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Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 05-03-2021, 11:59 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 5,097
Posted By Amaranth
I was a teenager when I started, but 36 when I...

I was a teenager when I started, but 36 when I last self harmed. It's a stereotype that it is only teenagers who self harm, there are a huge number of adults who self harm and a good number of them...
Forum: Veterans Board 05-11-2020, 09:43 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 7,942
Posted By Amaranth
This certainly sounds like an abusive...

This certainly sounds like an abusive relationship, but I know it's not as simple as 'just leaving' at the best of times, let alone during this pandemic.
Don't believe the things he says about you....
Forum: General Support and Advice 26-10-2020, 07:09 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,858
Posted By Amaranth
It will probably be easier if you can start...

It will probably be easier if you can start small. Just go outside (even if just to stand outside the door for a few minutes), then try a really short walk (even if just to the end of the road), then...
Forum: General Support and Advice 15-10-2020, 08:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,031
Posted By Amaranth
It sounds like moving away might be the...

It sounds like moving away might be the healthiest thing for you to do. You've clearly thought about the future and what the best thing for your own wellbeing and peace of mind will be. I think your...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 15-07-2020, 10:16 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,983
Posted By Amaranth
That does sound scary. Did you go to the hospital...

That does sound scary. Did you go to the hospital (or other safe place)? I don't know if they can help with the visions etc, but maybe it can help you feel a bit less scared knowing they won't let...
Forum: General Support and Advice 10-04-2020, 08:39 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,881
Posted By Amaranth
I don't know if you are in England, but if you...

I don't know if you are in England, but if you are then I would just be careful what you are putting out there on the web, because what you did was technically fraud. However, betting on matches...
Forum: General Support and Advice 25-03-2020, 09:38 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 6,881
Posted By Amaranth
You will never be able to know what consequences...

You will never be able to know what consequences your wrongdoing caused and worrying about it doesn't help anyone. Perhaps you could focus on doing something positive, like volunteering for a...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-03-2020, 06:38 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,478
Posted By Amaranth
Ophiucus - are you a member of any local Facebook...

Ophiucus - are you a member of any local Facebook groups? I know most of my local towns and villages are setting up networks for volunteers to deliver essential groceries and medication to people who...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-02-2020, 10:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,845
Posted By Amaranth
That sounds a horrible situation. It’s so...

That sounds a horrible situation. It’s so difficult as your mum just doesn’t listen, so it sounds like talking to her about it wouldn’t solve anything. Is there any way you could...
Forum: General Support and Advice 03-01-2020, 09:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,965
Posted By Amaranth
I’m exactly the same. We have never been a...

I’m exactly the same. We have never been a family that really shares feelings and stuff, and like you I’d be made to feel judged if I was upset or feeling down, sometimes my mum would...
Forum: Veterans Board 22-08-2019, 09:39 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 10,084
Posted By Amaranth
It seems like you could be a real asset,...

It seems like you could be a real asset, it’s a shame no-one is willing to take a chance on you. Maybe you could put yourself out there on local Facebook groups etc. as a pet sitter and/or dog...
Forum: Veterans Board 18-08-2019, 09:50 AM
Replies: 5
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Posted By Amaranth
Of course you can post here :-)

Of course you can post here :-)
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 18-08-2019, 09:44 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 11,818
Posted By Amaranth
I’m sorry you’re going through this....

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I used to suffer pretty badly with flashbacks. It only really started to get better once I was receiving professional help - would you consider seeing...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 27-02-2019, 07:19 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,087
Posted By Amaranth
I can’t imagine what you’re going...

I can’t imagine what you’re going through, but it is not your fault. From the sounds of it you have been a great mum in response to this, making sure the other children are safe and also...
Forum: General Support and Advice 07-02-2019, 09:21 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,231
Posted By Amaranth
You are definitely worthy, but I know those...

You are definitely worthy, but I know those little voices can be hard to ignore! At the end of the day, you can never be sure where a relationship will end up, all anyone can do is just give the...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-12-2018, 12:05 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,214
Posted By Amaranth
If you think you’re going to end up hating...

If you think you’re going to end up hating working in engineering then there’s not a lot of point carrying on - don’t carry on down a path that you think will end in...
Forum: General Support and Advice 05-11-2018, 11:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,283
Posted By Amaranth
I think people don’t mind if it’s...

I think people don’t mind if it’s stuff like cereal, toast, fruit as that is stuff they generally have around the house, and not stuff they’re planning on using to make dinner with!...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 09-10-2018, 07:27 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,921
Posted By Amaranth
I'm low on words right now, but I can really...

I'm low on words right now, but I can really relate
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 21-09-2018, 06:01 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,169
Posted By Amaranth
I’m two and a half years free - I’m...

I’m two and a half years free - I’m still not sure how I’ve made it this far! It is still a real struggle, some times more than others, but on the whole it has got easier with time....
Forum: General Support and Advice 26-08-2018, 08:49 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,626
Posted By Amaranth
I used to be best friends with a girl who turned...

I used to be best friends with a girl who turned out to be a very toxic person. She was ok to begin with and she changed quite gradually but she began to be manipulative and controlling and she was...
Forum: General Support and Advice 24-08-2017, 05:37 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 971
Posted By Amaranth
I had absence seizures for a short while when I...

I had absence seizures for a short while when I was a teenager, you could be experiencing that? It's worthwhile seeing your doctor to get it looked into if you can; I don't see any harm in telling...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 17-07-2017, 09:18 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,513
Posted By Amaranth
I understand what you mean about confidence and...

I understand what you mean about confidence and trying to have conversations. I only have one friend and I only see him once every week or two for an hour or two and I find that exhausting. I'd love...
Forum: General Support and Advice 12-07-2017, 01:25 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 656
Posted By Amaranth
You really are stuck in the middle! I have to say...

You really are stuck in the middle! I have to say it really sounds to me like your fiance is overreacting. As far as your sister is concerned she had the plan to propose first and I can see why she...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-07-2017, 09:42 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,513
Posted By Amaranth
Having internal conflict is normal, just not...

Having internal conflict is normal, just not always easy to live with. We all have many different sides or parts to ourselves and some are often in conflict with others. I quite often find the more...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-07-2017, 09:27 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,496
Posted By Amaranth
I'm sorry it didn't work and she's made up her...

I'm sorry it didn't work and she's made up her mind. Maybe you could ask her if she can recommend a new therapist for you; although you will still need to build up trust in a new therapist, it might...
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