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Forum: Veterans Board 03-09-2014, 01:12 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,562
Posted By earthbound_misfit
ps. I didnt meant to hurt you I am not me at the...

ps. I didnt meant to hurt you I am not me at the moment, its frightening. The pain is so much I thought I ws getting better. Im suicidal as I write trying to hold on, there is so much I dont...
Forum: Veterans Board 03-09-2014, 01:03 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,562
Posted By earthbound_misfit
it just doesnt make sense to me that someone can...

it just doesnt make sense to me that someone can feel so bad/be so messed up they harm themselves badly enough to leave obvious scars, yet get better enough to go through uni and get a career by 25. ...
Forum: Veterans Board 01-09-2014, 10:46 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,562
Posted By earthbound_misfit
I dont understand, if you were cutting yourself...

I dont understand, if you were cutting yourself badly enough to have lots of scars now, how the hell did you manage to just trot on through uni and get a career? I was on this site back when it was...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-08-2014, 06:34 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 858
Posted By earthbound_misfit
The very fact that you felt/feel like this and...

The very fact that you felt/feel like this and did/do this is actually a symptom. You being frightened that your BPD is 'fake' and not like those other people with BPD actually makes you firmly one...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 05-08-2014, 02:33 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,148
Posted By earthbound_misfit
Well yes that's why I said AIMED AT those people,...

Well yes that's why I said AIMED AT those people, not JUST for them.

Budgets are being cut for secondary mental health services, and demand is increasing. At the same time they are trying to...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 02-08-2014, 02:37 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,148
Posted By earthbound_misfit
This is interesting, and seems like a good idea -...

This is interesting, and seems like a good idea - although as people have pointed out there could be issues with it in practice.

I suspect it's aimed at the group of people who have mental health...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 18-07-2014, 07:51 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
@skinnylove911 - I think as I called in great...

@skinnylove911 - I think as I called in great distress to say my friend who was going with me had cancelled, it was pretty obvious I needed help. I can explain to them until I run out of breath;...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-07-2014, 02:23 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
It wasn't me who stopped the CAT - it was them. ...

It wasn't me who stopped the CAT - it was them. They actually presented it to me as "an extended assessment to see which kind of therapy would be suitable", but all the worksheets were CAT ones and...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-07-2014, 01:53 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
They give different reasons, which don't make...

They give different reasons, which don't make sense. For example the therapist wrote (in a letter i'm not supposed to have seen - thanks GP!) that I felt let down by services so my GP shouldn't...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-07-2014, 01:38 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
I didn't know until the last minute that my...

I didn't know until the last minute that my friend wasn't coming with me. I have said this upthread.
When I phoned to say I couldn't make it, I explained I was in a bad way and suggested we could...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 10-07-2014, 01:01 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
I've missed TWO. They didn't tell me about the...

I've missed TWO. They didn't tell me about the other(s). How can I show up if I don't know?
As for 'not getting much out of them' - they only ever offer 'assessment' appointments, i've not had...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 09-07-2014, 01:54 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
They make you promise to do things you cant...

They make you promise to do things you cant really do, if you try to explain you wont manage they just get cross and say things like "well if you refuse to engage we cant help you". So you have to...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 09-07-2014, 01:47 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
Yes I did explain in advance about not being able...

Yes I did explain in advance about not being able to leave the house. I also tried to make sure someone was there with me, and explained all this to them. Also i've only missed TWO appointments,...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 09-07-2014, 01:44 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
And they DO hate me, or something weird is going...

And they DO hate me, or something weird is going on. Why have they messed me around for so long? I used to have a boyfriend who'd accompany me to appointments so I didn't miss any, but they still...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 09-07-2014, 01:35 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
Yes but if I cannot get to appointments cos I'm...

Yes but if I cannot get to appointments cos I'm too unwell, what am I supposed to do? They refuse to see me at home, and the last appt. they told me about at such short notice I couldn't arrange...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 09-07-2014, 11:34 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,798
Posted By earthbound_misfit
The CMHT hate me

I've been trying to get help continuously for almost four years. In that time I've been fobbed off, told i'm on waiting lists for therapy then discover they're lying. I get randomly discharged, or...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 19-12-2013, 01:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 514
Posted By earthbound_misfit
I'm in the support group without even having a...

I'm in the support group without even having a coherent diagnosis. Also, the mental health team refused to supply evidence for my Atos assessment (apparently they don't do it for anyone anymore,...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 22-09-2013, 04:10 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,001
Posted By earthbound_misfit
I'm also interested to know your reasons against...

I'm also interested to know your reasons against supported housing. Do you feel it would be too invasive? Would it be more invasive than staying with family?
IMO supported housing may well feel...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 13-07-2013, 02:22 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,304
Posted By earthbound_misfit
It was originally called 'borderline' because it...

It was originally called 'borderline' because it was believed to be on the border of psychosis and neurosis (depression, being emotional etc). The patients they identified as having this disorder...
Forum: Veterans Board 13-07-2013, 01:19 PM
Replies: 2
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Views: 644
Posted By earthbound_misfit
Thanks so much for your replies. I'm going to...

Thanks so much for your replies. I'm going to save this page and look at it when I feel really bad.
The one thing is I did try to recover without services but their was still pain inside I...
Forum: Veterans Board 10-07-2013, 12:04 PM
Replies: 2
why
Views: 644
Posted By earthbound_misfit
why

alone and trapped in life because I cant find a way to die. Alone because my friends dont understand and the professioanls hate me and apparently being suicidal and unable to move with a crushing...
Forum: Veterans Board 10-07-2013, 03:21 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 749
Posted By earthbound_misfit
feeling like a failure

Just keep feeling so dead and worthless inside. It seemed like there was hope before but now I'm too old, ambitions and hopes and dreams get ever more unlikely. I'm *only* 28 but I feel like I...
Forum: Veterans Board 10-07-2013, 02:54 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,048
Posted By earthbound_misfit
Well he's been assessed, and they recorded a lot...

Well he's been assessed, and they recorded a lot of the disturbing symptoms, though there were a lot of innacuracies. But there was enough to see the urgent need for intervention I'd have thought! ...
Forum: Veterans Board 08-07-2013, 12:59 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,048
Posted By earthbound_misfit
Thanks for the replies - am looking into the...

Thanks for the replies - am looking into the options. Unfortunately we are both really living on a minimal amount although hoping he gets DLA (appeal in progress) which he could use to pay for...
Forum: Veterans Board 06-07-2013, 06:36 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,048
Posted By earthbound_misfit
DID/DDNOS help from NHS?

Hiya, I'm trying to get help for a friend. He displays symptoms such as having different 'worlds' in his head and different personalities including a 7 year old child that appear when he's...
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