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Eclectica 06-01-2009 05:10 PM

They're both great friends and I could see why they'd think such, but it seems ok now... I think. I'm pretty sure. But still that bit of doubt.

Pomegranate 06-01-2009 05:12 PM

Hopefully in time their attitude and support will convince you that it is ok. The doubt will fade eventually although I appreciate that doesn't help how you are feeling now.

Eclectica 06-01-2009 05:16 PM

Well one of my best friends seems really supportive n stuff about it, but yea. I'm just being silly kinda thing.

ravynsoul 06-01-2009 05:31 PM

*Hugs Nicole* - if you need to let it out, feel free to pm me.. i may worry, but I'd rather worry than have something eating away at you.. if you know what I mean...

Lucy - You may not be able to get this anymore.. but please try and stay safe.. hope you get home ok.

Emma - thanks for checking in - chores went well.. just putting my horses out in the field for the day. *hugs* sometimes it's hard to get out.. you got dressed and made the effort in that sense... there's something... how are you doing now?

Katrica - *offers hugs* that sucks that people weren't supportive at first.. hope things get better for you with your friends.. it may just take time if they're not used to dealing with mental illness [not that it is right, but it sometimes is that way]

Katie - how are you doing now?

*Hugs to everyone else*

Just on my lunch break right now, so I thought I'd check in..

Pomegranate 06-01-2009 08:15 PM

Ravyn- Not sure tbh. Struggling with temptation to get drunk and SI. My housemate convinced me to go out for a bit with him which distracted me for a while, but yeah. My friend jokingly hit me and on the area I SI'd and it has sort of split open again and not sure what to do :(

How are you doing?

Damnation. 06-01-2009 09:44 PM

*Yawns and crawls in* I'd say 'morning', but...I'm several hours too late =B.

Emma: x_o I still say you ought to go to A&E, and get your cuts seen too properly, especially if it's split open again. Better to be safe than sorry, no?

Lucy: o.o It's best to get home soon as you can. I know you said you needed to get out of there, but really, spending money you don't have's only gonna make things worse D:

*Sneaks over to Nicole and hugs*

Ravyn: Glad to hear that work was okay, and hope you managed to ignore the triggeredness D:

Kat: It's understandable that you're having doubts, but really, even if you're not so sure you can talk to him, I'm here, as are the rest of us on RYL, you know? <3

* * *

Actually not doing too bad, today. Went to bed in a good mood, and ... woke up in one as well o.o;;. Faltered a bit once or twice and started to feel a bit meh, but for the most part, I've actually been okay! Even better, all the triggeredness I felt before I cheered up last night - ignored! No SI-ing for me yesterday! Let's see if I can make it two days in a row ;o

Pomegranate 06-01-2009 10:07 PM

Well done Danya thats great! Glad you are doing better.

Pomegranate 06-01-2009 10:08 PM

And I know logically that you are right, I really do. I just can't make myself atm. I might ring my GP tomorrow and get an appointment with the nurse or something.

Damnation. 06-01-2009 10:09 PM

Emma: Thank youuu ^___^. And hm, well I guess making an appointment would be better than doing nothing

Mary Anne 06-01-2009 10:29 PM

Can somone please stop the world, I want to get off.

If anyone has a spare cuddle I really need one.

*curls up in a ball on the floor*

sorry, hope everyone is safe *hugs*

Damnation. 06-01-2009 10:30 PM

*Hugs Mary Anne muchly*

Snuffles 06-01-2009 10:31 PM

HI guys.. I'm ok. Thought I'd just go to bed, was pretty tired.

*cuddles everyone*

Feeling ok. Might have a break from here for a few days. Just am getting too triggered by ED stuff... am scared I'm going to relapse.. though I think I'm slowly on the way there >_< Take care everyone ok. I'm really sorry *cuddles* Hope I can be around more soon =)

Eclectica 06-01-2009 10:33 PM

*Hugs all*

And yea, it's always best to get injuries checked out. If left they could get severely infected (like I was silly enough to do and cuoldn't walk ._.)

Mary Anne 06-01-2009 10:43 PM

Thanks for the cuddles, having the worst time just now, just can't see myself ever feeling better.

I second Katrica's comment - get injuries checked, most of us have probably not got one seen at some point and suffered the consequences (it is funny now but wasn't at the time, not si related at all - i broke my leg aged 12 and didn't get it seen to, I have an extremely high pain threshold, now I have a messed up leg. It doesn't bother me but I wonder how on earth I never got medical care for it! - sorry, random and off the point, typing to keep myself busy)

Snuffles - take care and look after yourself, there is nothing to be sorry for, take some time to yourself *hugs*

mouse in darkness 06-01-2009 11:40 PM

Hi. Thanks for the hugs all *gives hugs back* Sorry I can't reply to all right now.
*Leaves hugs for everyone*

Snuffles 06-01-2009 11:50 PM

I'm back already... I've kinda left another forum coz Helen said it wasn't helping me. Which is true. So I kinda need RYL if I don't have that other forum. Will just have to learn not to get too triggered... *huggles*

ravynsoul 06-01-2009 11:58 PM

*appears*

*cuddles, hugs, and huggles everyone*

*disappears*

mouse in darkness 07-01-2009 12:19 AM

*Hugs* Ravyn and Katie

MammaMia 07-01-2009 12:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mouse in darkness (Post 1333895)
*Pokes head out of denial tent* Cool snow, never seen it. Wish I could. Hope you are having fun in the snow Helen. *Pops back into the denial tent leaving hugs and hot chocolate for all*:wow:

I did have fun in the snow yesterday, I think we had some overnight...well not sure but it was definately still around today.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ravynsoul (Post 1334013)
Helen - Snow! sweet :) How much snow do you have?

We had a fair bit....:) *hugs back*

Quote:

Originally Posted by .Poisonous.Cyanide. (Post 1335556)
Helen: ;o Nice. Enjoy that snow!

Thanks hun :D

Quote:

Originally Posted by Accidentally Abstract (Post 1336305)
*joins Kahlia curled up in the corner*

*joins in*

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kahlia1981 (Post 1336336)
Lucy, I think the corner expands to fit in anyone who wants to be there.

That's the magic of the tent...well another part of the magic ;-)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Accidentally Abstract (Post 1336344)
I'm glad. 'cause I don't want to be kicked out. =[

We won't ever kick anyone out of here :(

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kahlia1981 (Post 1336440)
I'm going to build a Schrodinger's cat's box in here if no-one minds ... hmmm, perhaps one that changes size whenever someone wants to get in ??

What's one of those? :wow:

Quote:

Originally Posted by ravynsoul (Post 1337080)
*sends hugs around*

Returns cuddles...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mary Anne (Post 1338514)
Can somone please stop the world, I want to get off.

If anyone has a spare cuddle I really need one.

*curls up in a ball on the floor*

sorry, hope everyone is safe *hugs*

*cuddles tight* hope you're doing ok there hunni

Quote:

Originally Posted by Snuffles (Post 1338786)
I'm back already... I've kinda left another forum coz Helen said it wasn't helping me. Which is true. So I kinda need RYL if I don't have that other forum. Will just have to learn not to get too triggered... *huggles*

*cuddles tight*

Sorry I totally disappeared for several hours. Started back at uni on Monday which was really good to be fair. Um on Sunday night I fortnately fell asleep at 12.30am and woke at 8.30am and was on time etc for uni :D Didn't have a ****ing clue what she was on about mind you? So I need to approach her for help but she came across to me quite rude in an email I sent to her about missing lectures && trying to catch up. Plus I know she's just gonna think I'm stuipd & what not =\ Plus I didnt hand her last report in >.< Then last night I went to bed at 9pm and slept until 5.45am but nodded off and woke up around 8am considering it's my day off- it's well fab that I woke then. Did have a two hour nap this afternoon mind you :S So bit worried about going to bed tonight.....

Also not doing too great with my thoughts right now :sad: :blush: :blink: :pinch: A guy who was in my year at school died on Sunday morning following a car crash (the driver & other passenger got off lightly) and it's just knocked me for six. I was already feeling bit low & trying to bring myself back up. But this just made my thoughts all scrambled and think about various ways to harm & shizz. I don't think I will...and haven't so far. But it's ****ing with me. Least my thoughts are good&bad atm rather than just bad. But I quite agree with what Emma said to me on msn...I just need a bit of 'down' time and not to make it my personal crisis....But not sure how to do that either =\

Okay I'll shut up now ;)

ravynsoul 07-01-2009 02:14 AM

*Hugs everyone*

Helen - I think Emma has wise advice... *cuddles*

Nicole *hugs back* how are things going?

Katie - Hoping we can help you and keep you from being to triggered.

Katrica - how are you now?

Dayna - Congrats on yesterday! And that you've been feeling in a good mood today... hope things are still good.

Mary Anne - *cuddles and offers teddy bear*

Emma - how are you now? Did you end up going to A&E?

Lucy - Hope you're staying safe wherever you are


*leaves hugs for everyone else who hasn't checked in recently.. hope all is well*


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