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Auror. 09-09-2019 05:08 PM

Do you have your phone? How are you posting to here?

one_step_closer 09-09-2019 05:08 PM

I'm glad you managed to speak to a nurse and things seem to have been planned. Do you have games you can play on your phone or use the F&D board here?

chinahorse 09-09-2019 05:11 PM

I have my phone and charger thank god.

chinahorse 09-09-2019 05:11 PM

I have such a headache from this nightmare.

Auror. 09-09-2019 05:19 PM

If you have your phone you could maybe listen to music, watch something on youtube, or play some games? Or try to sleep, since I imagine you haven't gotten much sleep lately. If someone is still watching you and you try to sleep, maybe mention that if the nurse comes to help you do anything you want to be woken up.

chinahorse 09-09-2019 05:31 PM

If I sleep they write things about me.

chinahorse 09-09-2019 05:32 PM

I am very tired though.

chinahorse 09-09-2019 05:39 PM

I am still waiting. Literally cleaning a bed is more important than me.

Auror. 09-09-2019 05:41 PM

They're probably required to write things about you if you're on constant observation, asleep or awake. It usually means every 10-15 minutes they write down what you are doing no matter what. So sleeping doesn't change that, it just gives them something slightly different to write down.

I've seen the sheets before, it's usually just things like, "awake and alert" or "sitting in bed" or "sleeping." It's not any type of weird messages. You could maybe even ask to see what they write down if you're worried, or ask them to explain to you what they're writing and why.

Cleaning a bed might be because they need to admit a new patient to the ward and clear out a spot in A&E. Not to imply you aren't important, but it might be more of a life threatening situation to need a bed in A&E free. You're on a medical ward right? Unfortunately they do still have a level of triage there. I know that sucks though.

chinahorse 09-09-2019 07:20 PM

Just shredded the MH notes. And am waiting by the door. I'm going home to feed Bertie.

EyelinerAndCigarettes 09-09-2019 07:56 PM

Are you okay now, Lillie?

Sending love.

chinahorse 09-09-2019 08:06 PM

Am in serious pain but they won't give me painkillers. So I took my own and caused a massive thing. I've been in pain since the moment I got here and they haven't sorted it or listened to me when I've told them several times.

EyelinerAndCigarettes 09-09-2019 08:10 PM

I'm so sorry, is your mum coming to see you soon, could she advocate for you?

chinahorse 09-09-2019 08:14 PM

Mum isn't coming until tomorrow. I'm not staying another night.

The rmn lied to get me away from the door. Said she would get my wound sorted and see what was going on with having an assessment. But I've already had an assessment. I'm not telling yet another person.

Juella 09-09-2019 09:00 PM

I'm sorry things are so tough now. Why aren't you staying another night?


It sucks that rmn lied to you. They shouldn't have done that, they should've approach it in a more professional manner.

chinahorse 09-09-2019 09:44 PM

They said I have to stay. They haven't even got me painkillers and I've been asking for hours.

The rmn wrote more notes for the stalker. So I'm not safe here which is why I need to go. And I want to see bertie and Alice wants to play with him too. That makes her happy.

Juella 09-09-2019 09:56 PM

Oh, it must be really hard to deal with all the pain :( However, maybe if you stay, they will eventually help you.


Please, hang on in there. I don't have much helpful things to say, but I hope things will get better for you soon.

chinahorse 10-09-2019 08:42 AM

Mum was mean last night. She said I was lying. Making it up. I was difficult and nasty.

EyelinerAndCigarettes 10-09-2019 10:07 AM

I'm sorry about your mum, that must have been very difficult. Do you want to talk about what happened?

chinahorse 10-09-2019 01:27 PM

I want to see bertie. I called her to check bertie. She said I was nasty. I really want to see bertie.


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