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Forum: Veterans Board 27-07-2007, 11:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 507
Posted By HappyFeet
I've heard you say a lot about how he needs you,...

I've heard you say a lot about how he needs you, but not a whole not of how you need him. You've said there are situations he puts you in that make you uncomfortable, but you don't say anything. ...
Forum: Veterans Board 14-07-2007, 07:19 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 670
Posted By HappyFeet
I'm so proud of you! And don't you dare beat...

I'm so proud of you! And don't you dare beat yourself up for crying. Yay 1 month free:D
Forum: Veterans Board 29-06-2007, 06:56 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,478
Posted By HappyFeet
I'm just going to add my two cents worth here. ...

I'm just going to add my two cents worth here. If you're an alcoholic, you don't go into a pub, but you can go to AA. Yeah, here everybody self harms, but I have yet to run into a post that says...
Forum: Veterans Board 27-06-2007, 12:13 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 881
Posted By HappyFeet
It's funny (only not), when you realize SI...

It's funny (only not), when you realize SI doesn't help. It's incredibly frustrating, and you need to find another way to deal with the emotions. Rather than finding another (temporary) way to...
Forum: Veterans Board 21-06-2007, 04:07 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,331
Posted By HappyFeet
Um...he can't help it if his grandma is sick...

Um...he can't help it if his grandma is sick (which I doubt), but a workout? How lame is that? He can wait an hour or two to start that because he said he'd spend time with you. It sounds like...
Forum: Veterans Board 21-06-2007, 03:56 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,241
Posted By HappyFeet
You know it's almost funny how we fight ourselves...

You know it's almost funny how we fight ourselves to convince ourselves we have control over what happens to us. In my case, I got angry with myself because if I got mad, that meant I could control...
Forum: Veterans Board 17-06-2007, 04:19 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,582
Posted By HappyFeet
I've found that when I cut, it only makes the...

I've found that when I cut, it only makes the urges worse. I mean, it helps for a little bit but then it's really awful and I have to go through way worse urges before I get back to where I was...
Forum: Veterans Board 17-06-2007, 04:15 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,161
Posted By HappyFeet
I wish I knew what to say to help. I've found it...

I wish I knew what to say to help. I've found it helps to freeze (so your body can slowly learn it's not about to be hit) or notice you're having the reaction, then try to change it (slowly). I...
Forum: Veterans Board 14-06-2007, 06:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,090
Posted By HappyFeet
In March, I forgot about my doctor's appointment....

In March, I forgot about my doctor's appointment. I didn't remember until I got an official letter saying that I'd missed an appointment. I was having a similar reaction and someone said, "it...
Forum: Veterans Board 14-06-2007, 06:08 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,229
Posted By HappyFeet
I'm sorry. I've never been in that situation...

I'm sorry. I've never been in that situation (though touching random people has made me feel dirty). Is there anything you could do that would make you feel like you took back control? Wish I...
Forum: Veterans Board 12-06-2007, 06:24 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,271
Posted By HappyFeet
Oh dear. Matt's right. Start with a list, then...

Oh dear. Matt's right. Start with a list, then do things one at a time (most important ones first).
Forum: Veterans Board 12-06-2007, 06:15 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,049
Posted By HappyFeet
Yay!!

Yay!!
Forum: Veterans Board 12-06-2007, 06:13 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,455
Posted By HappyFeet
When I was 17, I decided I was sick of not...

When I was 17, I decided I was sick of not knowing whether I was a virgin (not sure whether I've repressed memories, but my hymen broke when I was 12). So, I had sex with a random guy. Should've...
Forum: Veterans Board 12-06-2007, 06:07 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,080
Posted By HappyFeet
Well first, you're not wasting anyone's time by...

Well first, you're not wasting anyone's time by posting. We read this because we care and we choose to. I'm so proud of you for working and taking courses. I know it probably doesn't mean much,...
Forum: Veterans Board 12-06-2007, 05:57 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,030
Posted By HappyFeet
It's totally normal to be afraid of stopping. ...

It's totally normal to be afraid of stopping. I'd be shocked to find someone who had trouble stopping where that didn't come into it somewhere. What helped me was when I found things to replace it...
Forum: Veterans Board 07-06-2007, 04:35 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,219
Posted By HappyFeet
Woohoo!

Woohoo!
Forum: Veterans Board 07-06-2007, 04:30 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 5,450
Posted By HappyFeet
I'm sorry you were in that position. Saying...

I'm sorry you were in that position. Saying something like that about you and your father can only be meant to hurt in the most vicious way possible. It was sick and degrading, and no wonder you...
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