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Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 26-07-2019, 06:56 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,537
Posted By Horizon
So I guess this brings me back to the option of...

So I guess this brings me back to the option of your boyfriend and/or his family making an anonymous (or not) call to the police and explaining the situation so they know you are always in your...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 26-07-2019, 04:00 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 756
Posted By Horizon
People who have been subjected to abuse often...

People who have been subjected to abuse often struggle with wanting relationships but not wanting to get too close, or being afraid of the vulnerability that comes with a relationship, or they may...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 26-07-2019, 03:58 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,537
Posted By Horizon
To be honest, it sounds like your life is in...

To be honest, it sounds like your life is in danger anyway, regardless of whether your father finds out you told your boyfriend.

Unfortunately, nothing is going to change unless there is some...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 26-07-2019, 05:17 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,537
Posted By Horizon
Can your boyfriend tell someone about this since...

Can your boyfriend tell someone about this since he's not in your home with your father, and that way someone can find a way to get you and your mother safely away from him before any repercussions? ...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 26-07-2019, 05:15 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 937
Posted By Horizon
How does it feel to have told someone about what...

How does it feel to have told someone about what happened? I'm glad you were able to confide in someone even though it's incredibly difficult.

And in regards to the RAINN hotline, I agree that...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 23-07-2019, 12:55 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,537
Posted By Horizon
I am so sorry to hear about the abuse you are...

I am so sorry to hear about the abuse you are suffering. You do not deserve this. You deserve to be safe and get help. Is there anyone like a trusted school teacher, school counselor, religious...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 22-07-2019, 12:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 937
Posted By Horizon
Would an anonymous, confidential source be of...

Would an anonymous, confidential source be of help to you? RAINN has an online hotline, as well as a phone hotline, depending on how you would like to talk to someone. I've used the online hotline...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 20-07-2019, 01:03 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 937
Posted By Horizon
I am so sorry to hear what you went through. ...

I am so sorry to hear what you went through. What you say about disconnecting from reality makes perfect sense - the brain tries to protect us in any way possible, and dissociating like that is a...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 15-05-2019, 03:41 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,543
Posted By Horizon
That is a tough situation to be in; I'm...

That is a tough situation to be in; I'm sorry!

Have you encountered him at all in the time after the assault? I know it's very possible yo may run into him and am not trying to discredit that very...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 15-05-2019, 03:37 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,904
Posted By Horizon
I'm so sorry about what your grandfather did to...

I'm so sorry about what your grandfather did to you. A child cannot consent to sexual activity of any kind. What your grandfather did was an invasion and taking advantage of a child's trust in him....
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 02-03-2019, 03:48 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,198
Posted By Horizon
How are things with your therapist now as you get...

How are things with your therapist now as you get more used to her?
Have you been able to discuss any of these issues with her?
Keep in mind that you don't have to tell your therapist everything at...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-03-2019, 03:44 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 914
Posted By Horizon
I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling with all...

I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling with all of this.
It sounds like you are fighting very hard to stay alive when you don't necessarily want to stay alive, and that is incredibly admirable.
Do...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-03-2019, 03:40 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,129
Posted By Horizon
I'm sorry you're struggling with PTSD symptoms. ...

I'm sorry you're struggling with PTSD symptoms. Have you talked to your therapist about this perceived disconnect with yourself?

I think in the case of abuse, it's natural to hate your abusers,...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 02-03-2019, 03:37 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 995
Posted By Horizon
Hi Shophia, It sounds like you're in distress. ...

Hi Shophia,

It sounds like you're in distress. Can you please expand upon what you need help with in regards to quitting? We need a little bit more information about what you need so people can...
Forum: General Support and Advice 24-10-2018, 02:26 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,606
Posted By Horizon
Have you ever been screened for any dissociative...

Have you ever been screened for any dissociative disorder? If you already see someone and have not had tests for these or had anyone look into the possibility, could you ask your doctor (or any...
Forum: General Support and Advice 30-08-2018, 02:11 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,108
Posted By Horizon
I'm sorry you're having this issue with your...

I'm sorry you're having this issue with your friend.

If he wants to study together for tests and you don't want to do that, then you have the ability and the right to say to him "I would rather...
Forum: General Support and Advice 14-08-2018, 02:52 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 935
Posted By Horizon
I'm sorry to hear you're struggling! If you're...

I'm sorry to hear you're struggling!
If you're worried enough to take tests, it's an indicator something is going on.
Regardless of what a diagnosis may or may not be, you deserve help for your...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 04-08-2018, 03:30 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,006
Posted By Horizon
For some people, triggering themselves is a way...

For some people, triggering themselves is a way for them to attempt to work through their trauma - a form of emotional processing, if you will. Unfortunately it ends up being harmful.

When you look...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 23-07-2018, 06:24 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,809
Posted By Horizon
I will try to answer as best I can. If things...

I will try to answer as best I can.

If things related to traumatic situations are bothering you and affecting your quality of life, then they are a big deal.

Also, what's a "big deal" to one person...
Forum: General Chat 09-07-2018, 06:08 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 4,818
Posted By Horizon
Congratulations!

Congratulations!
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 12-06-2018, 04:44 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,310
Posted By Horizon
I am sorry to hear you struggle with this; I can...

I am sorry to hear you struggle with this; I can relate.

When I was 11 years old, I pulled out all my eyelashes and eyebrow hairs. For years, strangers as well as people I knew would point, laugh,...
Forum: General Support and Advice 12-06-2018, 04:02 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,759
Posted By Horizon
The crucial element here is that there is a big...

The crucial element here is that there is a big difference between looking up to someone and obsessing over them. You were obsessing.

When you went in on your days off, your supervisor probably...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 13-05-2018, 02:39 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 701
Posted By Horizon
I appreciate that this is a difficult situation...

I appreciate that this is a difficult situation to be in - and I've been in a similar situation quite a few times back when I was in school.

In all honesty, your teacher will most likely tell the...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 17-02-2018, 02:05 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,100
Posted By Horizon
I'm sorry to hear that your friend is struggling...

I'm sorry to hear that your friend is struggling way.
Does he have any professional support in his life?
It sounds like your friend is not ready to hear possible solutions to whatever his situation...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 04-02-2018, 06:56 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 3,259
Posted By Horizon
I'm sorry to hear you're struggling with this;...

I'm sorry to hear you're struggling with this; it's an awful feeling.

Is there anything in your life currently that is upsetting you? Are you doing any trauma work in therapy? Are you in a...
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