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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 15-01-2017, 03:14 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,431
Posted By LegoGirl
Don't be too quick to medicalise bad behaviour-...

Don't be too quick to medicalise bad behaviour- you find it difficult to leave your mistress and like two women. You find it difficult to leave one or do the right thing. That's not an illness or...
Forum: General Support and Advice 13-04-2016, 07:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 735
Posted By LegoGirl
Would it be a big deal if occasionally you found...

Would it be a big deal if occasionally you found a girl attractive? I guess for me it seems perfectly normal! I suppose it can be a surprise if you always considered yourself straight but most people...
Forum: General Support and Advice 13-04-2016, 07:46 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,246
Posted By LegoGirl
If mind still get the money I don't see why you...

If mind still get the money I don't see why you should put yourself through something gruelling that you are terrified of doing.
Forum: General Support and Advice 13-04-2016, 07:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,145
Posted By LegoGirl
I went to the local 'community dentist' who deals...

I went to the local 'community dentist' who deals with people with mental health problems, anxiety etc as well as children and people on benefits.

They encouraged me to use as little sedation as...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 06-04-2016, 04:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 955
Posted By LegoGirl
The decision to section is based on very...

The decision to section is based on very individual circumstances not just being regretful. A mental health assessment is done which involves three people so as you can imagine they ask a lot of...
Forum: General Support and Advice 08-03-2016, 07:56 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,196
Posted By LegoGirl
I have this problem too. I wash my hair...

I have this problem too. I wash my hair separately from myself. I bath rather than shower and leave the water in the bath to help the bath room stay warmer. I have a cup of tea while I'm in the bath...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 17-02-2016, 09:36 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,560
Posted By LegoGirl
The crisis team usually ask me what meds I'm on...

The crisis team usually ask me what meds I'm on and if I'm taking them, how I'm sleeping, how my mood is, what I'm doing with my time, do I have any plans to harm myself. The kind of questions to...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 30-12-2015, 12:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,876
Posted By LegoGirl
I have been in your position as a student (a...

I have been in your position as a student (a while ago now) you do really need to fight to get your needs met. Go back to your GP, keep calling your cpn, get your partner or parents to advocate for...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-11-2015, 12:13 AM
Replies: 124
Views: 5,631
Posted By LegoGirl
Hey Mikey. You are a good person. And you know...

Hey Mikey. You are a good person. And you know whatever you do you have to get your pets sorted first right? Or else it would be cruel? You seem lovely. I know you can be helped, your disorder is...
Forum: General Support and Advice 14-11-2015, 11:25 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,337
Posted By LegoGirl
I wear dresses a lot because no waist bands. Also...

I wear dresses a lot because no waist bands. Also you can get underwear where the band sits in different places I.e. Very high to really low so some styles might be more comfortable. It might be a...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 06-11-2015, 10:32 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,640
Posted By LegoGirl
I'm in my 30s and have scars. I still harm myself...

I'm in my 30s and have scars. I still harm myself but far less than whe I was younger.
Forum: General Support and Advice 14-09-2015, 11:22 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 824
Posted By LegoGirl
Try some toys he can play with on his own and...

Try some toys he can play with on his own and some feliway. Tie dangle toys to things or get some catnip, a catnip toy quietens mine down for ages.
Forum: General Support and Advice 06-06-2015, 10:13 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,879
Posted By LegoGirl
Maybe he is embarrassed or insecure about the...

Maybe he is embarrassed or insecure about the things he told you? Or he can't remember what he said and is panicking?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-05-2015, 11:36 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 934
Posted By LegoGirl
I. Stick around because you can't predict...

I. Stick around because you can't predict tomorrow. You don't know what is around the corner. Could be something amazing, give the future a chance.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-05-2015, 11:34 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 572
Posted By LegoGirl
Recovery isn't a yes or no, black or white thing....

Recovery isn't a yes or no, black or white thing. It's a long process. It's work. It's takes time. There are good and bad and boring days. For ages you feel noting and empty and blah without the...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-04-2015, 08:42 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,304
Posted By LegoGirl
I have worked with care co-ordinators my age. I...

I have worked with care co-ordinators my age. I found it didn't really effect the relationship, some come across as very competent and able which is what makes me feel comfortable regardless of age....
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-04-2015, 08:21 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 779
Posted By LegoGirl
I think at some point hiu might need to face the...

I think at some point hiu might need to face the fact that your mum is going to need to find out. Maybe you could talk to the crisis team about ways to make that happen. Either ways for you to tell...
Forum: General Support and Advice 13-04-2015, 08:29 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 650
Posted By LegoGirl
It seems like you have made a few posts where you...

It seems like you have made a few posts where you are annoyed and effected by the way other people are behaving. Maybe you need to takes more responsibility / take things into your own hands? If you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-04-2015, 09:17 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 593
Posted By LegoGirl
I hope you manage to stay safe. If you need to be...

I hope you manage to stay safe. If you need to be back in hospital please don't deny yourself that safety because of what other people might think. Your safety is more important than their opinions.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-04-2015, 09:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 779
Posted By LegoGirl
It depends on the type of service. Some phone...

It depends on the type of service. Some phone lines are there to just talk and help you feel better like the Samaritans. Other crisis services are there to offer more active support, maybe give...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-04-2015, 09:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 601
Posted By LegoGirl
If you are being attacked can you contact the...

If you are being attacked can you contact the police or get someone to help you do that? Getting out of danger is really important.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-04-2015, 02:06 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 479
Posted By LegoGirl
It's her decision in a way if she wants to be in...

It's her decision in a way if she wants to be in a relationshio with someone who has issues with self injury. Maybe you should give her the chance to decide for herself?

You don't have to tell her...
Forum: General Support and Advice 05-04-2015, 11:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 650
Posted By LegoGirl
It sounds very messed up. You need to talk to her...

It sounds very messed up. You need to talk to her hun.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-03-2015, 02:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 345
Posted By LegoGirl
Hey, it sounds like you are in a really difficult...

Hey, it sounds like you are in a really difficult place. Can you thinks bout what helped you make progress before?
What triggered things to go wrong at the weekend?
What kind of support do you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 09-03-2015, 02:15 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,227
Posted By LegoGirl
I think sometimes there can be a weird limbo...

I think sometimes there can be a weird limbo point. When you have gotten over feeling so so bad, that there is a weird blank space and you just don't know how to feel anything else. Like the badness...
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