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Laura2.0 07-07-2011 06:15 PM

*hugs Kahlia*
*hugs Mark*

one_step_closer 07-07-2011 06:43 PM

I'm so, so scared. I have to take action tonight because I don't know how much longer I will be in control. The crisis team phoned earlier but just told me to stay distracted online and call them back later. I don't know if i'll be able to explain to them just how close to the edge I am because they don't listen.

aklx 07-07-2011 08:06 PM

*hugs Lindsay*
You don't have to take action, not in a negative way, please PM me if you would like to talk.
I'm angry at the crisis team for doing that, you need help. Is there anything I can do?

frenchhorn 07-07-2011 08:11 PM

*huge hugs Lindsay* I'm only a PM away if you want to talk. the crisis team shouldn't have been that way with you (although in a way I'm not surprised cos they are crap with me and don't listen) but please try to reach out to someone. *extra hugs*

*hugs everyone*

everyone keeps asking if I'm going back to uni in sept and I keep saying yes even though I know deep inside me it might not be the right decision.

SoMuchMore 07-07-2011 08:18 PM

*cuddles kahlia* I responded in your thread, but just wanted to give you hugs here too :)

*hugs mark* Thanks for saying im not a bad wardie... but I really do feel like I am being on right now... or just useless in general. Anyway, how r u doing?

*hugs lindsay* I'm sorry the crisis team is not being helpful. Here if you want to talk hun. Please don't do anything. Nobody here wants that at all.

*hugs laura* why are you feeling out of control? If you want/need to talk feel free to PM me.

*hugs megz* Hope that your thoughts have calmed down some.

*hugs heather* how are u hun? Feel like its been quite a while since I've talked to you.

*hugs mrs pan* how r u doing?

*hugs oliver* Can you talk to someone close to you about the possibility of not returning? You don't have to say for sure yes or no yet, but just discuss your concerns to get some reaction/support from someone you trust. (sorry.. I wish i had better advice... I know how difficult it must be to have a conversation like that)

frenchhorn 07-07-2011 08:24 PM

*hugs Laura* your not useless or a bad wardie at all.

the only person I've spoken to about it is my GP, I cant talk to my family or friends cos they all think I'm definetly going back. This is such a hard decision to make, but I feel its already been made for me by people expecting me to go back so I'm just doing that.

one_step_closer 07-07-2011 08:29 PM

Oliver, you have to do what you think is best for you. It's your life after all but I do understand the pressure that other people can put on you.

I'm going to call the crisis team in a couple of minutes, as they have requested. I hope that I get to speak to someone different because the person I spoke to before is so focused on what she thinks will help that she doesn't listen to me. If they can't help i'm going to try and phone Breathing Space.

frenchhorn 07-07-2011 08:31 PM

*hugs Lindsay* I hope the crisis team are more helpful this time.

I want to go back to uni, but I'm not sure if I'm well enough to go back this sept, but everyone else thinks I am.

PoisonedApple 07-07-2011 09:26 PM

*hugs everyone*
*crosses fingers for someone helpful for Lindsay*
*squeezer Oliver* You know if you are well enough better than others do, hun. Do what you feel is right not what you are pushed into.
*squishes Laura* Not a bad wardie. Everyone lurks and withdraws sometimes.

sorry everybody that's the best indiv I can do atm...

so.... I decided to post a thing on fiverr... we'll see if anyone wants a sketch. I could use both the money and the distraction. i'm drawing a blank so just drawing on my own is not gonna be all that distracting... maybe the directed drawing will be helpful.

one_step_closer 07-07-2011 09:29 PM

Oliver, are you able to take some time out of uni and then continue where you left off?

The crisis team weren't helpful at all, they just told me to think positively. Thinking positively isn't going to help me through this. I want to die so badly.

Louise 07-07-2011 09:29 PM

hugs everyone

aklx 07-07-2011 11:07 PM

Lindsay, you need to speak to somebody. Go to A&E. At least ring the crisis team again and insist on speaking to someone who actually listens. Don't let them just give you shitty advice, tell them they have to listen to you and they have to do something. I hate those people.

Doikers 07-07-2011 11:10 PM

*Hugs Lindsay* PM me ANY Time , seriously , please reach out.

*Hugs Mrs Pan*

*Hugs Oliver*

*Hugs Laura*

*Hugs Crimson*

*Hugs Louise*

Cazki 08-07-2011 12:18 AM

How is everyone?

*Hugs Lindsay*

*Hugs Mrs Pan*

*Hugs Oliver*

*Hugs Laura*

*Hugs Crimson*

*Hugs Louise*

*Hugs Mark*

PoisonedApple 08-07-2011 12:24 AM

*hugs Mrs Pan, Lindsay, Louise, Mark and Ian*

PoisonedApple 08-07-2011 02:11 AM

*hugs everyone* Good Night, All!

Laura2.0 08-07-2011 09:54 AM

*hugs all*
sorry that I'm not doing individuals... again. My focus isn't the best lately.

Doikers 08-07-2011 09:58 AM

*Hugs Lindsay*

*Hugs Louise*

*Hugs Mrs Pan*

*Hugs Ian*

*Hugs Crimson*

*Hugs Laura*

akita 08-07-2011 11:39 AM

I rang my crisis last night and spoke to them for about 15 minutes and it helped but now I feel the same way again as I did last night. I tried to get in to see my psychologist today but there were no cancellations. I'm really scared of being alone over the weekend with nobody to call other than the crisis team again.

Doikers 08-07-2011 01:54 PM

*Hugs Flik Flak if Okay?*


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