Do I have a right to be upset?
 

I just had surgery today on my knee... Since we found out I was going to have it they told me I would have a follow up the next monday. I asked my girlfriend right away if she would mind taking me. She said no problem. Well tonight I found out she has plans to spend the night with a friend and was expecting me to sleep over at her house. To get to her room there are a lot of stairs. I would feel uncomfortable sleeping downstairs on her couch. Plus there are stairs to get out of my house. Am I being irrational by being upset she assumed I was going to sleep over her house and made it seem like a big inconvenience that I can't. I've taken her to a couple of her appointments and slept over at her house then. I feel guilty that I won't sleep over but I also don't have a way to get there, I am taking pain killers so I can't drive.... How do I handle this? Please help me

You have an absolute right to feel how you feel - it is, after all, how you feel, and you matter, whether the feelings are rational, irrational, or a bunch of both.

My knee is doing ok....slowly getting better. My girlfriend and I are in a fight and not talking which hurts me :(

I'm sorry to hear you're in a fight with your gf, I hope you can both work it out real soon. I also hope your knee is better soon.

Get a taxi..

Problem avoided.

Sorry you are fighting. I think there was a miscommunication from the beginning. I know when my hubby had knee surgery I didn't realize how much help he needed until I was there helping him. I hope that you asked for what you needed. ((hugs))