outside...
Forum: Forum and Community Questions 18-11-2018, 07:12 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 9,590
Posted By bitomato
How do you currently appropriate highlight a...

How do you currently appropriate highlight a questionable post to moderators?
Saw one today, but really don't want to message persons who are no longer moderators.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 31-08-2018, 07:41 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,129
Posted By bitomato
Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of...

Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you. Take this opportunity to let yourself get the extra support and rest you may need to get better.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-08-2018, 11:48 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,129
Posted By bitomato
I just wanted to let you know that I am sending...

I just wanted to let you know that I am sending you positive thoughts. Please try not to take what your husband says as literal especially if he is manic. HAng in there. This time of the year is...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 03-03-2018, 08:34 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 11,237
Posted By bitomato
Sometimes it is amazing to see how far one has...

Sometimes it is amazing to see how far one has come. The past few months have been rough and for the first time in years/ decades even I've had days of not being motivated to get up and bathe.
I have...
Forum: General Support and Advice 17-12-2017, 09:22 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,054
Posted By bitomato
I am trying to stay as busy as possible. I made...

I am trying to stay as busy as possible. I made myself go to a colleague get together and I made these gifts. For the first time- I had these really loud internal voices screaming how stupid they...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 06-09-2017, 01:21 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,315
Posted By bitomato
I did think about that. I don't know if my mood...

I did think about that.
I don't know if my mood could be described as irritable as I was definitely more than usually sensitive and possibly curt to the therapist- yet yes when those comments were...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 03-09-2017, 11:01 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,315
Posted By bitomato
hi, yes, I think that I am doing my best to make...

hi, yes, I think that I am doing my best to make the sessions productive. I was getting something out of therapy- right now I am just struggling with a lot of intrusive thoughts as well as projecting...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 02-09-2017, 03:59 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,315
Posted By bitomato
Wasting time/ taking up space

A few times I read comments on RYL about persons saying they were told they were wasting the time of the clinicians/ ambulance/ ER etc.

Today my therapist was saying how they are a public clinic so...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 29-08-2017, 09:43 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 4,368
Posted By bitomato
I don't feel able to read all of the OP or...

I don't feel able to read all of the OP or responses today. However, as I "ordered" my doctor to screen me/ diagnose me with a binge ED I understand your frustration. Because even with the diagnosis...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 26-08-2017, 11:20 PM
Replies: 1,752
Views: 87,074
Posted By bitomato
I lurve the cinema!! I think that is the one...

I lurve the cinema!! I think that is the one place I don't mind taking myself on a date to!! Experiencing movies/ films like that is the best!!

Do you prefer air conditioning or fresh air in Summer?
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-08-2017, 09:26 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,674
Posted By bitomato
I think you can also ask a mod to lock a thread...

I think you can also ask a mod to lock a thread too. But please don't take it personally re: slow replies. I would love an update here on how you are doing. I have lived with a diagnosis of bipolar...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 25-08-2017, 09:19 AM
Replies: 1,752
Views: 87,074
Posted By bitomato
Ken- the male barbie brand....specifically...

Ken- the male barbie brand....specifically "Derek" who was a musician in a rock band.....is my one- I have to get doll.

Do you sweep your floor or vacuum?
Forum: General Chat 25-08-2017, 09:11 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 3,209
Posted By bitomato
This post was important to me on several levels-...

This post was important to me on several levels- I spoke to the students as an expert IP patient coming off a section- which I felt at the time was unwarranted. Subsequently, I recently had a severe...
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