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Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 13-08-2017, 01:39 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,794
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Scarring and weight loss

I have a scar on my forearm.

Does anyone know how a scar like this might react to significant weight loss?

I have been able to find some resources for my other scars saying they'll probably move...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 06-08-2017, 10:51 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 3,595
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Acting on ED makes other things easier?

I've never had a healthy relationship with food. My weight steadily increased while I cycled through many of the symptoms of Anorexia, Bulimia and BED. I never stayed on one "mode" of eating, or...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-05-2017, 02:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,467
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Thank you for reaching out. I appreciate that a...

Thank you for reaching out. I appreciate that a lot.

How I'm doing is not very well. Except all the professionals think I'm a Rockstar coper. It's all very frustrating. I don't know how to take...
Forum: General Support and Advice 07-05-2017, 07:15 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 926
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Thank you. This has helped me feel like I can...

Thank you.


This has helped me feel like I can continue to work on figuring this out for myself.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-05-2017, 07:12 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,467
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Hi guys, Thanks for the replies. It turned...

Hi guys,

Thanks for the replies.

It turned into this big mess of emotions in my head and I just couldn't cope. I couldn't cry and hurting myself just wasn't helping.

I did end up taking the...
Forum: General Support and Advice 05-05-2017, 10:21 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 926
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Lesbian? Soo confused

When I was in grade 5, there was this boy who I would kiss in his basement. That was more than half my life ago.

When I turned 19 I got into an abusive relationship that lasted 9 months and ended...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-05-2017, 08:27 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,467
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Need help remembering

Hi Everyone,

I'm not feeling well. That's the refrain when I get like this:
I don't feel well.

I forgot to get my blister pack from my dad this morning so I've gone all morning and afternoon...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 25-04-2017, 05:07 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,354
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
BPD and the "favourite person"

I'm on tumblr as well as RYL and over there, there is a lot of talk about having a "favourite person". Someone who you see as above everyone else, or something.

What are people's thoughts on...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 16-04-2017, 08:35 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,099
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Exact stats

If I've learnt anything being on RYL it's that I am never alone in a behaviour, as awful as it is, that is comforting.

I used to keep pretty exact numbers of how many stitches or staples I needed,...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-02-2017, 05:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,346
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
All of your feelings make sense. Of course you...

All of your feelings make sense. Of course you feel overwhelmed! You're going through a lot of different emotions, it sounds like pretty quickly, and that in and of itself can be draining.

I...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-02-2017, 11:06 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,346
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
So... for many people, they can do distractions...

So... for many people, they can do distractions like playing games online or colouring to get the problematic thoughts to be less intense. For some people, myself included, this just makes us feel...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-02-2017, 10:33 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,346
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
What I've been told, so many times that now it's...

What I've been told, so many times that now it's ingrained, is that a thought can't hurt you. What you do with it might. Does that make sense to you? It means you can think all day about how you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-02-2017, 10:14 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,346
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Hey there, The first thing I did when I finished...

Hey there,

The first thing I did when I finished reading this was to take a deep breath. Maybe you could try that too? It sounds like what you're dealing with is very big and maybe a little scary...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 18-02-2017, 10:16 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,332
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
I know this is pretty late to be replying to your...

I know this is pretty late to be replying to your post: I hope you have found a way to keep yourself safer.

One reason that I heard recently that resonated with me, and might with you as well, is...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-02-2017, 05:50 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,038
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
I, too, can really relate to what you're...

I, too, can really relate to what you're saying.

I've been self-harming for 10 years, and actively trying to stop for the past 18 months or so with very little success.

I did 8 rounds of...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 13-12-2016, 06:33 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,516
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
A big "F you" to everyone who loves me, according to MD.

I saw a doctor today who is following me for some wounds. They have done surgery to fix 2 separate injuries and he said if I do it again no more surgery. I did it again, because it's not that easy...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 19-11-2016, 05:35 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,229
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
High number of admissions and BPD

Hello,

I've been doing a lot of reading lately online of people's stories and in articles.

There seems to be this pattern where the authors have all had 2-3 admissions. Then the clouds open and...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 03-11-2016, 08:47 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,136
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Ethical treatment in regards to burns.

I have recently taken to burning myself. At one the of the local hospitals there is a regional burn unit so I have been going to that hospital for wound management.

I have needed several...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 11-07-2016, 12:41 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 924
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
I thought there was no way *I* could do it

I've been a member of RYL for a while now. I"m pretty sure back then there was awhile forum designated for positive things happening in your life I was in such a dark place I never went there. I...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 11-07-2016, 12:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 737
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
I think that is fine motivation. I can relate to...

I think that is fine motivation. I can relate to a lot of what your story involves and I think it's great that you're putting more light on injury that isn't cutting. I can see that being really...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-07-2016, 06:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,366
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
I've been to the ER after self-harming many times...

I've been to the ER after self-harming many times and they always tell me to come in *before* I self-harm because that's when they can help me. When I have gone in without doing anything destructive...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-07-2016, 03:57 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,877
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
I can really relate to what you are describing. ...

I can really relate to what you are describing.

I was in a cycle for probably 2.5 years of self-harm or OD, end up in emerg, get admitted and have no other way of coping and self-harm on the unit....
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 30-06-2016, 02:52 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 737
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Feeling like I've OD'd when I haven't

Hi Everyone,

First of all, I don't come around here very much anymore, and still I really appreciate the community and everyone in it. You all had a very big part in my getting to where I am today,...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 11-05-2016, 04:54 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 895
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
This is actually *so* validating. I talked to...

This is actually *so* validating.

I talked to my therapist today and he was all "do you think it could be that you haven't had enough to drink and it's a taste in your mouth? Or that your blood...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-05-2016, 11:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 895
Posted By -Shae-Lynn*
Medication smell in nose

Hey Everyone,

I'm not sure if this is in the right place. I'm also not sure how much of it is allowed so if any of it is on the fence and makes you uncomfortable fell free to either tell me and...
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