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Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 02-03-2012, 01:33 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 521
Posted By OverAndUnder
What's going on? We all feel like we're in bad...

What's going on? We all feel like we're in bad places sometimes, but you don't need to give up! Lean on us here at RYL, we can try to help!
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 02-03-2012, 12:27 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 579
Posted By OverAndUnder
I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes right...

I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes right after I've cut really badly, I sit there and think "seriously? Why are you doing this? Your life is not that bad. You're not starving, you're not...
Forum: Veterans Board 01-03-2012, 01:40 AM
Replies: 12
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Posted By OverAndUnder
Hi tiger eye!! Glad to see you posting :) How...

Hi tiger eye!!
Glad to see you posting :)

How are things?
Forum: Veterans Board 01-03-2012, 01:38 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 793
Posted By OverAndUnder
I disagree with the above posts, no one can ever...

I disagree with the above posts, no one can ever tell you how it is going to feel. I lost my virginity almost ten years ago and I still find intercourse painful sometimes.

The only thing you need...
Forum: Veterans Board 26-02-2012, 11:17 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 471
Posted By OverAndUnder
I know how you feel, Em. I wish I could give you...

I know how you feel, Em. I wish I could give you some advice to make it easier to tell them but I still haven't quite figured that one out myself. All I can say is that when you tell them, allow...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-02-2012, 08:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 374
Posted By OverAndUnder
I don't have anything to add, what everyone else...

I don't have anything to add, what everyone else said pretty much sums up my thoughts, just wanted to say welcome to RYL and I hope you're feeling better soon. :)
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-02-2012, 05:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 519
Posted By OverAndUnder
What your aunt said was pretty insensitive. I...

What your aunt said was pretty insensitive. I hope you can try not to take it personally.

Why do you hate yourself? You sound like an amazingly strong and positive person. I don't see anything...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-02-2012, 12:58 AM
Replies: 1,565
Views: 171,547
Posted By OverAndUnder
I remember a few years ago I started a job at a...

I remember a few years ago I started a job at a new shop, a few weeks later they hired another new person. We were sitting outside on our break and it was just waaayyy too hot to keep my...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-02-2012, 12:55 AM
Replies: 1,565
Views: 171,547
Posted By OverAndUnder
WHAT?? That's a horrible thing to say!! Sheesh,...

WHAT?? That's a horrible thing to say!! Sheesh, I hope you gave your "other half" a piece of your mind over that one!
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-02-2012, 12:53 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 519
Posted By OverAndUnder
Well you don't necessarily need rehab or...

Well you don't necessarily need rehab or hospitalisation, but have you considered meeting with a counseller? It might be good for you to have someone you can trust that you can talk to about all...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 26-02-2012, 12:42 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 766
Posted By OverAndUnder
I agree with everyone! I think the best thing to...

I agree with everyone! I think the best thing to do is go back to your GP, tell him how you've been feeling and how the first drugs made you feel, he/she can prescribe something different. And the...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 26-02-2012, 12:20 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 519
Posted By OverAndUnder
Hi Angela, welcome to RYL! Sorry to hear you're...

Hi Angela, welcome to RYL!

Sorry to hear you're having so much trouble at the moment. I know what it's like to have an up-and-down relationship with someone, it can be pretty exhausting.

If you...
Forum: Veterans Board 25-02-2012, 11:24 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 801
Posted By OverAndUnder
Hi pea, I don't have anything all that helpful...

Hi pea,

I don't have anything all that helpful to say, I don't have children so I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like when you feel like you've "missed his childhood." I just wanted...
Forum: Veterans Board 25-02-2012, 10:32 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 605
Posted By OverAndUnder
Thanks! I am kind of proud, this is the first...

Thanks! I am kind of proud, this is the first time in the twelve years that I've been struggling with depression/ self-injury that I've sought out help on my own.

I only saw him for an hour so I'm...
Forum: Veterans Board 25-02-2012, 09:49 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 605
Posted By OverAndUnder
Saw a counsellor!

I don't really have much to say, I just wanted to share that I had my first counselling appointment a few days ago. My counsellor is great. His name is Greg, he's really easy to talk to. At first...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 25-02-2012, 09:05 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 375
Posted By OverAndUnder
Jo-marie: Why can't you go back to your doctor...

Jo-marie: Why can't you go back to your doctor and tell him how you're feeling? Maybe you just need a different type of medication, or a higher dose or something. I think it's better to have...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-02-2012, 08:06 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,757
Posted By OverAndUnder
Wow, this is awesome. I'm not even going to use...

Wow, this is awesome. I'm not even going to use it as a distraction, I just want to look at floating glitter all the time :)
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-02-2012, 08:03 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 433
Posted By OverAndUnder
I believe it is absolutely, 100%, unequivocally...

I believe it is absolutely, 100%, unequivocally an addiction.

I've spoken to my sister about her alcoholism quite a lot. (She's been sober almost a year and a half now... :) yay sister!!!) The...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-02-2012, 07:52 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 398
Posted By OverAndUnder
After my suicide attempt back in high school I...

After my suicide attempt back in high school I had teachers I hated- even some who I didn't have classes with- coming up to me and telling me to talk to them if I'm ever sad/lonely/depressed. I...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 25-02-2012, 07:47 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,119
Posted By OverAndUnder
I never liked the ice cube idea, I think it's...

I never liked the ice cube idea, I think it's dangerous. Even if it works in distracting you from the urge, it's still dangerous. Squeezing an ice cube causes pain, which is supposed to be the...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 22-02-2012, 02:35 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 472
Posted By OverAndUnder
I'm sorry to hear you've been struggling so much...

I'm sorry to hear you've been struggling so much lately. I definitely know the feeling. I was mostly clean for seven years with a few slips here and there. I lost it last week, I'm right back to...
Forum: Veterans Board 21-02-2012, 01:52 AM
Replies: 380
Views: 8,282
Posted By OverAndUnder
I'm Theresa, I just joined the site a week or...

I'm Theresa, I just joined the site a week or two ago but I kind of jumped on in as if I've been here for years! So happy to find a support group like this. Hello to everyone and thank you to all...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 21-02-2012, 01:33 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 357
Posted By OverAndUnder
It always hurts me a little to read a story like...

It always hurts me a little to read a story like this.

It takes so much strength and bravery to talk to a professional about these things, and when I hear about a doctor who has belittled someone...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-02-2012, 01:28 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 375
Posted By OverAndUnder
jo-marie: Six years?? Congratulations! That's...

jo-marie: Six years?? Congratulations! That's amazing! I definitely know the feeling of being reminded of self-harm left, right and centre. I had (pretty much) stopped self-harming for about...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-02-2012, 01:23 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 297
Posted By OverAndUnder
Hi kurayami, I'm afraid I really don't have...

Hi kurayami,

I'm afraid I really don't have advice to offer you, but perhaps you can take comfort in the fact that you are certainly not alone with this! I do almost the exact same thing. In...
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