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Forum: Veterans Board 29-01-2019, 06:44 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Always been a lurker but I can't do this anymore

I don't know where to turn. I see people around me and they have close friends they can confide in when they have issues. Me? I only have my husband. And therein lies the problem. He's in hospital,...
Forum: Veterans Board 01-06-2017, 09:33 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,265
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Thank you. I've tried preparing, even going...

Thank you. I've tried preparing, even going through mock interviews with people in the office (the ones that gave me the first interview) but as soon as I get in there, it's just like I can't think....
Forum: Veterans Board 31-05-2017, 11:31 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,265
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Thank you for the reply... the problem I have is...

Thank you for the reply... the problem I have is finding someone in my area that does something other than CBT. CBT hasn't worked for me so far... and seems to be the only thing offered in my area at...
Forum: Veterans Board 31-05-2017, 11:06 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,265
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Job interviews

Ok, this is a quick one, as I'm at work and really shouldn't be on here....

I don't know if anyone on here suffers from an anxiety disorder? If so, how do you deal with job interviews????

I've...
Forum: Veterans Board 14-06-2015, 10:31 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,286
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Tough time right now

So... I haven't been on here for years,and until recently I hadn't cut for 5-6 years (lost count, easiest way for me). But, all of a sudden, life just went to pot. My husband has been in hospital 4...
Forum: Veterans Board 12-02-2014, 10:06 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 917
Posted By Auburn Shadow
anxiety and intimacy???

Hi guys,

I have recently been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder (well, no, I've had that for a while). But it is really affecting my sex life. I got married in July, but since then, we have only...
Forum: Veterans Board 17-10-2013, 09:18 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,008
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Rach, I know we haven't really spoken much, but I...

Rach, I know we haven't really spoken much, but I want you to know you are not alone. Everyone on this site is here for you. Please talk to us,
Forum: Veterans Board 09-08-2013, 10:56 PM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
ugh, I know most of you guys won't know me, but I...

ugh, I know most of you guys won't know me, but I used to be a regular in here. Having a 'minor blip' right now with urges to harm. Been near on 5 years, and I really don't want to let myself down,...
Forum: Veterans Board 01-04-2012, 06:35 PM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
ugh, kinda pissed at myself. Let him talk me into...

ugh, kinda pissed at myself. Let him talk me into going to visit anyways. Guess it's not such a bad thing, they might be transferring him somewhere I can't visit as easily, might make it easier....
Forum: Veterans Board 31-03-2012, 08:47 PM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
*hugs everyone* really frustrated right now....

*hugs everyone* really frustrated right now. Fiance's in hospital with heart problems, and it's just crap that I can't do anything to help. Is it wrong that I don't think I can go visit tomorrow?...
Forum: Veterans Board 30-03-2012, 10:51 PM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Haven't been here for ages. Could really do with...

Haven't been here for ages. Could really do with a hug and somewhere to sit away from reality for a while. Can I come sit?
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 13-03-2010, 11:32 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 546
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Just had to add this part to the whole thing....

Just had to add this part to the whole thing. Tonight I went out with my fiance and a friend (who didn't know about the self harm), and I was wearing short sleeves. Now, the thought to start with...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 03-03-2010, 01:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 546
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Thanks guys, the replies mean a lot to me....

Thanks guys, the replies mean a lot to me.

Morrigan - I think it may be a good idea to write something for the ezine. You think people would read it? How would I go about getting it put in the...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 24-02-2010, 02:45 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 546
Posted By Auburn Shadow
One year free

Ok, so itís just about a year since I last cut, Iím not sure of the exact date because if youíre counting then youíre just counting down the days until you next cut. Yes, cutting is a coping...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-11-2009, 07:39 PM
Replies: 4,735
Views: 128,700
Posted By Auburn Shadow
I'm heading for a crash and I can't tell him....

I'm heading for a crash and I can't tell him. He's ill I can't keep burdening him with my problems
Forum: Veterans Board 21-07-2009, 09:26 AM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Sorry I'm not supporting at the moment, I just...

Sorry I'm not supporting at the moment, I just can't manage it. Going to the doctors today because, well, I really don't feel safe, and I can't let my fiance down like this. I mean, he's ill right...
Forum: Veterans Board 09-07-2009, 02:56 AM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Thanks, zowie. Am looking forward to them coming...

Thanks, zowie. Am looking forward to them coming tomorrow, trying to focus on it, but with everything else going on, it's proving to be a little bit too hard. It's been at least a month without...
Forum: Veterans Board 09-07-2009, 01:29 AM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Can't sleep. Don't particularly care right now....

Can't sleep. Don't particularly care right now. Fed up of people, I just want to hide from the world somehow, but I know it can't happen because I've got friends coming to visit tomorrow.
Fiance's...
Forum: Veterans Board 07-07-2009, 01:46 AM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Sorry I haven't been around much recently, been...

Sorry I haven't been around much recently, been working hard on recovering and staying away from this site as I found it's triggering me too much. But anyways, hope everything gets better for all of...
Forum: Veterans Board 25-05-2009, 07:09 AM
Replies: 53,192
Views: 1,387,693
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Hey guys, haven't been around for a while, sorry,...

Hey guys, haven't been around for a while, sorry, life got in the way of a lot of stuff. Anyways, I'm trying to make a major decision about my life at the moment which is pretty much consuming me at...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 29-04-2009, 11:14 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 404
Posted By Auburn Shadow
I guess I have been more stressed recently, been...

I guess I have been more stressed recently, been falling out with a lot of people because of them trying to mess with my relationship and all that, but somehow I'd managed to convince myself I was...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 29-04-2009, 10:09 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 404
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Scaring myself somewhat...

Ok, itís taken me god knows how many attempts to actually write this, and get up the courage to post it, because I donít want to have to admit this. Iíve been doing well recently with regards to my...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 15-04-2009, 10:51 AM
Replies: 432
Views: 9,465
Posted By Auburn Shadow
Had a long talk with my fiance about what I'm...

Had a long talk with my fiance about what I'm feeling and what's going on right now. I think he finally understands where I'm coming from and why I react the way I do to certain situations....
Forum: Veterans Board 15-04-2009, 10:44 AM
Replies: 393
Views: 11,576
Posted By Auburn Shadow
He understands where I'm at at the moment,...

He understands where I'm at at the moment, mentally, and he's trying to support me. But I still can't tell him how I'm really feeling when I feel bad, because I don't want to hurt him. So I normally...
Forum: Veterans Board 15-04-2009, 10:34 AM
Replies: 6,213
Views: 98,945
Posted By Auburn Shadow
*hugs everyone*

*hugs everyone*
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