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Forum: General Support and Advice 01-06-2020, 11:36 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 2,199
Posted By Tan.D
Thoughts

It has been four years now since I ended a relationship with S (after which, I even dated someone else, M, a really good friend now, in fact) and I still have nagging, overwhelming thoughts about S....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 28-05-2018, 08:04 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,385
Posted By Tan.D
I don't know what helps with healing/fading them....

I don't know what helps with healing/fading them. I usually used to just give it time, but I did find it a lot helpful to draw on them. It used to make me feel better to make art on it. I'd either...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 23-05-2018, 11:19 AM
Replies: 125,518
Views: 2,920,309
Posted By Tan.D
*hugs GirlInterrupted* There you go! ^^ You...

*hugs GirlInterrupted* There you go! ^^

You okay there, Grrrgiraffe?

Its okay Frail Existence. All of us are just trying to cope with things the best way we know how to. Sometimes we will do...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 23-05-2018, 10:09 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,465
Posted By Tan.D
Hi, I'm really sorry you've had to go through...

Hi,

I'm really sorry you've had to go through all this. There are helplines you can call, or Crimes Against Women cells that you can look up in Delhi (there are several branches) where you can file...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-05-2018, 09:47 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 957
Posted By Tan.D
By saying that people are going to leave anyway,...

By saying that people are going to leave anyway, you're creating a mental block for yourself, where your every action and thought is directed towards ensuring that they leave.

Please stop thinking...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 23-05-2018, 09:37 AM
Replies: 53,393
Views: 1,481,769
Posted By Tan.D
*curls up on the couch with hot chocolate...

*curls up on the couch with hot chocolate quietly* Hello. How's everybody doing?
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-05-2018, 09:27 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,092
Posted By Tan.D
Hi :) I firmly believe in the idea of "It's...

Hi :)

I firmly believe in the idea of "It's not my story to tell".

I can tell any secret I want to my friends, as long as its mine to tell. If somebody else tells me something about them-...
Forum: Introductions 23-05-2018, 09:20 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,001
Posted By Tan.D
Hello :) Welcome back. Hope you're doing well,...

Hello :) Welcome back. Hope you're doing well, and get a flat soon!
Forum: Introductions 23-05-2018, 09:19 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,033
Posted By Tan.D
Hi! I've actually been feeling a lot like that...

Hi!

I've actually been feeling a lot like that myself lately, which is they reason why I'm back here after about three years or something.

So welcome back! And I hope you find people who can help...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 12-07-2016, 10:35 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,031
Posted By Tan.D
It's okay x You don't have to be upset with...

It's okay x You don't have to be upset with yourself. Getting out of self-harm and beginning to feel like you're finally getting back to the normal pace of your life can take years, it differs from...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 12-07-2016, 10:20 AM
Replies: 2,578
Views: 136,898
Posted By Tan.D
No, but I desperately wish I did >.<...

No, but I desperately wish I did >.<

Who's your favourite celebrity of all time?
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 30-10-2014, 06:47 PM
Replies: 125,518
Views: 2,920,309
Posted By Tan.D
*pops in* *hugs FlyingPeanuts* Here if you need...

*pops in*

*hugs FlyingPeanuts* Here if you need anything x
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-10-2014, 12:44 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,406
Posted By Tan.D
They worry because they care, and you're worth...

They worry because they care, and you're worth every bit of that care, and more. *hugs tighly* Sorry I don't have much to say, but you're going through a lot at the moment. You're working a lot, your...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-10-2014, 12:28 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,287
Posted By Tan.D
So going by your logic, if a girl likes you, but...

So going by your logic, if a girl likes you, but you don't like her, she has the right to kill you, eh, AveryGamerDude?
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 29-10-2014, 12:19 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,017
Posted By Tan.D
Really great idea with the pros & cons! Can't...

Really great idea with the pros & cons! Can't think of anything to add on to the amazing replies on here, but just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you and wish you the very best :) Take care xx
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 29-10-2014, 12:15 PM
Replies: 125,518
Views: 2,920,309
Posted By Tan.D
Frail Existence- Maybe that's a good thing...? As...

Frail Existence- Maybe that's a good thing...? As in, an indication that less people are in need of comfort because they're doing much better...? At least I hope so.

You're not disgusting,...
Forum: General Support and Advice 13-10-2014, 01:31 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 361
Posted By Tan.D
Hey Keri, I just wanted to tell you that I can...

Hey Keri,

I just wanted to tell you that I can relate to a lot of things you've said, and there are two main things I want you to know- firstly, you are NOT weak for not being able to cope. Asking...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-10-2014, 01:05 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,406
Posted By Tan.D
I don't have many words to say at the time, but...

I don't have many words to say at the time, but just wanted to give you MASSIVE *hug* I'm sorry, the past few weeks sound like they've been complete hell for you. It looks like you're really...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 13-10-2014, 10:02 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,065
Posted By Tan.D
Ah, sorry about the professor mistake, my bad. It...

Ah, sorry about the professor mistake, my bad. It looks like your psychiatrist genuinely has no idea what you're struggling with. It doesn't look to me like you're letting this take over your life-...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 13-10-2014, 05:51 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,065
Posted By Tan.D
*hugs* You should take a break. It's obvious that...

*hugs* You should take a break. It's obvious that doing your assignment right now isn't doing you any good, both in terms of finishing your your paper or helping you relax. Maybe you can try studying...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 13-10-2014, 05:43 AM
Replies: 125,518
Views: 2,920,309
Posted By Tan.D
*hugs UglyDuckin* You're not fat. I know it's...

*hugs UglyDuckin* You're not fat. I know it's going to be hard to believe me, but you're not. It's not true. Please try telling yourself this. You're frickin' awesome.

You're safe in here,...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 12-10-2014, 04:21 PM
Replies: 125,518
Views: 2,920,309
Posted By Tan.D
JustC- The Safe Room is just a place to come to...

JustC- The Safe Room is just a place to come to when you're in need of comfort. We have plush toys, bean bags, a fireplace, a tree house outside etc.- and of course, others on here to comfort you and...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 12-10-2014, 04:05 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,065
Posted By Tan.D
Hey out_of_here, just wanted to give you a...

Hey out_of_here, just wanted to give you a massive hug. It's okay, you're doing extremely well. I think what Snow White said above about the tips about flashbacks online sounds really helpful....
Forum: Fun and Distractions 30-09-2014, 02:14 PM
Replies: 2,578
Views: 136,898
Posted By Tan.D
I was on a trip, so went trekking and...

I was on a trip, so went trekking and sightseeing.

What's the first thing you thought of when you woke up in the morning?
Forum: Fun and Distractions 30-09-2014, 02:10 PM
Replies: 22,371
Views: 346,350
Posted By Tan.D
I love you because you are awesome :D

I love you because you are awesome :D
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