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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice Today, 01:51 AM
Replies: 160
Views: 5,415
Posted By Auror.
I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who...

I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who replied and gave hugs and kindness and support. I'm either going to close or delete this thread, currently undecided which but until I decide I've put...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice Yesterday, 07:42 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 633
Posted By Auror.
<33333 Lots of love to you, Buttons. We will...

<33333 Lots of love to you, Buttons. We will be thinking of you, PM if you need.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-11-2019, 03:12 AM
Replies: 1,218
Views: 45,132
Posted By Auror.
I am glad you and Bertie have each other. If that...

I am glad you and Bertie have each other. If that is soothing, just focus on that for now. That sounds like a really good thing. <3
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-11-2019, 10:30 PM
Replies: 1,218
Views: 45,132
Posted By Auror.
I don't think anyone is going to give you...

I don't think anyone is going to give you permission to do that. We could get into a lot of trouble for that, as could professionals. I'm sorry you are struggling so much today. I see how hard you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-11-2019, 05:50 PM
Replies: 217
Views: 5,662
Posted By Auror.
If she's eating enough consistently, she can have...

If she's eating enough consistently, she can have smaller meals from time to time and make up for it later. It sounds like you are not having enough period, and her concern is that it is unsafe for...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 13-11-2019, 12:21 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 963
Posted By Auror.
I have a tangle and other things that I use as...

I have a tangle and other things that I use as fidgets. Tangles have a lot of options and you can get shiny one and fuzzy ones if those are things you like. Fidget cubes are also a thing but I know...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-11-2019, 09:10 PM
Replies: 1,849
Views: 101,655
Posted By Auror.
Is there anyone who could phone crisis on your...

Is there anyone who could phone crisis on your behalf to see why they did not come?
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-11-2019, 09:09 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 296
Posted By Auror.
As you sound like you're aware, a 72 hour hold...

As you sound like you're aware, a 72 hour hold only works/applies if you're admitted involuntarily and for the record, non business days like weekends and holidays are not part of the 72 hours. It's...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-11-2019, 08:39 PM
Replies: 160
Views: 5,415
Posted By Auror.
My mom should know given I have told her every...

My mom should know given I have told her every year previously not to do that and I find it upsetting. I ended up getting last minute work stuff for Monday which is not ideal and not a client I love...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-11-2019, 12:43 AM
Replies: 160
Views: 5,415
Posted By Auror.
They said to reach out to L if I need support...

They said to reach out to L if I need support until they are back on Tuesday. Otherwise I am supposed to snuggle with my dog and spend time with her.

Not okay. My mom keeps bringing up the date and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 09-11-2019, 07:44 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 296
Posted By Auror.
I don't have time to respond properly right now,...

I don't have time to respond properly right now, but if you are an adult, your parents cannot see admission or medical records without your consent, and generally even insurance eobs go to your name...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-11-2019, 09:43 PM
Replies: 160
Views: 5,415
Posted By Auror.
I don't know. Having so many rules and things...

I don't know. Having so many rules and things that are not allowed is really overwhelming in itself and is making me feel trapped. I also get that they are allowed to have days off. I don't know....
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-11-2019, 09:41 PM
Replies: 1,218
Views: 45,132
Posted By Auror.
I don't think that's accurate. I mean Bertie...

I don't think that's accurate. I mean Bertie loves you and is a great kitty and you care for him really well.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-11-2019, 09:41 PM
Replies: 75
Views: 1,486
Posted By Auror.
I think unfortunately professionals don't get...

I think unfortunately professionals don't get that they can validate and believe that what is going on for you is real while also disagreeing with whether or not it is grounded in reality. I don't...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 08-11-2019, 09:38 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 963
Posted By Auror.
I can also relate. Sorry I don't have better...

I can also relate. Sorry I don't have better words, but if dissociation is also an issue for you and you feel unsafe, are there things that help you stay more present that might be worth trying?...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 08-11-2019, 01:53 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 963
Posted By Auror.
How are you now? Were you able to stay safe?...

How are you now? Were you able to stay safe? Thinking of you.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-11-2019, 08:30 PM
Replies: 1,218
Views: 45,132
Posted By Auror.
Are there other organizations you could go to for...

Are there other organizations you could go to for help with money and practical things? Maybe those are things that they don't offer? I don't really know all the specifics of services there so honest...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-11-2019, 08:28 PM
Replies: 75
Views: 1,486
Posted By Auror.
I know it sucks, but making the choice to...

I know it sucks, but making the choice to cooperate and have ECT instead of fighting it IS still a choice. Even if it doesn't feel like a good choice or that you had any good options. So I think...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-11-2019, 08:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 289
Posted By Auror.
I'm glad you've been able to make small...

I'm glad you've been able to make small improvements. Can you acknowledge that as something positive and good for yourself that you were able to do on your own?

What are the pros and cons of...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-11-2019, 08:25 PM
Replies: 1,849
Views: 101,655
Posted By Auror.
I agree with nonperson that going in itself is a...

I agree with nonperson that going in itself is a huge achievement. I hope you can give yourself a little bit of kindness and acknowledge that as a positive.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-11-2019, 08:24 PM
Replies: 1,218
Views: 45,132
Posted By Auror.
Are you okay with the support they are offering...

Are you okay with the support they are offering and the med change? Or do you think you still need something more?

I'm sorry people aren't being understanding. I hope Bertie can at least offer you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-11-2019, 12:16 PM
Replies: 160
Views: 5,415
Posted By Auror.
They are being super nice and we seem to be...

They are being super nice and we seem to be seeing them a lot and they are replying to emails at least. We are very grateful. They came to our apartment yesterday. They said time might not be making...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 06-11-2019, 07:39 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 289
Posted By Auror.
Sorry if this is a dumb question, but if doing...

Sorry if this is a dumb question, but if doing the exercises two to three times a day isn't possible, is there a way to try to aim to just do them one time a day and see if that feels any different?...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 06-11-2019, 07:36 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 633
Posted By Auror.
<3 I don't have better words. But do what is...

<3 I don't have better words. But do what is safest and feels best for you, and what is the closet thing to what your grandma would have wanted.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 05-11-2019, 07:12 PM
Replies: 1,849
Views: 101,655
Posted By Auror.
Also, sometimes forcing yourself to try to focus...

Also, sometimes forcing yourself to try to focus on specific things or stressing over the fact that you aren't able to focus can actually make it worse. It just creates a feedback loop. For example,...
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