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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-07-2012, 05:51 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 398
Posted By TomiJoseph
I feel the same way lately and I've never had...

I feel the same way lately and I've never had that feeling before in my life, where you want to talk to someone, but every conversation just feels like a chore. Everyone's doing bigger and better...
Forum: General Support and Advice 22-07-2012, 05:48 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 7,065
Posted By TomiJoseph
I don't know anything about nursing, but I would...

I don't know anything about nursing, but I would say to keep them covered while you're at work, because many people could be triggered by scars. I would also keep personal info to myself, for safety...
Forum: Introductions 22-07-2012, 05:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 446
Posted By TomiJoseph
Hey Dylan, I hope that RYL helps you and that you...

Hey Dylan, I hope that RYL helps you and that you find the support you're looking for :) You can PM me if you like
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 09-06-2012, 09:27 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 532
Posted By TomiJoseph
This is the most alone I've ever been in my whole...

This is the most alone I've ever been in my whole life. I have people who want so bad to be there for me but I don't remember how to let them. I feel like trusting someone with the smallest thing now...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-06-2012, 07:38 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 532
Posted By TomiJoseph
"I am 100% certain she is a danger to herself"

My ex bf tried to tell that to my dad the other night over facebook. He loves me, he doesn't love me, either way, I can't trust him.

My dad thinks I'm handling everything well. He also started...
Forum: General Support and Advice 11-05-2012, 06:18 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 255
Posted By TomiJoseph
Lol, hell yeah I want it :P You're right though,...

Lol, hell yeah I want it :P You're right though, I just need to stop fooking ruminating on ****.

And glad you approve of the state :) I'm gonna have a great time there no matter what happens
Forum: General Support and Advice 10-05-2012, 01:34 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 255
Posted By TomiJoseph
Thank you guys for your support and encouragement...

Thank you guys for your support and encouragement :) It really means a lot. I'm still nervous, but I'm not freaking out about it like I was before.
Forum: General Support and Advice 04-05-2012, 08:25 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 255
Posted By TomiJoseph
Going on a summer trip to NC, and I don't know whether I'm more excited or nervous

I live in Florida and my boyfriend J lives in North Carolina and we've never met in person, but this summer I hope to change that. My dad's friend offered to let me stay with her family for two weeks...
Forum: General Support and Advice 04-05-2012, 08:13 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 531
Posted By TomiJoseph
No matter how nervous or anxious you are to bring...

No matter how nervous or anxious you are to bring it up again, I believe that you'll feel better if you understand why she feels that way. I wish you luck and I hope it goes well and you can both...
Forum: General Support and Advice 04-05-2012, 08:05 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 282
Posted By TomiJoseph
I wish you the best of luck in however you decide...

I wish you the best of luck in however you decide to proceed from here *hugs
Forum: General Support and Advice 04-05-2012, 08:02 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 756
Posted By TomiJoseph
I don't have much to add to what everyone's...

I don't have much to add to what everyone's already said, but you seem to be handling the situation wonderfully and I hope everything works out.
Forum: General Support and Advice 04-05-2012, 07:58 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 237
Posted By TomiJoseph
Honestly, it's not something to worry about, if...

Honestly, it's not something to worry about, if you have the right label or not. The only thing to be concerned about is that you're doing what makes YOU feel comfortable. If you feel comfortable...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 02-04-2012, 05:41 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 331
Posted By TomiJoseph
I've talked to my dad about it and explained to...

I've talked to my dad about it and explained to him everything I'm feeling as much as I could and he said he'd call for me. He apparently talked to my mom while I was sleeping last night but she'll...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 31-03-2012, 10:15 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 331
Posted By TomiJoseph
I've tried explaining to her, but when I ask for...

I've tried explaining to her, but when I ask for help, she tries to downplay it, but when I wanna do something like go hang out with friends, she says she can't trust my judgement cuz it messes me up...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 31-03-2012, 07:47 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 331
Posted By TomiJoseph
Scared, confused, and desperately seeking support and understanding :/

I'm sorry if this gets rambly or doesn't make sense, but my mental health issues are changing and getting worse and I don't know where to go from here. I know no one can diagnose me here, but if...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-01-2012, 08:33 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 255
Posted By TomiJoseph
Hi, welcome to the site! Personally, I think...

Hi, welcome to the site!

Personally, I think that if you've played with the idea of seeing a counselor, and you feel like no one understands enough to help, you should go see one. If you don't like...
Forum: General Chat 19-01-2012, 08:29 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,421
Posted By TomiJoseph
I was a chinchilla once..

I was a chinchilla once..
Forum: Fun and Distractions 19-01-2012, 08:25 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,543
Posted By TomiJoseph
Oooh, I wanna play! Name 15 people in your...

Oooh, I wanna play!


Name 15 people in your family (still alive)
1. Sonia
2. Scott
3. Jessie
4. Jacque
5. Ryan
6. Ed
Forum: General Support and Advice 19-01-2012, 07:46 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 349
Posted By TomiJoseph
That happened to me once. I had self injured and...

That happened to me once. I had self injured and I didn't lose enough blood for that to be the cause, but I got really lightheaded and even fell twice. I still couldn't tell you why, but I almost...
Forum: Introductions 19-01-2012, 07:41 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 301
Posted By TomiJoseph
Hi E! I hope you find lots of help and support on...

Hi E! I hope you find lots of help and support on ryl and that you feel cared about when you visit this site :)
Hugs, Becky
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-01-2012, 09:06 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 476
Posted By TomiJoseph
Wow Ian, 4 years and a month.. that's amazing! It...

Wow Ian, 4 years and a month.. that's amazing! It gives me hope that there really is life after SI. Thank you so much for all the support you show everyone on the site and I'm glad things are going...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 17-01-2012, 09:01 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 189
Posted By TomiJoseph
Honestly, the roots behind an eating disorder are...

Honestly, the roots behind an eating disorder are very very similar to the roots behind mental illness. You have issues with mental health and self injury, her eating disorder is just her form of SI....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 15-01-2012, 09:21 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 874
Posted By TomiJoseph
Whenever I see people in shorts, I wonder why...

Whenever I see people in shorts, I wonder why they aren't freaking out that their legs are showing, then I remember it's just me. It's just become so normal to me. If I'm wearing anything that comes...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 15-01-2012, 09:16 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,701
Posted By TomiJoseph
I definitely agree with that, she can't have him...

I definitely agree with that, she can't have him leave. Without his income, she'd prolly be homeless.

UPDATE: Her bf apologized to me and it was actually really sincere and it meant a lot to me....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 14-01-2012, 09:54 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,701
Posted By TomiJoseph
Thank you guys so much for the hugs and replies,...

Thank you guys so much for the hugs and replies, they mean a lot. I ended up just going to sleep. I'm back at my mom's house now, but only for a month and it won't be so bad, just awkward is all. :P
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