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xxjuliexx 04-11-2010 08:59 PM

u wanna come in my fort mark

Doikers 04-11-2010 09:01 PM

Yes may I Julie ?

Doikers 04-11-2010 09:08 PM

*Finds a corner in Julies Fort , curls up and tries to snooze*

*Night Night ward mates:)*

FlyingNy 04-11-2010 09:11 PM

*Hugs Mark* We'll all be here to support you on your birthday and you say you have people IRL who can help you through it as well. It won't be the easiest day, but you'll get through it. I know you will. And think of the day you set to commit suicide as an achievment. It shows how far you've come that that is no longer your plan.

I'm trying, it's just I don't know what to do. Her mum, her reliable, efficiant, organised mum is suicidal and thinking of leaving her dad, who she doesn't get on well with. My friend is extremely quiet and shy and I don't think she would cope without her mum. If her mum leaves, she won't come back and my friend's dad is thinking about moving to Egypt, to live with cousins she hates thousands of miles away from everything she knows. And he's blaming her for everything. I found all this out this morning, and so did she. I don't know how to help, I've said I will be there for her, and given her several hugs and a shoulder to cry on, but I don't know how much more I can do but I feel so useless.

MammaMia 04-11-2010 10:25 PM

*hugs ward*

Wow Lia your friend really has had the shittiest day. Has she any other support other than you?

Mark, you'll get through your birthday & the 9th. Try not to think about it if you can.

SoMuchMore 05-11-2010 05:18 AM

*cuddles everyone tight* thinking of all of you.

Useless at the moment.

Doikers 05-11-2010 10:12 AM

*Hugs Laura* you're not useless hun :)

*Hugs Helen* Thankyou :)

*Hugs Lia* Thankyou too :)

MammaMia 05-11-2010 11:28 AM

Laura, you're not useless at all *cuddles tight*

Mark, you're welcome *cuddles*

*hugs ward*

risenfromperdition 05-11-2010 12:45 PM

not useless laura <3

*curls up in corner tiredly*
class... woo ><
just wanna sleep

Doikers 05-11-2010 02:55 PM

Anyone about for a little chat ? even if it is going over old ground . Sorry

Louise 05-11-2010 02:56 PM

I am here.

Doikers 05-11-2010 03:06 PM

Hey Louise :) How are you? I am worried , I cut last night , don't worry I looked after okay , but I am getting more and more anxious over my birthday and the 9th as they approach and I think I am going to be asking for a LOT of support here in the ward butI don't want to ask for too much as I don't want to piss anyone off , I have appoinments at 2pm,2pm,3pm and 4pm on the 9th and my social worker is back at work and visiting me on the 8th and I have the number for a 24 hour mental health helpline for the evening I'm still anxious though , I do have Diaz which I am going to rely on on my birthday I think .

Louise 05-11-2010 03:10 PM

you will not piss anyone off, we want to support you. what is making you anxious about your birthday

Doikers 05-11-2010 03:14 PM

I don't want to come over as monopolising the chat :S
I'm worried about being 30, I probably will want to cut but I'll be at my parents so I can't really . How can I be 30 and my life revolve around , Mental illness , S.I. and alcohol ? when I am 30 I will have been cutting for 16 years ! That scares and overwhelms me.

Louise 05-11-2010 03:41 PM

It's understandable that it scares and overhelms you, but your not alone and maybe in one way it is could that you will be with your parents least you will not be alone. And also you have us.

Doikers 05-11-2010 03:42 PM

*Hugs Louise* Thankyou :)

Louise 05-11-2010 03:45 PM

be gentle with yourself and take things easly.

Doikers 05-11-2010 03:47 PM

Being hard on myself is a trait , my support workers and Nurse have said , does that come over ? I will try and be gentle to myself :)

Doikers 05-11-2010 04:06 PM

*Hugs and spots Crimson* How are you today ?:)

Doikers 05-11-2010 04:16 PM

Well I'm off to my parents for the weekend , I'd better turn off my computor in readyness , Will try and be on on my parents lappy :)


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