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Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 25-07-2021, 03:48 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 6,123
Posted By finding-my-haven
(I hope this reply isn't too late, but I also...

(I hope this reply isn't too late, but I also wanted to respond for anyone else who might have a similar question)

It's still recommended from a medical standpoint, as a preventative measure...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 19-01-2019, 05:43 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,744
Posted By finding-my-haven
I don't feel like I'm recovered

Tomorrow will mark 4 years of being SH free. I feel like I should be recovered right now, but it's still hard. I still want to cut myself every single day. It's overwhelming. I miss cutting. I miss...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 10-10-2018, 10:16 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,765
Posted By finding-my-haven
My head has been everywhere. I feel too...

My head has been everywhere. I feel too vulnerable since I don't have them with me anymore. And of course life has gotten very very stressful since then, so it increases the urge anymore, but I can't...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-10-2018, 04:27 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,765
Posted By finding-my-haven
got rid of my tools

this isn't a positive recovery post because i'm freaking out. I'm 1357 days self-harm free, i should be over this by now. but i still want to hurt myself every freaking day. there's a student support...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 23-01-2016, 12:13 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,111
Posted By finding-my-haven
Congrats on making it to 6 months! That's an...

Congrats on making it to 6 months! That's an awesome accomplishment. I know that for me, my therapist would only have to talk to my parents if I was in danger of killing myself (or others). And just...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 21-01-2016, 03:59 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 826
Posted By finding-my-haven
Thanks :) And nah, school's keeping me too busy...

Thanks :)

And nah, school's keeping me too busy right now to do anything nice.
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 21-01-2016, 03:20 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 826
Posted By finding-my-haven
1 year free

It's kinda stupid, but I'm really proud to say that I'm one year free from self-harm. It's been one hell of a year. I've had major physical health issues. I got abandoned by the one person who I...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-02-2015, 04:13 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 416
Posted By finding-my-haven
Recovery is one step at a time. One small, tiny...

Recovery is one step at a time. One small, tiny step at a time. So it starts by staying clean for a minute, then two, then five. You just take it one thing at a time. Don't look too far ahead, just...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 10-02-2015, 11:46 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 830
Posted By finding-my-haven
I don't know that it's that bad that it would...

I don't know that it's that bad that it would count as abuse... I'm 18, so I don't think social services would help me, but my parents haven't let me get a job, so I have no money saved up to move...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 10-02-2015, 05:57 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 830
Posted By finding-my-haven
I tried talking to the counselor, she promises...

I tried talking to the counselor, she promises confidentiality and then promptly calls my parents anyway, even though I've told her what they're like. & she can't do her job anyway. I told her I...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 10-02-2015, 05:14 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 830
Posted By finding-my-haven
Not allowed to show emotion

I haven't been on in a while, but after yesterday, I don't really know what to do. My parents have had some slightly crazy rules for a while. The chief one being, don't talk about what goes on in our...
Forum: Creativity and Reviews 03-12-2014, 12:16 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,133
Posted By finding-my-haven
For your most recent poem, I absolutely loved the...

For your most recent poem, I absolutely loved the last stanza. But I have a suggestion for your second line if that's okay?
I'm not sure that glooming is the best fit. Maybe something like "I don't...
Forum: Introductions 13-11-2014, 04:18 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 483
Posted By finding-my-haven
Welcome to RecoverYourLife! I'm glad you've found...

Welcome to RecoverYourLife!
I'm glad you've found your way here. Is there anything specific you want to talk about? Check out the different forums here, and if any of them apply to what you want to...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 09-11-2014, 06:41 PM
Replies: 343
Views: 55,061
Posted By finding-my-haven
Tigger

Tigger
Forum: Fun and Distractions 09-11-2014, 06:40 PM
Replies: 1,752
Views: 87,303
Posted By finding-my-haven
I was too exhausted to dress up for...

I was too exhausted to dress up for Halloween.

Do you watch the Olympics when they're on?
Forum: Fun and Distractions 08-11-2014, 06:48 PM
Replies: 343
Views: 55,061
Posted By finding-my-haven
Queen of Hearts

Queen of Hearts
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-11-2014, 06:10 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 951
Posted By finding-my-haven
I think it's great that you're going to give it...

I think it's great that you're going to give it another chance. And, although I hope it works out, if it turns out that this therapist doesn't work well with you, it's not the end of the world. :)...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 07-11-2014, 06:08 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,202
Posted By finding-my-haven
It sounds that you are scratching just because...

It sounds that you are scratching just because it's itchy from a legit medical reason, so that doesn't count as self harm. If you are doing it in order to cause pain or you are trying to hurt...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 07-11-2014, 06:07 AM
Replies: 28,860
Views: 875,669
Posted By finding-my-haven
Meeting you was the best thing that has ever...

Meeting you was the best thing that has ever happened to me. You've said that music literally saved your life. Well guess what? You're saving mine. I owe you the world.
Thank you for being there for...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 07-11-2014, 05:59 AM
Replies: 16,837
Views: 390,108
Posted By finding-my-haven
You pick and choose who you let get close to you....

You pick and choose who you let get close to you. And do you really like wolves?
Forum: General Support and Advice 07-11-2014, 05:58 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 435
Posted By finding-my-haven
I don't think you're going crazy at all actually....

I don't think you're going crazy at all actually. Obviously what he did is going to throw you for a loop and it's been less than a week. I do think that it would help you to delete the profiles you...
Forum: Fun and Distractions 05-11-2014, 02:43 AM
Replies: 16,837
Views: 390,108
Posted By finding-my-haven
You're struggling with SH & self-esteem, and...

You're struggling with SH & self-esteem, and you need someone to be there for you and love you.
Forum: Fun and Distractions 05-11-2014, 02:41 AM
Replies: 343
Views: 55,061
Posted By finding-my-haven
Lion King

Lion King
Forum: Fun and Distractions 05-11-2014, 02:40 AM
Replies: 1,752
Views: 87,303
Posted By finding-my-haven
I went ziplining this summer for the first...

I went ziplining this summer for the first time.
Have you gone snorkeling?
Forum: Fun and Distractions 05-11-2014, 02:39 AM
Replies: 28,119
Views: 902,989
Posted By finding-my-haven
honey

honey
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