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BoundNoMore 06-07-2012 03:48 PM

dont know what to do

We admitted my friend to a MH hospital yesterday and I need to go to today because she tried to kill herself yesterday and it was my fault and I am feeling really am not feeling safe but I think friends can be admitted together. IDK what to do. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xxhappydaysxx 06-07-2012 04:09 PM


It must be hard to know that your friend is so distressed at the moment, but being admitted could really help her to overcome some of the things she is struggling with.
When someone tries to end their life, people around them often blame themselves, and look for things they could have done better, or analyse things they have done wrong. The thing is, no one is in control of someone elses life. Even if you had a huge arguement with someone, and they tried or did take their life, it wouldnt be your fault. For someone to commit suicide there is underlying issues within them which makes them react in that way. Therefore, it is not your fault she tried to commit suicide, it was something she did because she is unwell at the moment.

If you are feeling unsafe, could you talk to your team? Like your doctor etc?


BoundNoMore 06-07-2012 04:13 PM

I dont have a team

Stellata 06-07-2012 04:17 PM

Why do you feel it was your fault?

BoundNoMore 06-07-2012 04:20 PM

ugh.... honestly...

because we did a robo trip (got high on cough medicine) and it was my idea.

Stellata 06-07-2012 04:21 PM

She had the choice not to join in. Why did you do it in the first place?

xxhappydaysxx 06-07-2012 04:23 PM

Maybe go to your doctor? They can offer some support as you said you are feeling unsafe. xxx

BoundNoMore 06-07-2012 04:38 PM

Stellata: to forget our problems for a while.

happy: I am home alone and I can't drive.

xxhappydaysxx 06-07-2012 04:55 PM

Could you make an appointment for sometime soon? x

BoundNoMore 06-07-2012 05:02 PM

by then I may be better....

everythingwillbeok♥ 06-07-2012 05:09 PM

hey there sweetie :)

it's good that you can see a time when things will improve, hold onto this and don't give up, you're worth more than that ♥

stay strong x

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