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Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 26-05-2012, 09:32 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 397
Posted By kelseyjanye
Fake it, til you make it. It's corny but it...

Fake it, til you make it. It's corny but it actually holds some truth. Getting in the habit of thinking differently than what is comfortable and natural to you is a good thing. You won't be an...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-05-2012, 09:23 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 392
Posted By kelseyjanye
Professional help is scary but it is also a...

Professional help is scary but it is also a really good thing if you do really want to stop and figure things out. Try to find passion in other things, find a TV series, a good video game, a good...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-05-2012, 09:17 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 472
Posted By kelseyjanye
I agree, just hang in there. Changes are hard,...

I agree, just hang in there. Changes are hard, especially the anxiety right before, but changes are as good as you let them be; so try to make the best out of it. There are great things ahead, it...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-05-2012, 07:33 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 349
Posted By kelseyjanye
You are in control of the razor, you are not in...

You are in control of the razor, you are not in control of the bee.. it's not foolish at all.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-05-2012, 07:28 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 370
Posted By kelseyjanye
The beginning of freedom.

Hey, I haven't been on the forums that long and joined because I was running out of ideas on what to do with myself (regarding self-harm) and needed to know it wasn't just me who was feeling like...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-05-2012, 09:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 310
Posted By kelseyjanye
Ailsa said it very well and it's hard to add more...

Ailsa said it very well and it's hard to add more to that.

It seems (this could be wrong) that you are much focused on harming and wondering if you want to live or not. That gets you in a tough...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-05-2012, 08:58 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 405
Posted By kelseyjanye
For someone who is in recovery for both substance...

For someone who is in recovery for both substance abuse and self harm, I know how frustrating and scary this part is where you are ready to make a decision to change. I needed help because it was...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 11-05-2012, 08:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 301
Posted By kelseyjanye
I have the same issue where I feel like I can't...

I have the same issue where I feel like I can't snap out until I use SI. What I have been trying to do is really focusing on my heart beat, grounding myself in a way to remind me where I am right at...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 11-05-2012, 08:35 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 775
Posted By kelseyjanye
Honestly, most counselors do give a ****. Yeah,...

Honestly, most counselors do give a ****. Yeah, you won't be able to walk in the door the first time meeting them and spill your guts. But, it's nice having someone who doesn't know you and the only...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-05-2012, 08:19 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 296
Posted By kelseyjanye
I can hardly see tomorrow though, that's what I...

I can hardly see tomorrow though, that's what I mean. I suffer from PTSD as well, and the flashbacks just make life even more unappealing. They get better and then they get worse. I tried talking to...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-05-2012, 08:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 296
Posted By kelseyjanye
Obsessed with death.

I'm not a very "dark" person, I try not to be at least. I'm actually pretty calm and peaceful towards others, always the one talking to everyone at the parties and get togethers. But for the past...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 01-05-2012, 08:41 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 617
Posted By kelseyjanye
Music and the gym sound like a good idea to do...

Music and the gym sound like a good idea to do something productive and distracting. Do you have any friends close by where you can just go out for dinner or a drive where you can just talk about...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 01-05-2012, 08:24 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,149
Posted By kelseyjanye
If they know that he did something (not even the...

If they know that he did something (not even the specifics) then they can keep him away. If anybody knew he hurt/did things to you, they would not have him around. You are paranoid people think...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 01-05-2012, 07:45 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 487
Posted By kelseyjanye
Tell your doctor you have something that you'd...

Tell your doctor you have something that you'd like to talk about and it's kind of hard for you to talk about it but you think you need some extra help. You can tell them how your depression is...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 01-05-2012, 03:43 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 772
Posted By kelseyjanye
I've been in therapy for the past 5ish years and...

I've been in therapy for the past 5ish years and for awhile I thought it wasn't doing anything but when I look back each of those sessions had done something whether I realized it at the time or not....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 28-04-2012, 09:21 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 507
Posted By kelseyjanye
Yeah, I never knew getting your head straight was...

Yeah, I never knew getting your head straight was something that'd mess up your future!

My mother and I struggled for years and I felt like I could never talk to her about things because she didn't...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-04-2012, 02:15 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 379
Posted By kelseyjanye
When I'm feeling too comfortable I get to feel...

When I'm feeling too comfortable I get to feel unsafe (that's PSTD issues mostly) and I feel like my scars protect me in a way, almost like a shield or something. And it grounds me, gets me out of my...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 26-04-2012, 02:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 448
Posted By kelseyjanye
You are aware of how you're feeling and even...

You are aware of how you're feeling and even though you're only "dipping your feet into the pool", you're still hitting the water just slowly. You'll get there, we'll all hopefully get there.. It's...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-04-2012, 08:03 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 377
Posted By kelseyjanye
Yeah, it's good to remember that therapists are...

Yeah, it's good to remember that therapists are human. A few weeks ago my therapist said, "I think you're just bored." She didn't mean to say it like that but she "wasn't thinking".. I told her she...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 23-04-2012, 04:12 AM
Replies: 6,781
Views: 261,027
Posted By kelseyjanye
I get quite dissociative often, it's very...

I get quite dissociative often, it's very relieving that many others can relate to this as nobody in my life really "gets" it.. Mostly because I have such a hard time explaining and admit how much it...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 23-04-2012, 02:49 AM
Replies: 125,518
Views: 2,920,653
Posted By kelseyjanye
Well, if you ever want to share some of those...

Well, if you ever want to share some of those thoughts, you can always PM me !
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 23-04-2012, 02:30 AM
Replies: 125,518
Views: 2,920,653
Posted By kelseyjanye
I always find if I have useless facts or a...

I always find if I have useless facts or a comment on random current events that talking is very easy. But, I'm an extrovert, so I understand that it is definitely easier said than done.
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 23-04-2012, 02:18 AM
Replies: 125,518
Views: 2,920,653
Posted By kelseyjanye
What's up, everyone?

What's up, everyone?
Forum: Fun and Distractions 23-04-2012, 02:16 AM
Replies: 6,161
Views: 215,060
Posted By kelseyjanye
I hate the feeling of velvet.

I hate the feeling of velvet.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 23-04-2012, 02:06 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 283
Posted By kelseyjanye
I got the dog bite checked out, it's all good but...

I got the dog bite checked out, it's all good but I guess the dog tore into my leg muscle a little bit so I'm just supposed to keep icing and heating.

I cut last night though, only three times...
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