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Forum: General Support and Advice Yesterday, 02:57 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 81
Posted By Auror.
Your post is pretty vague. But if exploring your...

Your post is pretty vague. But if exploring your gender identity and/or gender expression is something you want to do, by all means go for it! It's definitely okay to try things out to see what feels...
Forum: Eating Issues Support Yesterday, 02:39 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 364
Posted By Auror.
When you feel able to safely get out your happy...

When you feel able to safely get out your happy box, what if you took out the food items and put them somewhere else, and replaced them with either photographs or notecards of the foods? That way...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice Yesterday, 02:32 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 1,746
Posted By Auror.
Molly's the best. I'm glad you have her. I know...

Molly's the best. I'm glad you have her. I know things are hard. I don't think you're useless, but me saying that doesn't make you believe it. I'm glad your support worker was able to help you with...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-08-2019, 10:45 PM
Replies: 172
Views: 3,764
Posted By Auror.
I think also it's important to point out that...

I think also it's important to point out that what you expected as the worst (i.e. being hospitalized) did NOT happen and it sounds like you were honest. So perhaps evidence that being honest is...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-08-2019, 03:08 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 1,746
Posted By Auror.
I hope people treat you with the kindness you...

I hope people treat you with the kindness you deserve. Does the self harm need medical attention? <3
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 20-08-2019, 02:56 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 187
Posted By Auror.
I agree with the others advice. I also wonder if...

I agree with the others advice. I also wonder if when your CPN has returned they could help you write a letter to the council, explaining that if someone is coming to do work you need to 1. be...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 19-08-2019, 10:24 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 364
Posted By Auror.
Hi Dawn, I can't see other replies besides yours...

Hi Dawn,

I can't see other replies besides yours for some reason, so apologies if this is stuff you already know or has been said.

Restricting often leads to bingeing, so while it's fantastic you...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-08-2019, 07:38 PM
Replies: 172
Views: 3,764
Posted By Auror.
Is the pool somewhere you can walk to? What if...

Is the pool somewhere you can walk to? What if you just got all your things together every day (or a few days a week) and walked to the pool? Even if you don't go in or feel up to swimming, at least...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-08-2019, 07:58 PM
Replies: 172
Views: 3,764
Posted By Auror.
I'm sure feeling physically unwell isn't helping...

I'm sure feeling physically unwell isn't helping much. Your body needs time to recover, both from the od and from being ill. I hope you can get to sleep early and safely.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-08-2019, 12:56 PM
Replies: 172
Views: 3,764
Posted By Auror.
I'm really glad you are okay from the overdose...

I'm really glad you are okay from the overdose and (I'm assuming) home. Maybe when you see the student CPN you could just say that you aren't totally comfortable speaking with her but you appreciate...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-08-2019, 11:07 PM
Replies: 713
Views: 29,681
Posted By Auror.
Lillie, I remember you said you were unable to...

Lillie, I remember you said you were unable to cope with your last job. I know things might be hard and scary now, but other than your friends you didn't have much of a professional support system....
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-08-2019, 02:00 AM
Replies: 713
Views: 29,681
Posted By Auror.
Hi Lillie, I've read and I hear you. I'm unsure...

Hi Lillie, I've read and I hear you. I'm unsure quite what you are looking for in terms of help or support, but I do care.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-08-2019, 01:58 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,230
Posted By Auror.
I'm so glad!! <3

I'm so glad!! <3
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-08-2019, 09:51 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,230
Posted By Auror.
I hope you have fun. I think with pride related...

I hope you have fun. I think with pride related stuff people know to be more on guard and there is definitely safety in numbers. It sucks we have to be careful about things like that when it's...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-08-2019, 09:50 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 690
Posted By Auror.
Maybe unhelpful, but the way I look at it is that...

Maybe unhelpful, but the way I look at it is that as a person, you are constantly changing and evolving. We all are. We all have to in order to survive a constantly changing world. So in that sense,...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 09-08-2019, 09:32 PM
Replies: 326
Views: 8,663
Posted By Auror.
I'm glad your sister is getting taken care of,...

I'm glad your sister is getting taken care of, and that you are taking care of yourself as well. I hope she ends up physically all right.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 08-08-2019, 02:53 PM
Replies: 326
Views: 8,663
Posted By Auror.
With respect, if your sister also struggles with...

With respect, if your sister also struggles with mental health issues, her scale of what is normal and not normal isn't going to be super accurate either. If it's abnormal for you or upsetting to...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-08-2019, 09:18 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 364
Posted By Auror.
I always cover up in front of treatment providers...

I always cover up in front of treatment providers and in more professional work type of settings. Otherwise I don't bother or care. If I am actively self harming, the only other times I would cover...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 05-08-2019, 03:52 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 468
Posted By Auror.
What if you looked at each pro individually and...

What if you looked at each pro individually and looked at what some cons might be of continuing those behaviors longer term versus immediate?

For example, if you lose weight, you may have to...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 03-08-2019, 08:18 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 396
Posted By Auror.
If you speak to your current therapist about...

If you speak to your current therapist about what's going on with eating, they should be able to say whether it's an area they are knowledgeable in or not. If they aren't, they could hopefully...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 03-08-2019, 01:00 AM
Replies: 11
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Views: 468
Posted By Auror.
I think it is great you are trying to stop and...

I think it is great you are trying to stop and that you have reasons to stay safe.

What's making it hard to communicate with your cpn? What means of communication is generally easiest for...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 01-08-2019, 06:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 690
Posted By Auror.
One thing I've found helpful with regards to self...

One thing I've found helpful with regards to self hate is instead of trying to challenge it with self love/compassion is to aim for neutrality instead if compassion doesn't always work.

So instead...
Forum: General Chat 31-07-2019, 10:59 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 693
Posted By Auror.
that's so cool, congrats!!!

that's so cool, congrats!!!
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 30-07-2019, 11:12 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 728
Posted By Auror.
I can understand why it might feel that way and...

I can understand why it might feel that way and can relate. I don't have better words at the moment, but I have read and wanted to say I care and I hope things get easier for you soon. Feeling things...
Forum: Introductions 29-07-2019, 04:18 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 341
Posted By Auror.
The last rule about deleting accounts stated that...

The last rule about deleting accounts stated that they have to be inactive for one year before they can be deleted. At which you would then have to contact the moderators to request it be...
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