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Doikers 10-12-2010 12:15 PM

*Spots and squishes Helen* How is your cold today Helen? I hope it's better.

MammaMia 10-12-2010 12:24 PM

*squishes Mark* Cold's still here but I think I'm finally over the worst of it & on my way to getting better :) Going to have a shower soon which I'm sure will help lots =]

Doikers 10-12-2010 02:17 PM

I went out to meet my befriender Becky. Got as far as Aldi's only to realise that I'd left my Folder for group (Which I was going to knock straight onto from Beckys) on the top of my stairs (So I'd see it and pick it up on my way out). So had a quick coffee with Becky , Made an Appointment for early next Monday and have come back to my flat to collect my folder , I need to leave in 20 minutes for Group.
Also while I was in town I stopped by the internet cafe I am trying to volunteer in and for the 3rd or 4th time running they have been shut and My Volunteering on Presciption Lady Anne is away on annual leave I think. Or snowed in Hmmm. but she works Monday,Tuesday,Wednesday so I will have to call next Monday when I am Meeting Becky at 10am,Sharron (My Nurse)at 11amand Kat my Group one to one at 12pm . Busy Monday!!! . Busy for me anyway. Verbal Vomit over.

one_step_closer 10-12-2010 02:57 PM

You do sound very busy, Mark.

How is everyone today?

I finally got my car out of my drive thanks to my wonderful neighbours who gave me a push. Now I have no excuse not to go to the gym, except my arms are covered in a rash and it would be embarrassing to go, more embarrassing than showing my scars.

MammaMia 10-12-2010 04:12 PM

*hugs everybody*

one_step_closer 10-12-2010 04:53 PM

How are you, Helen?

FlyingNy 10-12-2010 06:08 PM

Julie, if he' deserves you at all, he will understand if you want to wait, even if it takes you some time. Tell him nicely though 'ew, I don't wanna have sex with you' won't go down well. *Hugs*

*Hugs Mark, Lindsey and Helen*

one_step_closer 10-12-2010 06:19 PM

How's things, Lia?

FlyingNy 10-12-2010 06:20 PM

I'm alright thanks Lindsey. Really thrilled for my friend, she deserves happiness more than anyone else I know and she's engaged to her boyfriend who she really loves :)

one_step_closer 10-12-2010 06:25 PM

I'm pleased to hear that, Lia. :)

Doikers 10-12-2010 06:31 PM

*Hugs Julie*

*Hugs Lia* Thats such lovely news :)

*Hugs Lindsay*

*Hugs Helen*

How are you guys this evening ?

MammaMia 10-12-2010 06:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by one_step_closer (Post 2602872)
How are you, Helen?

Getting better from this cold. Still feeling bit low & really missing my best friend :-( Been wrapping up Christmas presents today lol.

Quote:

Originally Posted by IceQueenHasAHeart (Post 2602925)
Julie, if he' deserves you at all, he will understand if you want to wait, even if it takes you some time. Tell him nicely though 'ew, I don't wanna have sex with you' won't go down well. *Hugs*

*Hugs Mark, Lindsey and Helen*

Julie, I agree with what Lia has said here :)

*hugs Lia*

Quote:

Originally Posted by IceQueenHasAHeart (Post 2602938)
I'm alright thanks Lindsey. Really thrilled for my friend, she deserves happiness more than anyone else I know and she's engaged to her boyfriend who she really loves :)

Awwwww

MammaMia 10-12-2010 06:33 PM

*hugs Mark* How you doing?

Doikers 10-12-2010 06:42 PM

I'm feeling okay thanks Helen *Hugs* I have some Group homework , The Post Office seems to have lost my Christmas Tinsel :( Erp.

MammaMia 10-12-2010 06:47 PM

How rude of the PO :( Suppose the snow & that isn't helping..

one_step_closer 10-12-2010 06:47 PM

I'll send you some tinsel, Mark!

I'm falling. I'm becoming obsessed with my own death, again. I daydream about it and right now i'm trying to find some songs that will explain to my brother why I am doing this. And what I want played at my funeral. :-(

Doikers 10-12-2010 06:55 PM

I've done the whole songs for my funeral too , I have three so far :S
I'm sorry you are daydreaming about death so much *Hugs Lindsay*

The Post office put a note through my door when I was out and now they can't find my tinsel at the depot :( Oh well at least it wasn't my Mums Christmas presant from my Dad which I ordered for him to throw Mum of the presant scent , I put a note on my door and the postie left THAT at my neighbours so that's okay :)

MammaMia 10-12-2010 07:00 PM

Glad he left that present with your neighbours rather than losing that Mark :( Sucks about the tinsel though!! -hugs-

Lindsay, please try to distract yourself. I'm sorry you're daydreaming so much about suicide. It sucks majorly. Please try to get some help. I know they're refusing you to be allowed IP which I think is totally ridiculous. But you can survive this and get better Lindsay.

I often think of songs for my funeral too :S Not always due to wanting to kill myself though -shrugs-

FlyingNy 10-12-2010 07:13 PM

I do that, but like Helen, not always down to wanting to die. I just like to be prepared. But I agree with the others Lindsey, you've got nothing to lose by asking for help.

I know :) He proposed yesterday, and she was scared at first because she's been hurt so much in the past, but I played cupid and convinced her to feel the fear and do it anyway. Her fiance sent me a thank-you text this morning, although I have never spoken to him in my life.

MammaMia 10-12-2010 07:22 PM

Awww that's so cute Lia =)

misskitty112 10-12-2010 07:39 PM

*hugs ward*

Need...energy.

Doikers 10-12-2010 07:47 PM

*Hugs Felicia and makes uber strong coffee*

misskitty112 10-12-2010 08:00 PM

Thanks, Mark.
I'm trying to get a notes sheet written up for my Brit lit final. ugh.

FlyingNy 10-12-2010 08:21 PM

*Hugs Felicia*

misskitty112 10-12-2010 08:36 PM

*Hugs Lia*
How are you?

Doikers 10-12-2010 08:37 PM

I can't face learning anymore of my game tonight.
I had a bath and "Noticed" I scars ,Oh How I want to add to the collection :S
I'm tired of not cutting , It would help , even if it's just a short term thing *sigh* It's been 12 days and the hill just keeps getting steeper ( crap analagy I know )

misskitty112 10-12-2010 09:11 PM

*Hugs Mark* I don't have words, but I do hope things get easier.

I harmed like an hour ago.... to get my mind off things and to "focus" on this Brit Lit. An hour later, and I have 2 pages of notes. It's a step up, I think.

Doikers 10-12-2010 09:23 PM

I'm sorry you harmed, Felicia.*Hugs* It's not the perfect way to get things done though and we both know that . *feels like a hypocrite*

misskitty112 10-12-2010 09:30 PM

I know it's not. But it was simple, and gave me something else to let my mind drift to while I'm writing other than all the things that are tearing my heart apart right now. And it was easy.

I always look for the easy way out *sigh*

MammaMia 10-12-2010 09:33 PM

*curls up and tries not to cry*

Doikers 10-12-2010 09:37 PM

*Huggles Felicia*

*Squishes Helen* Are you okay hun?

MammaMia 10-12-2010 10:02 PM

Not really Mark :(

My best friend texted me a short while to say goodnight & promise. Although we're not talking properly still, we're still texting each other good morning & goodnight. Her cold's gone to her chest, even more worried sick about her :'(

Doikers 10-12-2010 10:06 PM

I'm going to bed .
*Night time hugs my wardies*
I love you guys n gals :) you get me through yet another urge filled evening :)

Doikers 10-12-2010 10:08 PM

Oh I'm sorry to hear about your friend being so sick , I hope she recovers soon . *Hugs Helen tight*

MammaMia 10-12-2010 10:19 PM

I hope so too :( I'm sure she will. Hope she also doesn't leave me, but that's just me being totally selfish probably -.-

*hugs Mark* Sleep well xx

Laura2.0 10-12-2010 11:54 PM

Hi wardies!
*hugs all* is there anyone here? how are you?

xxjuliexx 10-12-2010 11:55 PM

we're here

MammaMia 11-12-2010 12:02 AM

Lore, I'm here too xx

Laura2.0 11-12-2010 12:03 AM

hi Julie and Helen *waves* how are you?

I'm not feeling good, because I wont be able to afford university now and I don't have any other plans for the future.

xxjuliexx 11-12-2010 12:04 AM

hi helen how r u

and i'm okish.

MammaMia 11-12-2010 12:06 AM

I'm ill & low.

Lore, sorry you're not feeling too good, that sucks :( I take it you think you can't go to university because the talks of increasing university fees??

Julie, glad you're okay x

Laura2.0 11-12-2010 12:12 AM

Helen, yes. My mom said she wont be able to support me financially even before she knew about the increase. I don't want to get a loan from England and a student loan from germany, because that is what it would take.

MammaMia 11-12-2010 12:20 AM

Why don't you want to get a loan? You don't have to tell me if you don't want :) I got a loan when I went to university for a year, but haven't had to start paying it back yet thankfully!!!

Laura2.0 11-12-2010 12:28 AM

because I'd have to take a loan from germany and one from england even without the increased fees. Now I don't know how to get the money. My mom earns a little more than the fees and we are 5 'kids'.

Cazki 11-12-2010 12:31 AM

Hey everyone

*Hugs Helen*

*Hugs Laura*

Laura2.0 11-12-2010 12:36 AM

Hi Ian *hugs*

MammaMia 11-12-2010 12:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mute.Scream (Post 2603523)
because I'd have to take a loan from germany and one from england even without the increased fees. Now I don't know how to get the money. My mom earns a little more than the fees and we are 5 'kids'.

That sounds tough hun :(

Quote:

Originally Posted by Monsoon (Post 2603529)
Hey everyone

*Hugs Helen*

*Hugs Laura*

Hi Ian *hugs*

Cazki 11-12-2010 12:51 AM

Hey Laura you ok? I'm sorry your not doing great Helen :( i hope you feel better soon.

PoisonedApple 11-12-2010 01:06 AM

Lore, is it possible for you to take the classes your local university doesn't offer as online courses and still get credits for them from the uni you're attending?

*hugs Mark*
*hugs Lore*
*hugs Hels*
*hugs Ian*
*hugs Julie*

MammaMia 11-12-2010 01:08 AM

*hugs Ian and Crimson*


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