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Forum: Veterans Board 06-04-2020, 10:48 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 10,208
Posted By Ginny
Hate to gang up on you, but I still believe you...

Hate to gang up on you, but I still believe you haven't failed too 😛 the trick is to keep telling yourself that until you believe it... or at least until you can pretend you believe it......
Forum: Veterans Board 05-04-2020, 09:10 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 10,208
Posted By Ginny
Well, I don't have your nervous system disorder,...

Well, I don't have your nervous system disorder, but we do have a few things in common. We both have similar join dates. Both in our mid 30s, though you've done a hell of a lot better than me with no...
Forum: General Chat 04-04-2020, 11:47 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 5,598
Posted By Ginny
Also a member of the worst witch appreciation...

Also a member of the worst witch appreciation club ��
Ginny was my favourite dog when I first joined, 12 years ago or thereabouts. Long gone now (and I still miss her!), but I have her...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-12-2017, 06:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,351
Posted By Ginny
Thank you both. No idea what usually gets me...

Thank you both. No idea what usually gets me through this time of year - probably increasing amounts of alcohol, which isn't exactly a good thing. It'll be January before I know it (And I'm going to...
Forum: Veterans Board 14-12-2017, 06:07 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,538
Posted By Ginny
I just wanted to say well done for submitting the...

I just wanted to say well done for submitting the doctor's form, and for telling your husband. It's a big step forward, even if it doesn't feel like it x
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-12-2017, 01:20 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,351
Posted By Ginny
Just knowing that someone 'gets it' really helps,...

Just knowing that someone 'gets it' really helps, as I'm aware that if I spoke to any one of the three people I'm close to about this, they really wouldn't get it and I don't want to have to deal...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-12-2017, 12:22 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,351
Posted By Ginny
Losing the plot

I haven't SI-ed in about 18 months and am just having a bad day with it today. This time of year is always bad - I usually start thinking about my life choices and wondering where I would be if I'd...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-12-2017, 10:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,971
Posted By Ginny
I've been in a similar situation, albeit a long...

I've been in a similar situation, albeit a long time ago now. I spotted that one of my friends was cutting, at a time when I had been for several years. Slightly different as my friend had no idea I...
Forum: General Support and Advice 22-08-2017, 11:03 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,314
Posted By Ginny
It sounds like you need an incentive to get up in...

It sounds like you need an incentive to get up in the morning! I have two very irritating cats who don't let me lie in. They're a complete pain in the backside, but they do keep me from becoming...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-08-2017, 12:43 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,181
Posted By Ginny
Going against the trend, as someone who has been...

Going against the trend, as someone who has been cheated on, I wish I'd never had to know. Frankly ignorance is bliss if you want the relationship to continue. If you tell him it will always be there...
Forum: General Support and Advice 22-08-2017, 12:14 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,314
Posted By Ginny
You need to accept that any small thing you can...

You need to accept that any small thing you can do IS an achievement my dear. Stop comparing your achievements to other people's. You're not being fair on yourself by doing that. Take baby steps - if...
Forum: Veterans Board 21-08-2017, 11:24 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,521
Posted By Ginny
I suspect there are quite a few of us who drift...

I suspect there are quite a few of us who drift on and off of this site, coming back when life gets tough. It's still my go to! I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. I've been developing...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 24-04-2016, 09:22 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,471
Posted By Ginny
I just smile and say I'm accident prone, though...

I just smile and say I'm accident prone, though you'll be surprised at how many either don't notice or don't ask. It's not an easy conversation to have with someone, so most will avoid it in my...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-04-2016, 09:09 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,348
Posted By Ginny
Thank you Maria. I can't tell you how much...

Thank you Maria. I can't tell you how much reading this helped. It made me smile and cry - the crying I think I badly needed to do. It's released some of the tension :) . I'll think about a support...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 23-04-2016, 10:43 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,348
Posted By Ginny
Important Struggling badly, for the first time in a long time - sexual health, potentially triggering

Having trouble coming to terms with the fact that I'm back on here again. It's been a good few years since I last cut and I've been off my Meds since November.

I came home on Friday evening and my...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-04-2016, 10:02 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 710
Posted By Ginny
The dog barks at half six, so go down, let her...

The dog barks at half six, so go down, let her out, feed the cats making sure the fat one doesn't eat the thin one's food. Let cats out, the dog in, tv on to the very boring news channel, take...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 27-05-2008, 09:39 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,164
Posted By Ginny
From one law person to another, that sucks! But...

From one law person to another, that sucks! But you might be able to get another training contract. Even if you had to do the two years again, you'd still be earning and even if you've had time off...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 27-05-2008, 08:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 481
Posted By Ginny
It's hard not to get angry when you stop cutting...

It's hard not to get angry when you stop cutting for someone else. I get angry like that and its basically destroyed my relationship, (though I think that that probably says that my relationship just...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-05-2008, 04:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 529
Posted By Ginny
Hey hun I'm sorry you slipped up, but if it was...

Hey hun

I'm sorry you slipped up, but if it was only a slip up then I think you're beating yourself up too much over this. Give your friend some time to come round. Hopefully she'll understand that...
Forum: General Chat 24-04-2008, 11:33 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 1,247
Posted By Ginny
[quote=user_friendly;717772]double jagermeister...

[quote=user_friendly;717772]double jagermeister and redbull yum yum!/quote]

Oh wow! I forgot jagermeister ;-) good thinking! Seems a shame to taint it with red bull though...
Forum: General Chat 24-04-2008, 11:31 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 1,247
Posted By Ginny
How can so few ppl like Gin! Any kind of...

How can so few ppl like Gin!
Any kind of cocktail yummyness!
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 24-04-2008, 05:25 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 623
Posted By Ginny
Tisn't pointless :) We cut because it makes us...

Tisn't pointless :)
We cut because it makes us feel better in the short term, so its natural to feel low when you dont use that coping mechanism anymore. I found just doing small things that made me...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 23-04-2008, 05:21 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 579
Posted By Ginny
All the time. When I was cutting more regularly...

All the time.
When I was cutting more regularly I used to get into these horrible circles where the more I cut the more I wanted to. They were rele hard to get out of and it was only by stopping I...
Forum: General Chat 19-04-2008, 11:48 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,368
Posted By Ginny
Anytime in my sixth form years :) they were...

Anytime in my sixth form years :) they were painful, but still the best time of my life.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-04-2008, 10:39 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 472
Posted By Ginny
Hey hun Just wanted you too know I read this and...

Hey hun
Just wanted you too know I read this and I don't think you're worthless! If you need someone to talk to just PM me.
x
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