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Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 26-07-2014, 07:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 995
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
If he's harassing you, which he is, you can file...

If he's harassing you, which he is, you can file a restraining order. You don't even need to bring up the sexual abuse. He's stalking you and intimidating you by bothering you when you don't want it....
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 26-07-2014, 07:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,201
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
I think it's fairly common for abusers to stalk....

I think it's fairly common for abusers to stalk. It's a display of power and control, intended to make you feel unsafe. I'm really glad you were able to call the police. Do you have any support? Have...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 26-07-2014, 06:09 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 749
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Getting triggered but friends not getting it?

I hope I'm following rules as I'm a little drunk. But I desperately need an outlet. Friends are watching some movie called the secretary. It's so emotionally abusive and more. Portrays it as normal....
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 17-06-2014, 05:10 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 959
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Mentioning it sounds like a good idea. It could...

Mentioning it sounds like a good idea. It could also be that you're on the wrong medication, and the medication could be worsening these types of thoughts, especially since you describe them as so...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 08-06-2014, 07:11 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 959
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Do you actually have anger at people that makes...

Do you actually have anger at people that makes you want to hurt them? Or is it more of an intrusive thing, like other's have described? Intrusive thoughts are very distressing, but the reason they...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 08-06-2014, 07:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 456
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
I'm also in EMDR. I had to postpone it a few...

I'm also in EMDR. I had to postpone it a few weeks because I'm in the middle of qualifying exams and it was upsetting me too much. My therapist says it may get worse before it gets better, and so I...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 28-05-2014, 09:52 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 523
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Maybe if you can't find one that specializes in...

Maybe if you can't find one that specializes in both, you could talk with your doctors about which of the two you seem to have the most distressing symptoms of? And then get one that specializes in...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 27-05-2014, 08:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 786
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Could you tell your therapist that you don't feel...

Could you tell your therapist that you don't feel comfortable talking to your psych? It very well could be the meds, but it also could be the abuse. Or both. Perhaps try and figure out what exact...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 27-05-2014, 08:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 599
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Triggered by yet another news story... *trigger for all abuse*

I seem to get triggered by news stories involving abuse/violence a lot. Does anyone else get this? This time it's the shooter in California who targeted girls because he thought they should give him...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 27-05-2014, 08:25 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 466
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Thank you everyone. :) I feel a bit less like I'm...

Thank you everyone. :) I feel a bit less like I'm wasting my time and money in therapy now. I think my flashbacks just aren't as severe but still cause some problems. So it helps to know some people...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 22-05-2014, 12:11 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 466
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
How do you experience flashbacks?

For people with PTSD or similar problems, how do you experience flashbacks?

I was recently told I most likely have PTSD and recently started EMDR. But sometimes I doubt they are really flashbacks....
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 22-05-2014, 12:01 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 655
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
I think anything is possible, although it is very...

I think anything is possible, although it is very debated how often repressed memories actually occur. I know how frustrating it is to be unsure if you remember various traumatic things. Are you in...
Forum: General Support and Advice 30-04-2014, 02:49 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 982
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
What do you mean by competitive? I find that...

What do you mean by competitive? I find that people are usually pretty collaborative and friendly, but getting into programs can be competitive, just because funding is shitty right now. At least in...
Forum: General Support and Advice 30-04-2014, 02:45 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 834
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Have you found anything that helps you focus? I...

Have you found anything that helps you focus? I find intense instrumental music helps me. I turn that on and all of a sudden I am insanely focused and not distracted. I have ADHD and somehow heavy...
Forum: General Support and Advice 30-04-2014, 02:43 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,057
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
I wouldn't do the IUD route unless they sedate...

I wouldn't do the IUD route unless they sedate you. And if you ever consider that, definitely do not do the copper IUD. It gave me a ton of pain and made my periods much worse, not better, and...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 21-04-2014, 03:06 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 620
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Anyone that hurts you and doesn't care that they...

Anyone that hurts you and doesn't care that they hurt you isn't worth your time. Do you feel able to leave him? Are you safe? You don't deserve this at all and I hope you can find someone who treats...
Forum: General Support and Advice 21-04-2014, 03:01 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 982
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
I had to reply to your question on neuroscience...

I had to reply to your question on neuroscience as I'm getting a neuroscience PhD right now. You can do all sorts of things with it. And it doesn't really require that much interaction in grad...
Forum: General Support and Advice 21-04-2014, 02:51 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 834
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Do you think maybe you're studying more than...

Do you think maybe you're studying more than necessary? Or maybe not studying efficiently? I know I used to study constantly. I was so anxious that I thought I'd fail if I didn't study 24/7 and have...
Forum: General Support and Advice 21-04-2014, 02:45 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,057
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
You definitely want to do whatever is best for...

You definitely want to do whatever is best for your mental health. Hopefully you can work it out with your doctor!
Forum: General Support and Advice 17-04-2014, 03:19 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,057
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Perhaps you can see if you are/can become...

Perhaps you can see if you are/can become eligible for gender dysphoria treatment, which could involve hormones and/or surgery. I have zero idea how that works in the UK; I know here it has to do...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 13-04-2014, 03:24 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,398
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Alcohol can be very dangerous with these drugs. I...

Alcohol can be very dangerous with these drugs. I used to take quietapine, and I passed out and hit my head after only two drinks that I had shortly after taking it. And I can drink a lot without...
Forum: General Support and Advice 13-04-2014, 03:15 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,057
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
If you think it's gender dysphoria, could you...

If you think it's gender dysphoria, could you consider hormones that would decrease the effect of being biologically female that seems to give you distress? I admit I don't know much about hormone...
Forum: General Chat 05-04-2014, 09:09 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,971
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
I think if you are being triggered so badly that...

I think if you are being triggered so badly that you cannot take a college course that you signed up for, then you need to take a break and work on recovery until you can handle things better. Or...
Forum: General Support and Advice 05-04-2014, 09:00 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 595
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Changing your number sounds like a very good...

Changing your number sounds like a very good idea. I've done that before and it generally works, as it gets the message across that you do not want to be contacted by him. If he doesn't stop though,...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 05-04-2014, 08:57 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 387
Posted By beautiful_seclusion
Thank you so much for the information! I did find...

Thank you so much for the information! I did find the small amount of CBT I've done helpful, and this sounds like it's more focused on what I need. So I'm hopeful it will work. I'm glad it's not...
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