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Forum: General Support and Advice 08-02-2022, 07:37 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,492
Posted By Lindsey
I'm finding it hard as I'm not in a relationship...

I'm finding it hard as I'm not in a relationship and my friends are important to me and I'm keen to spend time with them. I'm too embarrassed to tell people this seems to be happening to me AGAIN...
Forum: General Support and Advice 08-02-2022, 05:51 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,492
Posted By Lindsey
This situation is causing me some anxiety, please help.

So I had a trip booked with my best friend in the world. About 8 weeks before we were due to go, she contacted me saying her mental health was too bad and she had to pull out. It was a financial mess...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 26-01-2022, 02:50 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
Well, that's it. Last night I noticed her teenage...

Well, that's it. Last night I noticed her teenage daughter who I was close to had blocked me on Instagram.

This morning I got some money refunded for an event we had booked that was cancelled and I...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 18-01-2022, 02:41 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
Thank you this is a really kind and helpful...

Thank you this is a really kind and helpful response.

We used to have a little gif cartoon we sent back and forth any time either of us was having a tough time but she's ignored it the last couple...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-01-2022, 03:06 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
I've muted the chat so that I don't get random...

I've muted the chat so that I don't get random messages that suddenly ruin my day. I can look at it when I feel ready.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-01-2022, 04:31 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
It was a friendship that I found to give me a...

It was a friendship that I found to give me a great deal of comfort and now I feel sick and anxious when I see on messenger that she's typing. I feel like an in person meeting would clear up so many...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 12-01-2022, 01:40 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
She contacted me last night. Every time I...

She contacted me last night. Every time I mentally decide to step back its like she senses it.

She told me she's deleting the one social media platform we're friends on and that if I want to speak...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 09-01-2022, 02:54 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
I think that's what I'm finding hard. If she told...

I think that's what I'm finding hard. If she told me that my personal problems are too much for her just now or that she doesn't want to talk about her own issues that's fine. I just wish she'd have...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-01-2022, 07:02 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
Yes this is what I'm finding hard. I was giving...

Yes this is what I'm finding hard. I was giving her space but I never ever didn't reply to a message, just for a short while I didn't initiate conversation. She messaged me and said that I 'ignore'...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-01-2022, 06:20 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
So driving, its 90mins and she works close to my...

So driving, its 90mins and she works close to my home. Public transport (I don't drive) it's 2.5 hours either way.

I'm sad and I'm worried about her.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-01-2022, 05:29 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 3,141
Posted By Lindsey
Bipolar friend

Ok this might be a bit lengthy. I've known this friend for 3 years and been very close for a year. I've always known she has type 2 bipolar disorder but it's never really been a problem, sometimes...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 20-12-2021, 09:46 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 3,720
Posted By Lindsey
*trigger warning* scared to go to hospital

Long story short, because of Covid we’ve been told not to go to hospital unless absolutely necessary/life threatening.

I’ve hurt myself in a way that I think might be an infection risk. I don’t know...
Forum: General Support and Advice 08-09-2016, 06:41 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,023
Posted By Lindsey
Sorry I thought it was clear, "I was...

Sorry I thought it was clear,

"I was nervous to contact her as I wasn't sure if that was a little creepy me contacting her on there. She told me that if it reassured me, she would contact her"

I'm...
Forum: General Support and Advice 08-09-2016, 06:30 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,023
Posted By Lindsey
It was actually her who suggested she do this for...

It was actually her who suggested she do this for me, it wasn't me that originally brought it up.

While it might seem like "one thing has upset me" its a fairly major one. She knows that I've been...
Forum: General Support and Advice 08-09-2016, 05:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,051
Posted By Lindsey
I kind of get what you mean. I love my best...

I kind of get what you mean.

I love my best friend more than anyone else in my life. She's the person that gets me. I've had sexual relationships and while I can talk to them about most things, my...
Forum: General Support and Advice 08-09-2016, 05:28 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,023
Posted By Lindsey
Am I being unreasonable?

I made a new friend a year ago. We met through mutual interests and she quickly became someone who I really trusted. For example, I was having a hard time shortly after we met and when I mentioned I...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 25-06-2016, 06:27 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,450
Posted By Lindsey
Ex counsellor

I was seeing a counsellor at the rape crisis centre. I had tried maybe 3 different counsellors and nothing worked out but this one took a chance on me and moved me up the waiting list because she...
Forum: General Support and Advice 25-06-2016, 06:18 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 890
Posted By Lindsey
Dealing with other peoples issues.

Last year I started dating this guy and it got serious very quickly. He lives a reasonable distance away but we saw each other as much as we could.

He didn't know about my MH issues or past abuse...
Forum: General Support and Advice 17-01-2016, 05:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 711
Posted By Lindsey
If you're not friends then you can come up in his...

If you're not friends then you can come up in his "people you may know" section.

I made this huge mistake of creeping on someone's Facebook page, with whom I had no mutual friends and later found...
Forum: General Support and Advice 19-10-2015, 08:36 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 395
Posted By Lindsey
No-one cares (may contain brattiness)

So, I've just done the biggest thing I'll ever do- I've bought a house.

For years I've been stuck in awful flatshares and been really unhappy. I have worked my butt off, saved up and bought my...
Forum: General Support and Advice 14-09-2015, 06:15 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,166
Posted By Lindsey
I feel like we should have a session dedicated to...

I feel like we should have a session dedicated to coping mechanisms and how I'm going to deal with no more appointments. But we only have one left and I've had this whole other heap of crap happen...
Forum: General Support and Advice 13-09-2015, 08:43 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,166
Posted By Lindsey
I'm just off a very upsetting call with the...

I'm just off a very upsetting call with the crisis helpline.

I told them about my experience last week and told them I'm going to ask my counsellor if she'll see me privately. They were horrified...
Forum: General Support and Advice 12-09-2015, 10:46 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,166
Posted By Lindsey
Hi, I made an initial appointment and went to...

Hi,

I made an initial appointment and went to see someone else. I really didn't like her. I don't think her boundaries are very good. I disclosed abuse to her and she told me she understands because...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 08-09-2015, 07:37 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,275
Posted By Lindsey
Friends don't know the circumstances (that he's...

Friends don't know the circumstances (that he's the only guy I've been with) so are a bit dismissive and saying I'm better off without.

He is considerably older than me so the whole blocking on...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 07-09-2015, 07:19 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,275
Posted By Lindsey
First break up.

The background you need is that I was raped ten years ago and hadn't been with anyone until a few months ago. It's something I never ever thought I would be ready for but with fairly intensive...
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