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Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 21-10-2020, 01:24 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 4,279
Posted By coldsummer
Thank you, it does make sense and it is very...

Thank you, it does make sense and it is very comforting to hear... I appreciate that!
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 20-10-2020, 03:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 5,784
Posted By coldsummer
Keep in mind that just as you managed to stop...

Keep in mind that just as you managed to stop before, you can do it again - and much easier, because you're older and you already know you can.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 20-10-2020, 03:05 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 4,279
Posted By coldsummer
Should I keep sharp objects away?

I feel very shaken, very worried.
I've been going through a very good period, been doing great, didn't cut for a long time, didn't even think about it. I really thought I put this behind me!

But it...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-09-2019, 09:30 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,988
Posted By coldsummer
Ever get jealous?

I’m in a really good place in my life, I didn’t SI for a year and a half and even then, it was a relapse.
But I found, and I wonder if it’s normal, that I enjoy it when I get cut accidentally and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 03-03-2018, 02:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,018
Posted By coldsummer
Can you ever truly recover?

I feel like no matter what I do, I always come back. I brought my life to a great place and yet after years, a breakup made me fall again. And now over and over again, every several months I find...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 03-11-2017, 06:30 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,088
Posted By coldsummer
I have just entered the forum for the exact same...

I have just entered the forum for the exact same question. I think it has a lot to do with TRULY wanting to stop, which we don't really always want.
For the past year, honestly, I have been having...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 18-10-2014, 08:41 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 740
Posted By coldsummer
Well I have realized, over time, that trying to...

Well I have realized, over time, that trying to stop completely is worse for me, because when I think "I'm never ever going to do that again", I'm unable to stop, "never" is a scary word. When I tell...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 16-10-2014, 08:40 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 740
Posted By coldsummer
Genereal question

I don't know how serious this is but I thought I'd post it here because it's triggering.
I mostly stopped cutting but once in a few months I relapse. And since I stopped cutting regularly I've...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 20-11-2012, 01:45 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 415
Posted By coldsummer
Important tip for you all!

One day when I was deep in the cutting (I'm 6 months free now!) I realized that I've forgotten to take iron pills for a very long time, I was anemic even before I started cutting, and now I was...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 18-10-2012, 12:02 PM
Replies: 2,575
Views: 164,845
Posted By coldsummer
Terry Poison

Terry Poison
Forum: Fun and Distractions 18-10-2012, 11:59 AM
Replies: 2,575
Views: 164,845
Posted By coldsummer
Radiohead

Radiohead
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-10-2012, 12:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 551
Posted By coldsummer
Sounds like a bad experience, but good thing it...

Sounds like a bad experience, but good thing it moved you forward.
One tip though, I noticed that sometimes when I'm low, forcing myself to stuff like washing, grooming, doing hair, nails etc -...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 17-10-2012, 12:53 AM
Replies: 17,831
Views: 424,096
Posted By coldsummer
It's the lowest places from which we climb up,...

It's the lowest places from which we climb up, when you're low it means you have where to go up to, and you can, and you will!
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-10-2012, 12:50 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 370
Posted By coldsummer
Congratulations, that's great! Keep it up :)

Congratulations, that's great! Keep it up :)
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 17-10-2012, 12:39 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 447
Posted By coldsummer
Is it ever truly behind you?...

I've been doing great recently. After my arm was covered 24/7 for a while, I haven't cut since December till a small fail in June (not so small actually, my worst scar yet, but very brief) and since...
Forum: General Chat 03-12-2011, 01:25 PM
Replies: 538
Views: 21,109
Posted By coldsummer
No, you need a credit card to use paypal. Mine...

No, you need a credit card to use paypal. Mine doesn't work in international sites.
Forum: General Chat 02-12-2011, 11:39 PM
Replies: 538
Views: 21,109
Posted By coldsummer
My credit card only works in my country, and I...

My credit card only works in my country, and I can't take my parents' because I would have to tell them what it's for.
Any chance I can send money later in cash through mail? (I will only be able to...
Forum: General Chat 01-12-2011, 10:47 PM
Replies: 538
Views: 21,109
Posted By coldsummer
I really want to participate, but my credit card...

I really want to participate, but my credit card only works in Israel and to borrow my parents' I would have to tell them what it's for. So I can't :(
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 01-12-2011, 10:30 PM
Replies: 1,565
Views: 171,594
Posted By coldsummer
I took my friend's iPod and the screen was...

I took my friend's iPod and the screen was broken, before touching I asked if it's not dangerous like this, and then he said, "why, you want a cut? There are plenty of knives here". He knows I SH.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 23-11-2011, 12:35 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 315
Posted By coldsummer
Trying to recover... but can't

I keep trying and trying and failing. I haven't been three days clean since I decided to stop (I'm very proud of this decision, but it led nowhere so far).
I no longer live with my parents, I live in...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 23-11-2011, 12:20 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 395
Posted By coldsummer
I think one time doesn't mean you will go back to...

I think one time doesn't mean you will go back to the begining... Look at it as a year clean with just a tiny screw-up that doesn't ruin it. I don't think it should ruin the whole year's progress...
Forum: First Aid Advice 23-11-2011, 12:14 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,982
Posted By coldsummer
numbness in the arm after cutting

I did several cuts that none of them was deep, but then my arm and palm started feeling weird. Not where I cut, just in the back of the arm, the palm, the wrist just below the palm and the fingers....
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 20-11-2011, 02:18 PM
Replies: 1,565
Views: 171,594
Posted By coldsummer
"Your grandparents didn't survive the...

"Your grandparents didn't survive the holocaust and went through all that was done to them so that their grandchild will harm herself".

The worst part about this one is that it's true, but it only...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-11-2011, 03:05 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 505
Posted By coldsummer
It always feels good, that's why I do it. Makes...

It always feels good, that's why I do it. Makes me feel relaxed, and I truly love the blood.
Sadly the blood has no replacement, but sometimes I draw on myself with red pen, which is something....
Forum: General Chat 20-10-2011, 04:33 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,417
Posted By coldsummer
People have no understanding at all! They seem to...

People have no understanding at all! They seem to think it's only emo teenagers who try to get attention. At least from what I've heard people saying. I never saw anything that tried to raise...
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