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Forum: Veterans Board 06-01-2016, 06:56 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,364
Posted By thescientist
Another update. Talked to Evan. He is even less...

Another update. Talked to Evan. He is even less huggy than Sam, but he did give me a sort of awkward pat thing. :P He didn't yell at me either, and I was really expecting him to. I do not understand...
Forum: Veterans Board 06-01-2016, 06:48 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,386
Posted By thescientist
I think I remember you too. You wouldn't remember...

I think I remember you too. You wouldn't remember me as I wasn't around much, but :)
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 05-01-2016, 07:59 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,644
Posted By thescientist
He kind of sounds like a fairly normal academic...

He kind of sounds like a fairly normal academic (believe it or not). I say this as a young academic/future academic/wannabe academic.

If you ban him, you'll lose his supporters too. If they have an...
Forum: Veterans Board 05-01-2016, 07:49 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,364
Posted By thescientist
Well, an update. Dennis is really lovely and I...

Well, an update.

Dennis is really lovely and I don't deserve him (or any of these guys). He claimed he understood partly, and we talked for over an hour, mostly not even about that but about my...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 03-01-2016, 10:17 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,791
Posted By thescientist
Could you come up with a script for yourself so...

Could you come up with a script for yourself so you are prepared with exactly what to say? Might make it easier if you don't have to think up the words at the time.
Forum: Forum and Community Questions 03-01-2016, 10:15 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 4,563
Posted By thescientist
Go mods. I've been on this site, on and off, for...

Go mods. I've been on this site, on and off, for several years - I guess it must be 8 years, maybe more?! (Different username before.) You guys have always been courteous and helpful to me. I was a...
Forum: Veterans Board 03-01-2016, 09:02 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,364
Posted By thescientist
Thanks. Well, I'll see what Dennis says as I'm...

Thanks. Well, I'll see what Dennis says as I'm talking to him tomorrow. I talked to him like 8 times today but said nothing about this, so now I've texted him saying we need to talk, to make sure I...
Forum: Veterans Board 03-01-2016, 03:57 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 2,045
Posted By thescientist
So exciting! Go you!

So exciting! Go you!
Forum: Veterans Board 02-01-2016, 06:17 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,447
Posted By thescientist
Maybe he didn't want to. He told you to stop, and...

Maybe he didn't want to. He told you to stop, and good - you did. Do not keep pushing it. Do not convince him to do something he doesn't want to do, or even talk or think about. Don't do that.
Forum: Veterans Board 02-01-2016, 05:47 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,364
Posted By thescientist
I don't want to go into too much detail, but I...

I don't want to go into too much detail, but I just did this thing you should never do. It's like if the director of a charity was found to be embezzling money from it. That's the only analogy I can...
Forum: Veterans Board 02-01-2016, 03:57 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,364
Posted By thescientist
Sorry to keep talking. This is definitely...

Sorry to keep talking. This is definitely deserved guilt, and it would be wrong if I were to be completely absolved of feeling bad about it. This is, scarily, how I used to feel when I had...
Forum: Veterans Board 02-01-2016, 03:47 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,364
Posted By thescientist
Icon Question Done something really bad? Like, morally bad?

Hi...

Soooo... IDK how to talk about this, but I did a bad thing recently. Like, it didn't feel to me like I was doing anything wrong at the time, but I did something highly immoral, and also...
Forum: Veterans Board 02-01-2016, 03:27 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 3,101
Posted By thescientist
You've only heard his side of the story. Yes,...

You've only heard his side of the story. Yes, I've been in this situation: as the other other woman - the one he's married to. You sure he's telling you the truth? Because it's funny how people...
Forum: Veterans Board 02-01-2016, 03:23 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,286
Posted By thescientist
Hey, I'm 25 too. I am over it too(?) but then...

Hey, I'm 25 too. I am over it too(?) but then there are weird days like this where I want to do it.

How long have you been over it? Honestly, I just think about how illogical it is as a choice, and...
Forum: General Support and Advice 25-04-2015, 03:46 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,239
Posted By thescientist
Yep. The feeling like maybe people won't believe...

Yep. The feeling like maybe people won't believe you, because the truth is ridiculous? I've found that if you just tell it, people will still find it shocking, but they won't think you're lying.
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-04-2015, 07:14 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 234
Posted By thescientist
Launch Proactive recovery!

Hi!

Just wondering if anyone wants to help me brainstorm strategies?

I'm new to this whole counselling thing. I don't have a mental illness. However, a thing happened to me a bit ago that people...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-04-2015, 07:02 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,239
Posted By thescientist
I know someone who sounds a lot like this girl....

I know someone who sounds a lot like this girl. Total sociopath. Very much worth avoiding. x
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-04-2015, 07:00 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 423
Posted By thescientist
She probably has some sort of reason for not...

She probably has some sort of reason for not telling you. Hell, I haven't told any of my colleagues I'm going for a break in a month yet, and I think my reasons for that are okay. But, this doesn't...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-04-2015, 06:56 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,102
Posted By thescientist
There is no point sticking around in a job just...

There is no point sticking around in a job just for your parents' approval! I bet they would be gutted if they knew that, and even if you think not I bet they would be happier to see you getting a...
Forum: Veterans Board 09-04-2015, 10:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,319
Posted By thescientist
Hi - are you a scientist too?! I love your...

Hi - are you a scientist too?! I love your username! (I can't quite figure out your job requirements from what you say!)

What you're asking is hobbies vs career. Which is more important to you? I...
Forum: Veterans Board 24-02-2015, 04:21 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,905
Posted By thescientist
I also came back years later as an actual human...

I also came back years later as an actual human with a career... and we seem to have the same username. Basically.

Are you me from a parallel universe? (: Hi!
Forum: General Support and Advice 24-02-2015, 04:20 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 675
Posted By thescientist
I know the media tells us it is, but is...

I know the media tells us it is, but is self-*love* really such a great goal to have? ...Getting philosophical :D
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 13-02-2015, 04:49 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,461
Posted By thescientist
Wow, congrats! I recognize your username from a...

Wow, congrats! I recognize your username from a long time ago, I think. You've come a huge way :)
Forum: Veterans Board 14-12-2014, 05:36 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,331
Posted By thescientist
Exactly. "I'm a Christian, and therefore I...

Exactly. "I'm a Christian, and therefore I think I have the right to dictate what non-Christians should do in their private lives." It definitely still 'counts'; just because he's religious does not...
Forum: Veterans Board 14-12-2014, 05:29 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,059
Posted By thescientist
The first bit? Serious talk? Do you want to stay...

The first bit? Serious talk? Do you want to stay in College or not? I'll say what I would say to any of my students. You cannot keep making excuses like "X assignment doesn't matter, Y is more...
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