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not_so_insig 15-06-2018 01:10 AM

Seven years baby!
 
Another year has passed and I have achieved some things. Not only that but I am another year free of SI (making it 7 years free!)

1. I had to have a change of cpn. I coped fine and am honest with my new cpn however due to a bad experience I am wary. So far she seems ok.

2. Although I abused alcohol last year I managed to stop myself and so far this year I am continuing to use alcohol responsibily. In addition when I was abusing alcohol I didn't make it too prolonged.

3. I continue to go swimming most weeks (I don't go during half term because the kids stress me out).

4. I meet with my friend most weeks for coffee. This is a good thing because I struggle with getting out of the flat when I am having a bad day.

5. I didn't end up IP last year.

6. I have bed and I haven't binged once last year.

The only downside is that I have still yet to do anything regarding learning Italian. I am also secretary for a sports day for people with disabilities but it's not going ahead again this year once again but when I did it I managed the workload fine.

So that's it! I feel as though SI is part of my past and that's something that I will never do again. As I have said previously once I get to 10 years free I will post on Facebook (the majority of people on there don't know that I SI ). Here's to another year free!

Straight 3 15-06-2018 02:19 AM

You should be proud of all you've achieved!!

tamobhuuta 15-06-2018 11:19 AM

Brilliant! Well done on staying free and everything else.

not_so_insig 15-06-2018 11:54 AM

Thanks Straight 3 and tamobhuuta.

one_step_closer 15-06-2018 02:29 PM

You have achieved so much. I'm so glad you've made it to 7 years! Very well done with everything.

not_so_insig 15-06-2018 04:33 PM

Thanks Lindsay.

Buttons. 15-06-2018 04:36 PM

Well done :)

not_so_insig 16-06-2018 01:05 AM

Thanks Buttons

not_so_insig 25-06-2018 02:03 AM

Yesterday I had part of my reward: a baileys latte. It was very good. Still got to do my main reward however.

not_so_insig 25-06-2018 04:07 PM

My main reward is a day where I watch a dvd, paint nails, put perfume on and consume snacks. I used to buy something in the end I couldn't decide. Plus I am slowly running out of room. So I decided to reward myself that way.

one_step_closer 25-06-2018 04:52 PM

I'm glad you enjoyed your Baileys latte, and I hope you have a nice reward day when you have it.

not_so_insig 25-06-2018 05:12 PM

Thanks Lindsay.

Pi.R^2 25-06-2018 10:03 PM

Hooray!! Well done, what a massive achievement, I hope you enjoy your reward :)

not_so_insig 27-06-2018 01:53 AM

Thanks Jenna.

Spoons 01-07-2018 11:59 PM

You are doing great and should be super proud of yourself!

not_so_insig 02-07-2018 02:23 AM

Thanks Spoons.

not_so_insig 17-07-2018 12:25 PM

A bit late but I managed another month free! I am now 7 years 1 month (& 2 days) free.

one_step_closer 17-07-2018 12:40 PM

You're doing absolutely great Dawn. Well done. :-)

not_so_insig 17-07-2018 08:50 PM

Thanks Lindsay.

Pi.R^2 17-07-2018 11:16 PM

Smashing, well done :)

not_so_insig 18-07-2018 12:03 AM

Thanks Jenna

not_so_insig 15-08-2018 02:57 AM

I am now 7 years 2 months SI free!

one_step_closer 15-08-2018 04:04 PM

Huge achievement! Especially with how you've been feeling recently. Very well done. :-)

not_so_insig 15-08-2018 05:59 PM

Thanks Lindsay. I almost cut myself the other day but didn't though.

one_step_closer 15-08-2018 07:50 PM

I'm sorry to hear you came close to self harming but huge well done with managing not to. You are amazing and so strong.

not_so_insig 16-08-2018 01:27 AM

Thanks for your kind words Lindsay.

not_so_insig 15-09-2018 02:12 AM

I am 7 years 3 months self injury free today! Halfway until another reward.

one_step_closer 15-09-2018 03:55 PM

Dawn you are an achievement master! Well done!

not_so_insig 15-09-2018 06:42 PM

Thanks Lindsay.

not_so_insig 15-10-2018 02:48 AM

I am 7 years 4 months free of SI today!

one_step_closer 15-10-2018 04:32 PM

Great stuff!

not_so_insig 16-10-2018 01:45 AM

Thanks Lindsay.

not_so_insig 15-11-2018 01:28 AM

I am 7 years 5 months free today! If I get to 7 years 6 months then I can reward myself. I have ideas what to get though.

Eska 15-11-2018 12:45 PM

That's awesome, Dawn! What are you thinking of getting as a reward?

not_so_insig 15-11-2018 07:55 PM

Thanks Eska. I am thinking of getting a year's worth of Bakewell puddings (they post one a month) amongst other things. Or a DVD of Simon and the witch.

one_step_closer 16-11-2018 05:35 PM

Well done Dawn. :-)

not_so_insig 16-11-2018 08:53 PM

Thanks Lindsay.

not_so_insig 15-12-2018 01:10 AM

I am another month free today! That makes it 7 years 6 months. I am going to reward myself but I am waiting until after Christmas because Christmas is expensive and I don't want to go into debt. Also I might have inspiration for my reward after Christmas.

nonperson 15-12-2018 01:29 PM

Really well done, Dawn. =)

one_step_closer 15-12-2018 02:08 PM

WooHoo! Huge well done.

not_so_insig 15-12-2018 02:40 PM

Thanks nonperson and Lindsay for your congrats :-D

not_so_insig 01-01-2019 02:42 AM

I managed 2018 self injury free!

one_step_closer 01-01-2019 12:07 PM

Fantastic achievement Dawn, very well done!

not_so_insig 01-01-2019 03:15 PM

Thanks Lindsay!

tamobhuuta 02-01-2019 02:19 PM

Huge well done x

not_so_insig 02-01-2019 03:00 PM

Thanks tamobhuuta

glitterfairy 05-01-2019 10:26 AM

This isn't meant to be judgy but why after this amount of time do you keep counting months free?

I've only just realised today I'm 6 years free and that's only because Facebook reminded me.

You say your 7 years 6 months free but are you really *free* if you keep hanging onto it???

not_so_insig 05-01-2019 03:43 PM

Because I find it useful to keep count of my recovery. For some people counting doesn't work but for me it does. I suspect that once I get to ten years free i will probably stop. Also unlike Facebook where I don't post there due to the fact that I have non rylers on there and therefore the majority of people don't know that I SI I have nobody to share it with who will understand what it's like to be free.

Also if you read my first post then I have made progress in other areas I make a new post every year to evaluate it.

not_so_insig 19-01-2019 10:43 PM

I am a bit late because I haven't been coming here but I am another month free.

one_step_closer 20-01-2019 01:54 PM

Well done Dawn, you are so strong.


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