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Darkwings44 24-10-2019 09:28 PM

last weekend my mom said that my uncle is going to be here for thanksgiving and im not sure if i want to see him and probably my cousions are coming to my moms house too and i asked if we could have a separate day just our family because i dont want to hurt again like i did last time the whole family was there...... (i didnt tell her the reason why i didnt want them to come over... i just ask her if we could have a dinner seprate form theirs) she said no... :-(

Pi.R^2 31-10-2019 04:31 PM

This sounds really difficult. Do you feel like you could try to tell you mum the reason you don't want to be around them?

Darkwings44 02-11-2019 09:02 PM

No..... I doubt she would be understanding about it..........

Pi.R^2 03-11-2019 04:48 PM

What makes you think that she wouldn't be?

Darkwings44 03-11-2019 09:29 PM

She doesn't believe me.......

Pi.R^2 04-11-2019 09:46 PM

Have you told her about this before then?

Darkwings44 09-11-2019 04:17 PM

I tried to but she didn’t want to listen to me.....

Pi.R^2 24-11-2019 06:44 PM

That's really tough. I'm so sorry that she isn't willing to listen. I know it's thanksgiving pretty soon now; are the plans still the same?

Darkwings44 26-11-2019 08:52 PM

yeah..... im thinking of going and just having a tool at the ready to self harm just in case if something happens.....

Pi.R^2 14-12-2019 12:02 PM

So sorry you didn't get a response to this at the time. How did it go? I hope you managed to stay safe.

Darkwings44 14-12-2019 02:58 PM

Well....i had a little breakdown and broke my sisters mirror with my head because of people that I had to be with and even self harm didn’t do much for me on that day

Darkwings44 18-12-2019 09:07 PM

Yeah....... I got yelled at.....my dad thought that I had done that for another reason...... he had no idea what really happened to me........ and now I have think about Christmas.........I’ll make another thread about it though.......

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