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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-12-2023, 07:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,053
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
Thank you. I'm trying to be hopeful that my...

Thank you.

I'm trying to be hopeful that my doctor person will be able to refer me, but I'm so used to being told I don't seem ill enough, and I can very easily see it happening again. I'm not sure...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-12-2023, 06:39 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,053
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
Unable to move forward

In all honesty, I haven't really thought through exactly what I'm going to say, I've just been aware that I've probably needed to ask for help/advice for a while now.

I don't have the energy right...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-11-2022, 12:18 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,592
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
yeah, i've been able to spend a couple of days a...

yeah, i've been able to spend a couple of days a month with my partner and see my friends every few weeks, luckily. it's the only thing that i genuinely look forward to.

i've sort of accepted i'm...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 18-10-2022, 06:29 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,592
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
Thanks for responding. Words are hard at the...

Thanks for responding. Words are hard at the moment.

I won't be getting my cat back, but she has a lovely home where I'd be able to visit her if I wanted. I'm glad she has that.

I try to see my...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 12-10-2022, 02:41 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,592
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
don't think i'm actually doing well

okay, this is kind of taking all my strength to post because (insert whatever reason for not wanting/needing/deserving help/support i want to churn out this time)

i've had a pretty awful year....
Forum: General Support and Advice 28-08-2021, 06:07 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 10,863
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
i'm heading back to university next month to...

i'm heading back to university next month to (hopefully) actually finish my performing arts degree.
Forum: General Chat 22-08-2021, 11:42 PM
Replies: 148
Views: 21,558
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
so i've always called it the dump, but my partner...

so i've always called it the dump, but my partner calls it the tip, so i occasionally call it that now too, but mostly the dump.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-04-2021, 02:49 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
thank you. i appreciate the response. i think...

thank you. i appreciate the response. i think just having what's going an properly acknowledged is somewhat beneficial to me, if that makes sense? especially since i find it so difficult to piece it...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 05-04-2021, 06:44 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
It's been a rough week. I'm not coping with...

It's been a rough week. I'm not coping with losing my rabbit. Some friends helped fundraise to have her cremated, which was nice, and I'm glad to have her home again. I keep panicking and imaging...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-03-2021, 03:08 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
I'm almost certain she'd prefer to be woken but,...

I'm almost certain she'd prefer to be woken but, but she needs to sleep and i don't want to inconvenience her. I don't ha any tools I'm used to using, nor to I have the money to get them, so if I did...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-03-2021, 01:04 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
I'll read that later but I can barely process...

I'll read that later but I can barely process that right now. My wife and I have talked about it, and discussed with my mother, and we all agree we need to have her put down. As it's a Sunday, and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 27-03-2021, 08:27 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
sorry if this is all incoherent. i''m not even...

sorry if this is all incoherent. i''m not even entirely sure what i'm asking for. maybe advice on how to process things?

i don't process death well. it's bad enough that i forget my grandad's gone...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 23-03-2021, 02:33 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
All they told me to do was go back to my GP and...

All they told me to do was go back to my GP and see where she can refer me next, but because I'm not planning to self harm or anything, they don't ever take me seriously. Last night (or was it this...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-03-2021, 02:08 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
Updates, because the world really doesn't want to...

Updates, because the world really doesn't want to give me a break.

That particular place discharged me, as expected, because my trauma issues are too long-term and severe for them to take at the...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 17-03-2021, 08:32 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
the therapy people tried calling me multiple...

the therapy people tried calling me multiple times today, despite me telling them not to do that as i sleep during the day as my wife works night shifts. they'd told me they would email me a "report"...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-03-2021, 08:16 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
I’m not sure when I’ll hear back from...

I’m not sure when I’ll hear back from them - supposedly they’ll email me once they’ve finished my report, but I haven’t taken the fact that I’m “too...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 09-03-2021, 06:39 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
I couldn't get my words out or stay grounded. But...

I couldn't get my words out or stay grounded. But it seems like they won't be able to do much to help me. My issues are too long term and they said they're going to look to see where can treat me,...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 09-03-2021, 12:51 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
I've started panicking earlier than I expected...

I've started panicking earlier than I expected to. I've made a list of what I've remembered so far that I ought to say, but I feel so unprepared. I don't know if I'm ready to talk about the things...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-03-2021, 06:26 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
Actually, that's a really good idea. I'll...

Actually, that's a really good idea. I'll definitely write that down on my list of things to say.

Would it be "wrong" of me to focus less on mentioning about urges and "typical anxiety and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-03-2021, 06:02 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
It's early tomorrow afternoon. I've tried...

It's early tomorrow afternoon.

I've tried writing things down, but then I'm just not sure if it's something worth mentioning yet, how much is right to say for an initial appointment. I typically...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-03-2021, 11:13 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,838
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
Struggling

Honestly, I barely know how to start this.

In 2017, I moved out of my mother's house, and headed off to university. Within a month, I had fallen into extending my range of unhealthy coping...
Forum: General Support and Advice 05-03-2021, 07:35 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 39,348
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
Memory's a bit fuzzy now, but I think I opened up...

Memory's a bit fuzzy now, but I think I opened up to my wife about how I'm really doing this morning.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 25-06-2019, 05:38 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,160
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
My wife doesn't have anywhere to put it. I have a...

My wife doesn't have anywhere to put it. I have a couple of friends taking a few things. I can't afford to pay to stay anywhere, and living in a very religious city and being trans, I'm very cautious...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 25-06-2019, 04:02 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,160
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
My wife is staying with their mother, and there's...

My wife is staying with their mother, and there's no way I could stay there either. I have now managed to find a place to live with my wife but the move in date isn't until the 17th July, and I have...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-06-2019, 01:33 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,160
Posted By FlyingPeanuts
Moving Back to an Abuser

I’ll preface this by saying I’m a bit drunk so apologies.

I’ve decided to drop out of uni and, despite my better judgement knowing my joint issues, work somewhere strenuous. However my wife and I...
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