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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice Yesterday, 11:36 AM
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Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you. I'm trying to tell myself that if...

Thank you. I'm trying to tell myself that if things get too much suicide is still an option. I don't know why I feel so compelled to act on it now. Nothing stressful is happening. I'm not even really...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice Yesterday, 11:33 AM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
That's completely understandable about the...

That's completely understandable about the activities and doesn't sound lazy at all. I would struggle with that as well. When a lot of your challenges are about coping with being around people, being...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 20-01-2020, 07:41 PM
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Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
I'm glad that your CPN left you a message. It's a...

I'm glad that your CPN left you a message. It's a shame you didn't get it, but it's encouraging that she did take you seriously and try to make contact with you.

What do you find the impact to be...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 20-01-2020, 07:12 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you xx I ended up taking it to the CMHT for...

Thank you xx I ended up taking it to the CMHT for the secretary to give to my therapist. I feel very uneasy and don't know if it was the right choice but I guess I can just get more. At least I'm not...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 20-01-2020, 04:55 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
How did it go with your CPN today? How are you...

How did it go with your CPN today? How are you doing?

I don't think losing your Zox band is a sign that you're not going to be okay. Maybe a sign that you need a new one? Anna maybe some extra...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 19-01-2020, 01:55 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
Benefits stuff is enormously stressful and I...

Benefits stuff is enormously stressful and I think a lot of us can relate to how destabilising it is. I don't know what the new PIP forms say but you can't predict changes they'll make in their...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 19-01-2020, 12:54 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you, I'm sorry it took a little while for...

Thank you, I'm sorry it took a little while for me to come back.

Things have definitely got better over the years. I think it's just a tough time at the moment and a fear of things not getting...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 18-01-2020, 10:44 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
It's good to set boundaries as to how people...

It's good to set boundaries as to how people treat you. It was the right choice to block her - it doesn't feel like it perhaps because it's unfamiliar and I so hope you don't unblock her. I don't...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-01-2020, 07:56 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you, I really appreciate that. It's so hard...

Thank you, I really appreciate that. It's so hard to know what to do sometimes? Like, I really don't want to die. I just want to get better but I'm so exhausted. So scared that things won't get...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-01-2020, 05:16 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
I'm sorry I'm still struggling to process a...

I'm sorry I'm still struggling to process a proper reply.

Things are tough. I'm exhausted. I keep telling myself it'll pass but it seems to come in waves and I feel like I'm drowning beneath...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-01-2020, 02:24 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
Ah that's good that you go to the café at the...

Ah that's good that you go to the café at the gym. Is there anything else you might enjoy doing nearby to help to get out on a morning?

It's okay to say no to doing circuits if you don't enjoy...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-01-2020, 01:51 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
Do you ever draw or make collages or clay...

Do you ever draw or make collages or clay figures? You don't have to be good at art to get a lot out of visual expression if words don't feel like they communicate enough. I think you've mentioned...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-01-2020, 07:26 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you both. Sorry my brain's a bit exhausted...

Thank you both. Sorry my brain's a bit exhausted to reply properly at the moment but wanted to acknowledge your responses <3
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 14-01-2020, 02:53 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
I think being kind or even neutral to yourself...

I think being kind or even neutral to yourself when you feel you deserve horribleness is a work in progress. Maybe instead of kindness it could be worth trying to recognise when you're calling...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-01-2020, 07:17 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
I hope it's not annoying to say and I know your...

I hope it's not annoying to say and I know your experience is your individual one, but I relate so much to your post just now. I'm so sorry things are such a battle.

I wondered how it would be to...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-01-2020, 06:03 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you both. My main fears around college are...

Thank you both. My main fears around college are having flashbacks/dissociating and not feeling in control. My college is really small and doesn't have specific support services. I'm a bit mixed...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 12-01-2020, 05:41 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
We do think you're suicidal, I don't know if...

We do think you're suicidal, I don't know if that's much reassurance but we know and understand that suicide is complex and not black and white.

Well done for seeing crisis yesterday and that it...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 12-01-2020, 04:47 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you both. I'm definitely going to look for...

Thank you both.

I'm definitely going to look for a white board with days of the will on. And colourful whiteboard pens sound awesome. I'm not really sure what my core values are, I think it'll be...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-01-2020, 08:33 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you xx I'm feeling better today I think. I...

Thank you xx I'm feeling better today I think. I sometimes... well, often... struggle to manage to do things with my day. Most of it is spent almost obsessively scrolling through my phone, if there's...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-01-2020, 08:15 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
How are you doing at the moment? Xx

How are you doing at the moment? Xx
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-01-2020, 02:01 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Thank you both. I really appreciate that. I...

Thank you both. I really appreciate that.

I definitely wouldn't think other people only deserve suffering, no. I don't know why it's different for me and is perhaps something to step back and...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-01-2020, 01:32 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
You don't sound ungrateful or pathetic. I know...

You don't sound ungrateful or pathetic. I know how it feels to feel like you're bottom of the list. Maybe it's something to express with them or your CPN when you next meet.

That makes sense about...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-01-2020, 08:47 PM
Replies: 2,074
Views: 113,243
Posted By Soft Kitty
I'm so sorry your CPN wasn't able to phone you...

I'm so sorry your CPN wasn't able to phone you today. I know how much courage it took you to reach out to her. That's frustrating that the informal crisis team have changed the time of your...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-01-2020, 08:39 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Awww, thank you lovely <3

Awww, thank you lovely <3
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 10-01-2020, 08:35 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 944
Posted By Soft Kitty
Actually surprisingly well. Thank you for asking....

Actually surprisingly well. Thank you for asking.

I took both yours and Camden's encouragement and thoughts and managed to play some grounding 'games' at work and create a safe 'corner' as well....
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