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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 19-05-2017, 11:23 AM
Replies: 102
Views: 7,295
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
I don't mind my name being used, just don't think...

I don't mind my name being used, just don't think many people know/remember me because I'm around so infrequently these days :) Also this made me realize I joined RYL 10 years ago this year!

I hope...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 18-05-2017, 10:41 AM
Replies: 102
Views: 7,295
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
It 100% makes sense the connection between...

It 100% makes sense the connection between eating, weight gain, and body image. I'm going to put the next bit under a hide box because it talks about specific gender-related body parts/issues and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 17-05-2017, 09:25 AM
Replies: 102
Views: 7,295
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Can you break down the specific bits that you are...

Can you break down the specific bits that you are most worried about, and maybe we can give some suggestions?

As you said ultimately if you don't agree you'll lose C and if you don't succeed you'll...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 15-12-2016, 06:53 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,408
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
I don't have much advice but would caution you...

I don't have much advice but would caution you against the mindset of trying to get out "sooner". I know it's hard and you probably don't want to be there but once you are receiving psychiatric...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-12-2016, 12:32 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
The "stupid thing" that is occurring--I...

The "stupid thing" that is occurring--I have an inkling of what it might be (though I could be wrong). Have you discussed with your GP how that thing affects you, your eating, mental health, etc?...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-11-2016, 07:43 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
^ This. No matter how long you've been dealing...

^ This. No matter how long you've been dealing with these issues for, you still have the capacity to recover. You've already proven that by how hard you've worked so far.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-11-2016, 08:59 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Even though you keep saying you feel like you'd...

Even though you keep saying you feel like you'd be better off dead, you are continuing to take positive, future-planing steps--like focusing on finishing your coursework so you are ready for the next...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 20-11-2016, 08:41 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,842
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
It sounds like your partner needs some support to...

It sounds like your partner needs some support to see your perspective and where you're coming from. I think it's important for him to recognise his own pain and emotions at knowing that you were...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 17-11-2016, 08:18 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
I am so sorry you're struggling so much and that...

I am so sorry you're struggling so much and that this has happened on top of that. I'm angry on your behalf because you've been trying so hard to work with them in ways that feel safe and comfortable...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-11-2016, 07:40 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
That's a great outcome from the treatment...

That's a great outcome from the treatment place--good for you for sticking up for yourself; I'm glad it got results. It sounds like you're making good progress with your eating as well. How do you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 05-11-2016, 10:59 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 5,114
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
I think what Harbour said about anger is spot-on....

I think what Harbour said about anger is spot-on. Also I found that when I was self-harming, I noticed that it often tended to be a reaction to other people--when someone had hurt me I felt the need...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 05-11-2016, 10:49 AM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
I don't have much to say unfortunately because I...

I don't have much to say unfortunately because I can't believe they did that. You are an adult and therefore should have complete control over who they speak to about your information. Because you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 25-10-2016, 05:18 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
A reminder-- you are not "fucking things...

A reminder-- you are not "fucking things up". That would be if you were messing things up on purpose. What you're doing is coping in the best way you know how, finding ways to handle things that work...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 25-10-2016, 04:55 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Carmen, it sounds like the place you're doing...

Carmen, it sounds like the place you're doing treatment is trying so hard to work with you--that is all so positive that they are listening to you and what you need and are willing to be flexible to...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-10-2016, 05:38 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Hope your meeting goes/went well x

Hope your meeting goes/went well x
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-10-2016, 09:02 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
You have been through a lot in the past few...

You have been through a lot in the past few weeks, it's no wonder you are exhausted. I hope you get some rest so you can go back in next time prepared to keep moving forward.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-10-2016, 05:43 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Great point here! Also: I think this is a...

Great point here! Also:



I think this is a really good list--I have done a similar activity before and found it really enlightening about myself. It may also help to start to think about how you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 18-10-2016, 03:49 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Hey Carmen, just wondering if you're home and how...

Hey Carmen, just wondering if you're home and how you're doing? x
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 15-10-2016, 09:44 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
I think the concern on our parts is it kind of...

I think the concern on our parts is it kind of sounds like they might be saying this because they can't really stop you from leaving when you've been trying to leave since you arrived. So they may...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 15-10-2016, 10:22 AM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
This. You've made so much progress there...

This.

You've made so much progress there Carmen--I know it doesn't feel like it but finding ways to work with people there is the first step. If you go home you'll be starting that process from...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 03-10-2016, 08:23 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Hi Carmen, how are things going today?

Hi Carmen, how are things going today?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-09-2016, 09:56 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Carmen, I don't have much to say other than what...

Carmen, I don't have much to say other than what others have said. The effort the staff are putting in to support you and keep you there shows how concerned they are for you and how poorly you are....
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-09-2016, 10:37 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Way to go, it sounds like you're trying really...

Way to go, it sounds like you're trying really hard, keep it up. Also, it's good that you told them why you couldn't eat because I imagine in that setting being honest will get you far--it shows your...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 20-09-2016, 10:17 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Definitely. It will make it clear what's going...

Definitely. It will make it clear what's going on/what support you need in order to enable people to help you if you need to use it.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 20-09-2016, 10:02 PM
Replies: 381
Views: 21,189
Posted By Dreamer And Believer
Yes, that sounds good--worded much better than my...

Yes, that sounds good--worded much better than my suggestion! And you're right, from there they should be able to figure out where to get you to and what to do.
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