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Forum: Veterans Board 16-04-2015, 05:54 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,945
Posted By Shenanigans
That sounds very stressful especially as you'll...

That sounds very stressful especially as you'll stillbe recovering from birth.

Have you considered getting a breast pump so your partner can help with night feeds? I can understand feling guilty as...
Forum: General Support and Advice 13-04-2015, 05:53 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 449
Posted By Shenanigans
I know where you are, I understand and I'm very...

I know where you are, I understand and I'm very sorry you've hit this sad part of your loss. I found my due date was extremely painful. I'm glad your partner has been there for you, even if he's...
Forum: General Support and Advice 19-01-2015, 03:04 PM
Replies: 10
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Views: 461
Posted By Shenanigans
I didn't see your other thread but I'm pretty...

I didn't see your other thread but I'm pretty sure that the "views" counter here doesn't track individual people views but just the number of times the thread has been viewed in general. So if...
Forum: General Support and Advice 05-10-2014, 10:51 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 356
Posted By Shenanigans
As far as I know, housing benefit is always paid...

As far as I know, housing benefit is always paid 2 weeks in arrears. You could always ring your councils housing benefit office and ask them when the money will be released to you.
Forum: General Support and Advice 29-07-2014, 10:15 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,397
Posted By Shenanigans
I used to feel horribly guilty, I can really...

I used to feel horribly guilty, I can really relate to how you're feeling. However much I was told it wasn't my fault, it was very hard not to find and place blame. Especially as so often you don't...
Forum: General Support and Advice 23-07-2014, 10:46 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,397
Posted By Shenanigans
I'm very sorry this happened. I know it can feel...

I'm very sorry this happened. I know it can feel very lonely and overwhelming right now. I'm sorry I don't have many words but I agree with the above - some form of counselling can be very helpful....
Forum: First Aid Advice 19-07-2014, 08:30 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 552
Posted By Shenanigans
I never thought of calling my midwife either!...

I never thought of calling my midwife either! I'll try to dig out her number (she gave it to me at the first appointment but I've never actually called her.) Hopefully, it also has her name on it...
Forum: First Aid Advice 19-07-2014, 07:39 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 552
Posted By Shenanigans
Gestational diabetes

So, family and friends have noted they are concerned I may have developed gestational diabetes during my pregnancy. I am currently 22 weeks pregnant and I have an appointment to see my midwife in...
Forum: General Support and Advice 08-07-2014, 06:21 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 363
Posted By Shenanigans
I think there is a great difference between...

I think there is a great difference between "hating" your job and "enjoying" it.

I don't enjoy my job. I don't skip to work everyday and drag myself away wishing my free time would pass so I can...
Forum: Forum and Community Questions 27-06-2014, 10:18 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 3,245
Posted By Shenanigans
Out of curiosity, does this only apply to those...

Out of curiosity, does this only apply to those people whom we know to have established eating disorders?

What if someone were, for example, extremely underweight due to a physical illness rather...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 12-06-2014, 02:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 500
Posted By Shenanigans
What do you think being put into hospital will...

What do you think being put into hospital will do? How do you perceive it helping you? It seems like you'd rather use it as an escape than to promote your recovery. It's understandable to want to...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-06-2014, 10:38 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 668
Posted By Shenanigans
Rather than having 5 threads happening at once...

Rather than having 5 threads happening at once all over RYL, perhaps try to think what the most important thing you want to speak about and number that thread one and make that thread. Once you feel...
Forum: General Support and Advice 24-05-2014, 08:16 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 726
Posted By Shenanigans
I have to agree with the above that it doesn't...

I have to agree with the above that it doesn't sound like you're giving these jobs a chance to get better. I can understand that anxiety is very difficult to manage in the workplace but really the...
Forum: General Support and Advice 29-04-2014, 10:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 361
Posted By Shenanigans
There's nothing stupid about needing help from...

There's nothing stupid about needing help from those we love and who love us. I can understand that you may be looking for a bit more independence from this routine to help you feel a little less...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 29-04-2014, 08:52 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 476
Posted By Shenanigans
I can understand that anger can often feel like a...

I can understand that anger can often feel like a protector rather than a problem. I'm glad that you have some support in the works.
Why do you feel you push people away, especially when you...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 28-04-2014, 08:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 453
Posted By Shenanigans
Can you please remove the numbers in your thread?...

Can you please remove the numbers in your thread? It is against the rules and very triggering for other members. If you need a reminder on what you can or cannot post please re-read the stickied...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-04-2014, 06:16 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 436
Posted By Shenanigans
Ah, I'm sorry, my reply above isn't really...

Ah, I'm sorry, my reply above isn't really appropriate. I apologies.

I'm sorry these thoughts and feelings from the past have such a grip over you but I'm glad that you have looked into getting some...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-04-2014, 05:59 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 415
Posted By Shenanigans
Perhaps dealing with your anger and trying to...

Perhaps dealing with your anger and trying to settle that will help you think more rationally about the situation you're in. A lot of the time, anger narrows our views and stops us considering valid...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-04-2014, 05:53 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 436
Posted By Shenanigans
I'm sorry you had such a distressing night. I'm...

I'm sorry you had such a distressing night.
I'm glad that you spoke to your friends and that you were able to stay at a friends house and stay safe. That's really good. I'm also really glad to hear...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-04-2014, 05:47 PM
Replies: 173
Views: 3,759
Posted By Shenanigans
I'm sorry things got so bad but I'm glad that you...

I'm sorry things got so bad but I'm glad that you found support and that there are plans in place for you. I think the bereavement counselling sounds very good and I hope you hear back from that...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-04-2014, 05:26 PM
Replies: 1,930
Views: 50,824
Posted By Shenanigans
If you're struggling with coordination and...

If you're struggling with coordination and fatigue perhaps just a short walk around your street or to a local shop and back is more ideal? It's good to get outside, I've always found being in the...
Forum: Introductions 21-04-2014, 05:17 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 369
Posted By Shenanigans
Hi, welcome to RYL. I hope you find this site...

Hi, welcome to RYL. I hope you find this site useful for your recovery.
Forum: Introductions 21-04-2014, 05:16 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 353
Posted By Shenanigans
Welcome to RYL :)

Welcome to RYL :)
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-04-2014, 04:58 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 972
Posted By Shenanigans
I'm sorry you're feeling so distressed. Who do...

I'm sorry you're feeling so distressed. Who do you think this will make it better for?

I can assure you that no one wants to see you hurt or gone. I'm sure there are a lot of people in your life...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 21-04-2014, 04:08 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 415
Posted By Shenanigans
What are you trying to improve in your life? How...

What are you trying to improve in your life? How have you gone about achieving these things?

It sounds like you are very angry. Do you think your anger is something you need to work on?
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