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Ginny
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Veterans Board
06-04-2020, 10:48 PM
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Adult - I failed, after 12+ years.. [Triggering - SI, ED, (mild) Abuse]
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Ginny
Hate to gang up on you, but I still believe you...
Hate to gang up on you, but I still believe you haven't failed too 😛 the trick is to keep telling yourself that until you believe it... or at least until you can pretend you believe it......
Forum:
Veterans Board
05-04-2020, 09:10 AM
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7
Adult - I failed, after 12+ years.. [Triggering - SI, ED, (mild) Abuse]
Views:
10,208
Posted By
Ginny
Well, I don't have your nervous system disorder,...
Well, I don't have your nervous system disorder, but we do have a few things in common. We both have similar join dates. Both in our mid 30s, though you've done a hell of a lot better than me with no...
Forum:
General Chat
04-04-2020, 11:47 PM
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26
Why did you choose your username?
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5,598
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Ginny
Also a member of the worst witch appreciation...
Also a member of the worst witch appreciation club
Ginny was my favourite dog when I first joined, 12 years ago or thereabouts. Long gone now (and I still miss her!), but I have her...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
14-12-2017, 06:10 PM
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6
Losing the plot
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1,351
Posted By
Ginny
Thank you both. No idea what usually gets me...
Thank you both. No idea what usually gets me through this time of year - probably increasing amounts of alcohol, which isn't exactly a good thing. It'll be January before I know it (And I'm going to...
Forum:
Veterans Board
14-12-2017, 06:07 PM
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16
Slipping **Triggering - SI/Suicide**
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4,538
Posted By
Ginny
I just wanted to say well done for submitting the...
I just wanted to say well done for submitting the doctor's form, and for telling your husband. It's a big step forward, even if it doesn't feel like it x
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
08-12-2017, 01:20 AM
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6
Losing the plot
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1,351
Posted By
Ginny
Just knowing that someone 'gets it' really helps,...
Just knowing that someone 'gets it' really helps, as I'm aware that if I spoke to any one of the three people I'm close to about this, they really wouldn't get it and I don't want to have to deal...
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
08-12-2017, 12:22 AM
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6
Losing the plot
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1,351
Posted By
Ginny
Losing the plot
I haven't SI-ed in about 18 months and am just having a bad day with it today. This time of year is always bad - I usually start thinking about my life choices and wondering where I would be if I'd...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
07-12-2017, 10:36 PM
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4
I cut and now one of my best friends does too...
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1,971
Posted By
Ginny
I've been in a similar situation, albeit a long...
I've been in a similar situation, albeit a long time ago now. I spotted that one of my friends was cutting, at a time when I had been for several years. Slightly different as my friend had no idea I...
Forum:
General Support and Advice
22-08-2017, 11:03 PM
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29
Lack of Achievement
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2,314
Posted By
Ginny
It sounds like you need an incentive to get up in...
It sounds like you need an incentive to get up in the morning! I have two very irritating cats who don't let me lie in. They're a complete pain in the backside, but they do keep me from becoming...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
22-08-2017, 12:43 AM
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6
What do I do???
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1,181
Posted By
Ginny
Going against the trend, as someone who has been...
Going against the trend, as someone who has been cheated on, I wish I'd never had to know. Frankly ignorance is bliss if you want the relationship to continue. If you tell him it will always be there...
Forum:
General Support and Advice
22-08-2017, 12:14 AM
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29
Lack of Achievement
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2,314
Posted By
Ginny
You need to accept that any small thing you can...
You need to accept that any small thing you can do IS an achievement my dear. Stop comparing your achievements to other people's. You're not being fair on yourself by doing that. Take baby steps - if...
Forum:
Veterans Board
21-08-2017, 11:24 PM
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3
Back :(
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2,521
Posted By
Ginny
I suspect there are quite a few of us who drift...
I suspect there are quite a few of us who drift on and off of this site, coming back when life gets tough. It's still my go to! I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. I've been developing...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
24-04-2016, 09:22 AM
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8
Cutting scars question
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1,471
Posted By
Ginny
I just smile and say I'm accident prone, though...
I just smile and say I'm accident prone, though you'll be surprised at how many either don't notice or don't ask. It's not an easy conversation to have with someone, so most will avoid it in my...
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
24-04-2016, 09:09 AM
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4
Struggling badly, for the first time in a long time - sexual health, potentially triggering
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1,348
Posted By
Ginny
Thank you Maria. I can't tell you how much...
Thank you Maria. I can't tell you how much reading this helped. It made me smile and cry - the crying I think I badly needed to do. It's released some of the tension :) . I'll think about a support...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
23-04-2016, 10:43 PM
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4
Struggling badly, for the first time in a long time - sexual health, potentially triggering
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1,348
Posted By
Ginny
Struggling badly, for the first time in a long time - sexual health, potentially triggering
Having trouble coming to terms with the fact that I'm back on here again. It's been a good few years since I last cut and I've been off my Meds since November.
I came home on Friday evening and my...
Forum:
General Support and Advice
23-04-2016, 10:02 PM
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3
What Are Your Morning Routines?
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710
Posted By
Ginny
The dog barks at half six, so go down, let her...
The dog barks at half six, so go down, let her out, feed the cats making sure the fat one doesn't eat the thin one's food. Let cats out, the dog in, tv on to the very boring news channel, take...
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Serious Discussion and Advice
27-05-2008, 09:39 PM
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43
Triggering (SI/OD) - Oh well, here again - Support very much appreciated right now!
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1,164
Posted By
Ginny
From one law person to another, that sucks! But...
From one law person to another, that sucks! But you might be able to get another training contract. Even if you had to do the two years again, you'd still be earning and even if you've had time off...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
27-05-2008, 08:51 PM
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4
Getting angry at the ones who are helping.
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481
Posted By
Ginny
It's hard not to get angry when you stop cutting...
It's hard not to get angry when you stop cutting for someone else. I get angry like that and its basically destroyed my relationship, (though I think that that probably says that my relationship just...
Forum:
Serious Discussion and Advice
24-05-2008, 04:02 PM
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6
Triggering (SI/Suicide) - i can't handle it.
Views:
529
Posted By
Ginny
Hey hun I'm sorry you slipped up, but if it was...
Hey hun
I'm sorry you slipped up, but if it was only a slip up then I think you're beating yourself up too much over this. Give your friend some time to come round. Hopefully she'll understand that...
Forum:
General Chat
24-04-2008, 11:33 PM
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45
What's your favourite alcoholic bevvy?
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1,247
Posted By
Ginny
[quote=user_friendly;717772]double jagermeister...
[quote=user_friendly;717772]double jagermeister and redbull yum yum!/quote]
Oh wow! I forgot jagermeister ;-) good thinking! Seems a shame to taint it with red bull though...
Forum:
General Chat
24-04-2008, 11:31 PM
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45
What's your favourite alcoholic bevvy?
Views:
1,247
Posted By
Ginny
How can so few ppl like Gin! Any kind of...
How can so few ppl like Gin!
Any kind of cocktail yummyness!
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
24-04-2008, 05:25 PM
Replies:
5
Triggering (SI) - just miserable
Views:
623
Posted By
Ginny
Tisn't pointless :) We cut because it makes us...
Tisn't pointless :)
We cut because it makes us feel better in the short term, so its natural to feel low when you dont use that coping mechanism anymore. I found just doing small things that made me...
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
23-04-2008, 05:21 PM
Replies:
9
Triggering (SI) - Does????
Views:
579
Posted By
Ginny
All the time. When I was cutting more regularly...
All the time.
When I was cutting more regularly I used to get into these horrible circles where the more I cut the more I wanted to. They were rele hard to get out of and it was only by stopping I...
Forum:
General Chat
19-04-2008, 11:48 PM
Replies:
41
When would you go back to?
Views:
1,368
Posted By
Ginny
Anytime in my sixth form years :) they were...
Anytime in my sixth form years :) they were painful, but still the best time of my life.
Forum:
Self-Harm Discussion and Support
19-04-2008, 10:39 PM
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3
Triggering (SI) - the need was bigger than my self control!!
Views:
472
Posted By
Ginny
Hey hun Just wanted you too know I read this and...
Hey hun
Just wanted you too know I read this and I don't think you're worthless! If you need someone to talk to just PM me.
x
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