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chinahorse 24-09-2019 04:17 PM

I'm being discharged tomorrow. So happy I get to see Bertie.

I've lost my job.

nonperson 24-09-2019 06:31 PM

Are you being discharged with any help for when you get back home?.

chinahorse 24-09-2019 08:23 PM

Crisis team

Auror. 24-09-2019 09:27 PM

Can you get documentation that you were in hospital to give to your job? Typically if you provide documentation that your absence was due to illness they cannot fire you for not coming in.

chinahorse 24-09-2019 10:21 PM

I'm so scared now.

Juella 25-09-2019 08:46 AM

It's understandable. What exactly scares you?
*leaves a safe hug if needed*

chinahorse 25-09-2019 10:13 AM

I'm not sure I can rebuild my life again. And I haven't had to fend for myself or been on my own for like 3 weeks now.

one_step_closer 25-09-2019 11:42 AM

Of course it's scary but I think you can do this. Hopefully crisis will be able to offer you some decent support and with that other support can be brought in. Be honest with the crisis team and try and focus on small things and on being with Bertie.

chinahorse 25-09-2019 05:35 PM

I'm trying not to think of the big picture but it's very overwhelming. Crisis are coming tomorrow at 4.15. I've been snuggling with bertie on the sofa since I got home which has been lovely. I'm scared.

nonperson 25-09-2019 05:45 PM

Are there some little things you can think of instead?

one_step_closer 25-09-2019 06:27 PM

It's your first night home and that is always huge. Think about your immediate needs and Bertie's immediate needs. Other things can wait for now.

chinahorse 25-09-2019 07:00 PM

I'm going to put jarmies on and maybe have tea or hot chocolate now. And tomorrow morning I will go and buy bread and fruit. Then probably nap until crisis comes.

chinahorse 25-09-2019 07:01 PM

Oh and it's dressing change and shower day tomorrow and I may treat myself and blow dry my hair.

tamobhuuta 25-09-2019 07:02 PM

Ooo fancy! I'm glad you are looking after yourself. I hope the crisis people are helpful.

chinahorse 25-09-2019 07:03 PM

I really can't do real life again. I'm panicking

tamobhuuta 25-09-2019 07:07 PM

Try not to panic! (Because that's easy!) You can take things slowly and it's fine to need lots of support. You will need time to stand up.

chinahorse 25-09-2019 07:09 PM

I can't. I have no job or money and no way to pay the bills and owe my parents a lot of money.

tamobhuuta 25-09-2019 07:15 PM

Can you apply for benefits, just until you're ready to work and find a job?

one_step_closer 25-09-2019 07:24 PM

It's ok to just think about the immediate here and now at the moment Lillie. So PJs, tea, etc. You can discuss all the big things with crisis.

chinahorse 25-09-2019 07:29 PM

Yep. Tonight. Just focus on tonight and right now.


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